Search Results: how to know if he's just infatuated

Ok so here's the scenario a childhood friend of mine is really into this girl he's been talking to her for a while now like 2months they are close she calls, asks him for help, they have lunch at work together, talks about her problems, jokes, giving gas money, flirts, even go out from time to time all the stuff a couple would do right? He asked her out she told him she's not ready for a relationship...

She talks to other dudes I don't know if she is intimate with other dudes but I knw for a fact she's a flirt (she asked me to hangout I assumed it was gonna be me, my friend, & her) I texted my friend to ask where he was he said he was away taking care of some business he wasn't gonna be home. I told her something came up & I couldnt make it. She gets mad & calls him a hoe when she sees him conversing with another female but she will dwn right flirt with other guys at work (or at least entertain the idea)

He's asked her out multiple times throwing his feelings out there & she shuts him the fuck dwn, then expects him to be there for her no matter what its scary tbh I'm afraid he'll find out she messing around with another guy & he loses his shit

I've told him all of this we always lookout for each other but the boy is infatuated with this girl I don't know what it is he dropped all his side pieces, he dont really hangout no more, he in his feelings/mad all the time.
(I had I slightly similar exp. when I was younger which is another reason this pisses me off)

What kinda relationship is tht? If you like a girl/boy a lot would you wait for her to be ready? What if when she is finally ready your not the one she wants? Is chasing after a love that might not be for you worth the risk, the hurt, the exposed feelings & lost opportunities at something real? if so how long would you wait?👀 For guys/girls who participate in this behavior do you ever feel guilty?