Slept with my married coworker. Need advice?

[Anonymous]

I work at a small law firm in LA. MY boss hired his daughter as another attorney at the firm. Since she has been working with me we have become friends. She used to tell me her issues at home with her husband. Most of the time I just explained it away as a women vs male thing. I went on vacation for 2 weeks. She would text me during my trip. I do remember sending her a few pics of what I was doing and two of them had me shirtless. I'm single and work out a lot; therefore I have a nice body. Mostly friendly conversation, some work related and a few personal issues. The last 4 days of my trip she never texted back. When I got back to work i asked her if everything was ok. She says yes but I don’t believe her. Since then we have been talking as usual but she won’t bring up her personal issues at home anymore. She has been more touchy feely as of lately too. As of last week i noticed she wasn’t wearing her engagement & wedding rings. She was wearing another ring that looks like her wedding/engagement rings. Last Friday (while her husband was on a business trip) she wanted to out drinking and play some pool. So we went. Everything was going great until I took her to my place. She was passed out drunk and my place was around the corner from the bar, where she also parked her car. Before I fell asleep she woke up. So I stayed up with her and talked. That eventually led to her feeling me up and then us making out, then sex. I know that was wrong but I was drunk too and she was looking very sexy in her business attire ( tight blouse and skirt).
I’m not looking to ruin her marriage. But I think she is ready to divorce him. In reality i don’t want a long relationship with her. I've seen her mom and if she looks anything like her mom when she gets 50 then I don’t be with her when she gets that old. She looks good now but when she gets older... not so much. In reality she’s not even my type. I'm totally confused & need advice.

[HopeforTommorow]

I think it's not okay to sleep with married/in a relationship kind of women. People underestimate the pain it brings to all parties involved. But what you did was not only your fault. It was mostly her's. Everyone needs to learn that a so is a commitement. You commit to tell the person you want to break up before engaging with others. It's unfair to cheat. She should have some spine and ask for marital counseling or a divorce when the going gets tough. You should have said no, but it's not that bad. It's her fault mostly but it would help in the future to try to calm a girl in that state and ask her if she knows what she is doing. It has to be a decision, not a slip. People shouldn't "slip" in a marriage. You seem like a good guy so i advise you to stay away from married women in the future, as this can STRONGLY complicate your life. You can be their friend and listen to their feelings but abstain from any romantic emotions untill she settles her's and she makes a decision. Hope this helped bro ^^

[imissedit]

Number one u gotten too close to her she was likening u. u were not professional enough. how is work can u keep! that job. I would find somewhere else to work that crazy energy. stopmhanging out with her things already been out of hand if u didn't want to ruin things in her relationship then y was u with her so much u are wrong stay away. If so worried about her future appearances then y u fuck her. u don't make sense. that's not a good look u on risky behavior u can get fired talk to her and stop all of this there's too many women out there to do that dirty shit especially in LA. u don't have to do all of that

[This_is_my_username]

God I feel like you are in a part of the "good wife" seriously bro go find someone else. ASAP