Why does my boyfriend always have a picture of another girl as his phone screen saver? He knows I don't like it

[Anonymous]

I'm dating this guy he is older than me, he has a picture of this girl he knows on his screen saver phone. It's always her, never pictures of me, he does not even have pictures of me in his phone. He knows that I don't like it but keeps it there. He says the girl is like a daughter to him..BUT SHE IS AROUND THE SAME AGE AS ME! They never hangout. The only reason why he knows her is because he used to drop her off at the movies and the mall because she is my cousin's best friend. He compares me to her sometimes and says "well she does it" "she does it that way" It makes me so mad, but he does not care. What do I do? That is not his daughter, they do not have a bond. But when she wants him to drop her off, or buy her something I guarantee you he will get it or do it for her. But it makes me so mad...seriously! HER PICTURE IS ALWAYS ON HIS SCREEN SAVER WHEN HE OPENS HIS PHONE. HER HEAD IS RIGHT THERE!. OMG WHAT DO I DO?

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He said he knew her since she was 14 and I'm just jealous. Am I wrong? He is a lot older than me.

[DoctorSex]

guys keep home made sex videos and pics of previous girls as an ego boost forthemselves...but if he's got it as his screensaver then woow...your being taken for an idiot, it shows me that your very insecure yourself and you need to learn to have more inner confidence in yourself.

Let this be a lesson to all girls, if your insecure, seeking strenght from a relationship ain't going to work, you need to love yourelf before your expect another to love you...because predator guys will pick up on this weakness and use you for it.

Yours faithfully,

Doctorsex.

[ninpu]

It could be that he's playing mind games with you, so that youd do whatever he wanted to keep his attention. or he could really be f***ing that girl behind your back, or maybe he's telling the truth, there really isn't much information to determine his true intentions.

but, my money is on the assumption that he's f***ing the girl, and playing mind games with you to keep you hooked.

[jessicafrigginmarie]

Drop him. Hate to say it, but he is either lying to you, or not intrested in you like he should be. Seriously drop him before it gets worse. Staying with him is only letting him know that you'll put up with being walked on like a doormat. No one can give you anymore logical, honest advice than that.

[Asker]

I asked him about it and he said I'm just jealous and he knew her since she was 14

[jessicafrigginmarie]

It shouldn't matter how long he has known her. If he has so little respect for you that he would leaveit on there after you told him how it made you feel then you don't need him. Its not jealousy on your part, any girl would feel that way. Sometimes people can be blinded by love, and not see that they are being disrespected. But stop begging him, let him know that you're a strong woman and you refuse to be in that kind of relationship. Do that, or continue to be unhappy, because he will never chang

[MizzWilliams]

Leave his ass girl...hes playin you for a fool...hes not worth it if he's gonna do that sh*t...I have learned that there are some stupid people who don't deserve sh*t, and others like you that deserve the best...dont settle for less when you kno you can get more : ) I hope this helps.!

[Simulacrum]

Their relationship makes me feel uncomfortable. It seems there is something strange going on, and his disrespect for your needs is alarming. I would advise you get out of this relationship.

[Asker]

When I asked him about it he said I'm just jealous and that he knew her since she was 14

[Simulacrum]

I can understand that a guy may have female friends, even close friends, but what he is doing is bizzare. He is showing you that she is his special girl and that you will never compare to her. I think let him go, he is not worth it.

[Longshot]

I would say he is insensitive to you. And you should explain that to him. If he doesn't get it and can't grant you a favor as small as that, what's going to happen when the really big issues come along.

It may be time to move along.

[Asker]

I talked to him about it and he said I'm just jealous and he knew her since she was 14