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This question is for those who actually do something, not just sit there and reply with 2-3 words.
Do you try to get the girl/guy with your humor, making them laugh and have a good time, or do you try to use your intelligence and knowledge to woo them? Or do you have another style?

I know most people use both, but there's always one that is more predominant than the other.

I personally tend to use humor more often, it makes the flirting more fun.

I never thought of myself as good looking, but a neat beard, new hair style, cool and laid back personality and good style and being 6'2 apparently does make me really good looking (According to every girl i know), so based on everyone i know, it seems iam very good looking, but that doesn't serve me well in the dating world, sure i've dated before, i get looks a lot, i have very attractive women eyeing me and smiling at me sometimes, and the compliments, they're there. especially when iam at college and among college aged girls.

but the girls i always attract are either : 1- unattractive, 2- really hot but taken, i haven't attracted a hot single lady in a long long time... not to mention women seem much less likely to talk to me than to my average looking friends ( again what people say not my own opinion) .

Hot girls though... they dont seem to have a problem getting a man, and no guys aren't intimidated enough to stay away from them it only exists in fantasies and on this site, there is no such thing as "she's single because men are afraid to talk to her" it doesn't exist there is always a guy who will, heck i will if i know she's single and i've tried before (but turned out to be taken ) .

So iam asking a simple question : who has dating easier attractive men or attractive women? (easier as in more likely to be approached and talked to and not just stared at from afar )

Lazy people are usually looked down upon and thought of as losers even though they usually get paid the same, get the same grades and have the same quality of life as everyone less while putting in much less effort.

Iam kinda lazy not gonna deny it especially when it comes to girls, i find texting all the time, approaching random girls or girls in general and always trying to impress quite exhausting and not my style so i dont do it freuqently (and some never ), sometimes i think to myself that iam at a disadvantage, i dont seek womens approval, i dont try to meet women daily, i dont try to impress every woman i meet, i dont show them how much i care and i dont make an effort to make their life fun and interesting... etc

but at the same time that hasn't really hurt my chances at all, if anything i still get plenty of attention from girls while guys who do all of the above are normally at a disadvantage and work hard to maintain the level of attraction women have for them, and it works for women too just look at how some women dont put in much effort but the guys still try to seduce them and attract them as hard as they can and offer them all sorts of gifts and compliments.