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I honestly do not like her husband. And they are not even legally married.
I want her to leave him to come live with me.

He treats her like his personal maid, while he lays in his bedroom watching anime or action movies. he's also not in good shape.

She has a 3yr old child with this man.
He has married before he met my sister, but is now divorced (apparently he. Was cheated on by his wife). They are about 13 year age gap. She met him when she was 18, she's currently 20 years old. He provides her with things and food, including cigarettes.
I feel like if she leaves him, she will have a job so she will be able to provide and earn things for herself and not depend on him.

He was the reason she dropped out of highschool. She wanted to get her GED and a job but he stopped her because he said he will provide for her. She also wants to learn how to drive but he is so lazy. She still has her permit.

That's how my parents' marriage were like since the time I was a toddler all the way to my early-mid 20's. The physical altercation was always my father turning a heated verbal argument (yes my mother had her list of insults towards him but that's no excuse to get physical) into physical. It would off course ended up my mother crying. Yet, they're still together and my mother claims they now have a better understanding of each other and according to her there is still love even after all those horrible arguments and him getting physical on her. She partly blames herself for being the verbal instigator and that he was just retaliating in his way. No excuse in my view.

Now I'll be turning 30 on April of next year and this is definitely not the type of marriage neither my boyfriend nor I want to have. We think it's very abnormal to insult or get physical with someone you love, someone you choice to be the mother/father your child.

I don't believe in insulting a guy nor stressing the heck out of him but even so, that's also not an excuse for a boyfriend or husband to lay a hand on me ever (even worse if a child is a witness to all that). If so, I would be in my rights to press charges on him and it would end up in either a break up or divorce. I treat that the same as if cheating happened: it would be over right on that same day.