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Am I overthinking this? After all, the legal age of consent's 16 here, so it should be alright, right? There shouldn't really be anything wrong with it, not from a legal perspective anyway. And I'd be orchestrating this in the youngest locality in the UK (Slough), one which doesn't have a university any more, no more clubs or bars- there's literally nowhere in town for young people like us to socialize. But still, I dunno; of course, to avoid any potential liability issues, it'd be safer to go with '18-25', and leave it at that. But the thing is that, like I said, the university which used to be in our town relocated more than a decade ago now; and the overwhelming majority of single girls in town who're even remotely attractive, and possess the slightest bit of intelligence, are sixth-formers or college students, in the 16-18 age range. And without them, I know full well from the few singles events and single groups I've given a try in this town that it'd be a total sausage-fest- there's very little chance it'd be successful without "lowering the bar", so to speak. So, what d'you reckon? Should I go with the '16-25' age range? The '18-25 (or 18-29)' age range? Or just abandon the notion of orchestrating a dating event (or several) entirely, and just do what every other Indian guy here (who doesn't want to get involved in the criminal sex trafficking rings, that is) winds up doing if they're single for long enough- i. e, cave into to the pressure, and accept my fate, along with the arranged marriage my family's oh-so-desperate to line up for me?

Back in the beginning of 2015, I was suicidal because I couldn't find another virgin to lose my virginity to. I was overdosing on my meds and kept going in and out of hospitals.

I was on this dating platform, OKCupid, and this girl messaged me. She contacted me first and I started talking to her. I explained my situation and she didn't believe me. She then avoided me.

I ended up being hospitalized again for a suicide attempt. After I was released, I messaged her and sent her a picture of my hospital wristband as proof that I was hospitalized. She then believed me and we started messaging again.

Come to find out she was 16. I was 20 at the time, but looking at the state laws in the state she resided, she was of legal age for sex.

We started talking more and more and even snapchatted. After a few months, we agreed to meet up. She was hesitant at first but she decided to go through with it.

I drove 7 hours all the way to her state to meet her. We walked the mall, had an ice cream, then we went to the hotel and we took each other's virginities. I even still have the pictures of the blood stained sheets when I popped her cherry.

The day after, we spent the entire day at the amusement park. I fell in love with her I thought. It was all affection and holding hands and kissing. I thought I found my first girlfriend. Later before we departed, she told me she did not want anything serious it shattered my heart.

I stopped talking to her for two weeks. Then I messaged her again and she said she was glad I contacted her and she had locked herself in her room crying at one point.

We started talking again, and at one point she told me I was the best guy she ever met. Although she led me on a little, she said she did not want a relationship. I was crushed.

Later, I started to question if she really was a virgin and even called her up crying. She reassured me I was her first.

Eventually I made her mad and she told me to never talk to her again.