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The other night this guy I have been friends with for tons of years and I got together. We hadn't talked for around 6 months. Whenever we get together he asks me if the last person I hooked up with was such and such guys (he always asks about my crushes too). He never gives details about people he's been with, but he tells me a number. I don't know why he does this. Last time we even talked about threesomes... which I have done one before. He is curious to try one, but isn't sure if he can handle it?

I feel this is an odd conversation for us. We both had feelings for each other at one point, but we don't right now. He used to always try to hook up with me.. I always denied him. He doesn't try to hook up with me anymore fyi.

It's not that I think he's a bad guy either, he just has a lot to figure out. We've said before that we'd have great sex... but that was yeeaarrss ago.

Is this some form of friendzoning? Or is this competition? I thought it was friendzoning for a while... but, the other night I found out he had said he was seeing someone when he really wasn't. So odd. He told my best friend that he was seeing a girl as a "friend" thing, but told me that they had this amazing connection.

I'm starting to get the feeling... he might have some suppressed feelings for me? That he feels the need to compete against me? I used to think he wanted to make sure I'd moved on from him, but now I'm beginning to think that he's a little jealous even? I don't know.

What do you all think?