Search Results: forgiving an ex

My ex re-adds me on Snapchat?

So, one month ago my ex and I had an argument. We kinda insulted each other also and I said things I really regret. But he said stuff that hurt me, too. Since then, he told me that he wasn’t interested in me anymore and...

nanny0427

Xper 4 Age: 32

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What's the use of an apology if the damage is done?

Sometimes one is forgiven for more serious offenses (ex: betrayal of trust, stealing). In an extreme case, there was a woman that forgave her repentant rapist. The guy still got sentenced but the woman no longer carried...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did my ex tell me he loves me? My ex is dating a new girl, but he told me he still cares for me and loves me and that it won’t ever change?

He moved on right away, this girl looks like a less hotter version of me. She’s his type, but not enough to make me scared that I could lose him forever. recently he started to be nicer to me. We talked on the phone for...

g-skizzle3

Xper 4 Age: 28

He moved on right away, this girl looks like a less hotter version of me. She’s his type, but not enough to make me scared that I could lose him forever. recently he started to be

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Have you ever felt you wasted the time you spent with an ex?

I'm realizing just now I wasted two years of my life with my ex, two years I could have dedicated to my current girlfriend. It's a wonder she forgave me for that.

Jean-Marie_Céline

Influencer Age: 28

Letter from my Ex

Letter from my Ex Dear Sweetheart, I've gone over in my head a million times what I wanted to say to you. There is just no perfect way to say it. What I did to us was wrong. I was wrong for hurting you. I knew three days...

Wowgirl30q

Editor Age: 37

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Is it weak that I still want closure from an ex from 5 years ago?

After we broke up (she split with me but I wanted her to) she did something unexpectedly cruel and extremely callous. I wrote her and email three years apologizing about what I did wrong, what she to injure me and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to handle an ex crush who disrespected my best friend if he talks to me?

2011-met an attractive man online. Talked for a month. Met in person. Went to dinner. Two long tight hugs after dinner. Few days later he rejected me for "stressing him out". I had just gotten out of my very first...

missmann87

Xper 4 Age: 38

A letter to my mother

I premise this isn't a proper myTake, but it's more of an impotent outburst I have to put down somewhere. I can't tell this directly to my girlfriend because she's dealing with enough crap already. I can't give this...

Jean-Marie_Céline

Influencer Age: 28

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IS IT TOO LATE?

He is 25 and this is his first relationship ever. I'm 23, and my previous relationship was very toxic. My ex was emotionally and physically abusive. He lied to me a lot, very manipulative, and cheated on me. It made me...

maya01

Xper 3 Age: 30

I don’t know what to do?

so long story short my girlfriend went back to college and broke up with me to focus on school about 2 months after going back. said she still loved me and such just had a hard time balancing stuff. i then find out she is...

kaito11

Xper 5 Age: 27

Family & Friends

What would be your opinion or thoughts on the following scenario?

A man has this strong resentment towards his mother. He refuses to forgive her for the following situations: she told him very little about his real father even after his real father died. He was never apart of his life...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it wrong to never forgive someone?

A few years ago, my ex came back into my life after breaking up with me because of her religion. We didn't speak for two years, and that night we were on the phone almost 6 hours. After a few weeks of talking, I told...

Anonymous

(25-29)

A few years ago, my ex came back into my life after breaking up with me because of her religion. We didn't speak for two years, and that night we were on the phone almost 6 hours.

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Traumatising Tinder date. Why was he like this?

Started speaking to a guy on tinder two years back, wasn't that attracted to him but he was funny so continued to talk. Decided to just talk to him as a friend but dated other guys during this period, he would ask me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you believe that people are either “good” or “bad”? Was my ex a “bad” person?

I used to have a relationship with a man named Man (yes, Man). Before I met him, I thought that being human was complicated and so I was much more likely to forgive. I questioned if was a good person if I wasn’t capable...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ladies how can I get my ex back after breaking her heart?

I said some really ugly things when I got drunk and dont even remember... the more I didn't want to talk about it the more it ate her up... finally she pulled the trigger... I wrote her a letter about 3 weeks after...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do most people think that the way they treat their partner is justified in their mind?

I’m an understanding person, especially for the people I love. I’m always trying to see the bigger picture or the other persons point of view. I don’t like burdening others and I don’t like being controlling. I know I’m...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is my boyfriend testing me or is he just playing?

Me and my ex got into it... He lefted me in the house for an hour to be in the car with these two girls. I was crying and I had a break down. This is not the first time he's done some evil crap. He can go out with these...

Princessshy410

Xper 2 Age: 34