My boyfriend compares me to another girl?!

[Anonymous]

Over the past little bit he's dropped hints that this girl he had a week fling with on a cruise ship is better looking than me and better in bed. First of all this drives me CRAZY because everyone tells me I could do much better than him.. But anyways he just told me how she was so into it in bed; more so than anyone else he's ever slept with. He told me that she has an amazing body but has an ugly face and not as great of a personality as me, but it still bothers me. After he was talking about how he finds he's attractive he also added that I've probably slept with better looking guys than him, ouch. I could tell he felt bad after because he said he doesn't want to bring that sh*t up again because he loves me but its still a little upsetting for me. She lives in a different city and has a boyfriend but I mean I can't help but think that he thinks about we when we are in bed or whatever, I mean he's talked about her an awful lot and she was the last girl he was with before me. What should I do to move past this because I don't want to feel sh*tty about it anymore and have to think about it at intimate moments.. Always wondering what's on his mind.

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He didn't cheat on me! This was a few months before we started dating! I just hate the fact that I'm compared to some girl...

[Anonymous]

Honestly, is he dumb or what? Obviously mentioning this girl and how good she was and all isn't going to do any good to your relationship.

Either give him a dose of his own medicine by mentioning better looking guys that were better than him in bed (notice how women are constantly told not to do so not to bruise their male's ego !), either simply confront him straight out and ask him WHY in the world he mentions her? What's the point? So she was great so what, why does he feel the need to tell this to you, what are you supposed to make out of this?

[Opinion Owner]

oh, and the fact that you mentioned that everyone tells you you could do better than him, maybe he is aware of it and feels insecure and is trying to make you feel worthless by telling you this kind of stuff. If that was the case then he would be rather immature.

[Anonymous]

You have every right to be pissed. It's one thing if you're talking about exes and she comes up, but to continually bring this girl up AND compare her to you in HER favor is not cool. How would he feel if you told him your ex was better in bed, had a bigger d***, and was hotter? He'd feel like sh*t that's what. Either have him clean up his act (and ego) or move on to someone that truly appreciates you for who you are.

[Anonymous]

If everyone is telling you that you can do better, maybe they're right?

[HYPNOSEX]

Tell the jerk off to go find miss drops em for certain and pisss off, why are you wasing your time with this tit, sorry but if she was so good, mabe she dropped him cos he had a small d*** and wwas useless in the sack. look for anew man hun. he is not worth it.

[THE_Godfather]

Tell him to go have sex with someone else. You're not going to be continually compared to the other girl.

Good luck, have a nice life.

[Prettygurl12]

Um...so he said he had sex with another girl and you're still with him? What the f*** is your problem!? Dump his ass!

[Fpsrussia]

It means he loves you haha. just go sleep with him in bed and teach him a lesson if you can