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I'm so sick of my husband and i want to revenge, i want to hurt him so bad so that might help him to wake up and realize his mistakes. He quit his job and he is drinking every day and beat me and keep my daughter In her room if i didn't give him money. I work my ass of to get money but he just calls me useless women. He even beat me if i refused sex and still have it even if i like it or not after that. I can't do this anymore.

My husband took our whole family including his mother, aunt, aunts boyfriend, our 4 daughters and our adult daughters boyfriend on a Christmas cabin vacation. During a board game our 14 year old daughter became frustrated, stormed off yelling and back talking. My husband and I were stunned and embarrassed. My mother in law and husbands aunt went to the kitchen and my husbands mom very loudly was saying "My kids never acted this way...", I went down to correct my daughter and my husband came in angry, stopped me and told me to go upstairs. The aunt was telling the MIL to shut up, blah, blah. I began to cry and left the room. My husband came up and began a tirade that included saying we all are spoiled bitches, all women are bitches and cunts. Every woman in the world can't get along. Men are better than women... All while our daughters ages 9, 10, 15 and 23 were in earshot. The 23 year old was bawling and took the kids out. She later said the youngest of the family said if Dad hates women will he hate us too when we are older. He was out of control and had been drinking all day. He said he would never ever feel the same about me, his mom and aunt again. He makes the money so he tells us what to do. He proceeds to say the children come first, his wife, mom and everyone else is second. He threatened to take the kids Christmas Day and leave. He gets up The next day and we are all expected to act as if nothing happened. I have lost respect and love and don't think I can live this way anymore. He is very controlling and because he is the breadwinner expects us to not voice or express dissatisfaction of any kind. I have a chronic illness that there is no cure for and I can't live up to his expectations and feel I'd be better off divorced and sharing custody of the kids. By the way, in front of others and the public he is thought of as the best guy on the planet and I'm told every day how lucky I am to have him. I will be the bad guy in the breakup publicly. So torn and so

Ok so me and my ex had been dating for 7 months when we broke up. I am currently 7 months pregnant and we've been broken up for a month now. He woke up one day acting completely different and distant. I asked him what was wrong but he said he was just stressed. He started going out drinking and being with his family more. I finally understood that he had probably fallen out of love with me. I don't know why but he did, maybe another girl, family issues, etc. He told me that I make him unhappy and that we were better off without each other. We were together on and off for 3 years and had planned on getting married and having a baby. He picked a ring out and starting using pills to make his sperm count higher. He said he wanted to be in our daughters life no matter what. So he wants the child but the mother. I feel like an incubator. This wasn't unplanned and he seemed so happy when I told him. Then one after we broke up, he turned around and said he doesn't think y the baby is his. I NEVER cheated so this hurt very much. We lived together but he's moving out, putting his stuff in storage, and staying with his sister... isn't that a little much? He blames me for our breakup saying I stopped loving him, I changed, I started hating him, I never listened to his problems etc. I was never told about these issues at the time and if so I'm pregnant and my mind is constantly on the baby and work. I just wanted my pregnancy to be one of the happiest times in my life and to share it with the one i started it with. Now it's full of stress and heartbreak. I just don't understand what I did so wrong to have the man i was building a future with leave me...

hi. i have this guy who just over a year ago came to my door with a bottle of wine. our daughters were friend so he knew of me and told his daughter he was going to knock on my door. moving on , after a few weeks hed often turn up with a bottle of wine, bearing in mind he only lived down the lane to me. we became quite good friends and liked each others company. he made it clear that he wasn't interested in any relationship with any woman due to being hurt a couple of times in the past. i was not interested in him in that way either. sometimes he would get a little drunk and land up sleeping on the sofa, a couple of times he came up and got in my bed but never attempted to try anything which i respected and had no problem with.
after a few months something tragic happened, there was a fire at his house and sadly his father burned to death due to being bed ridden and not being able to escape. This turned the whole family world upside down. they were a big family all living under one roof. i took in my friend, his two daughters and grandson for a few months, the couple of days following the fire my friend was beside himself and took to drinking heavily (he was quite the drinker anyway). i tried to console him whenever he broke down and on one occasion i cuddled him and suddenly realised i had feelings for him more than just a friend. to cut the story short, his family moved into another house while my friend stayed at mine and we shared a bed but still just as friends. he went on to rebuild his family home and this week they all finally was able to move back.
over the past year we have had our ups and down as friends, we have been on holiday together and my friend let on to him that i had feelings for him. on our return he asked me about it and i confirmed it. his reply was no no we can ever only be fr

I have been with my boyfriend 4 years. He goes away to work for three weeks and is Home for two. We started to drift apart about a year ago. When he would come home he never spent any time with me and he started staying at work an extra week. I got pregnant and he said he was stressed. He started going out drinking and to the bars while away at work and would come home and not call me when he said he would. He just said he passed out. He started to get interested in things he wasn't into before and he worried about his appearance and even started to lose weight. I started to become suspicious that he was cheating. The woman I thought he was cheating on me with worked with him and he said they were just friends. But I later learned he was not only texting her but calling her. When he was home I took his phone to take a picture of him and our daughter and I saw two pictures of her saved in this photos (clothed). It seems strange to me, can they just be friends? I don't believe him and my trust is gone. We've been going through the process of seperating but he's begging me to try and make things work and says he will change but he's said it time and time again. Need an opinion.