Search Results: is marriage the goal

I'm a 24 yr old premed applying to med school this year, entering school in Fall 2021. I have 14 months of 'freedom' left. Long story short, I've read that female docs have difficulty marrying if they wait til after school to prioritize relationships. What is the best way to about finding a long-term bf/fiance? Another goal of mine is to learn about investing in stocks, and become a content creator, and I also really want to get a job after COVID, to save as much as I can to invest into index funds. I have 0 debt from undergrad, and may graduate med school debt-free (if I get into my state school). I'm trying to learn about finance now so I can set up my future financial security. I also think now is an ideal time to date. I hear all this stuff about how a women is most desirable in her 20s, xyz... I often get mistaken for a high schooler though, I look quite young for my age but still. I know fertility decreases as you age, etc. I read an article which featured comments from female physicians who regretted waiting so long to prioritize relationships. I also read articles stating that men don't want someone who makes more, so my hope is that I can find a man that makes a good amount, because I won't be having any income in med school, or residency (50k before tax, I think), so hopefully even though I'll eventually make 6 figures, he won't be scared off. Oh, I should probably add that I'm an abstinent Christian who doesn't believe in cohabitation. So the 'stakes' are higher for me to choose the right person, because I won't get to see them 'at their worst' or 'in their natural habitat' before marriage. Any tips? Should I 'target' a 30 yr old, a 34 yr old? Should I try to just look for people my age? Where should I be meeting people who are looking for long-term relationships/marriage? And my church doesn't have eligible bachelors, it's family-dominated.

We are in a long distance relationship with someone living in NZ and is from my home country only. It's been a month now. And he asked me what my goals are and I said I'm not sure but want to do mba in my home country and work here where as he is in NZ and is calling me there. He said me I should take loan to pay for fees of NZ masters and come there and stay with him and do masters in NZ and that I shouldn't worry about job thingy. So bdw, I'm an introvert and have less friends and he was like name three friends and I just have one best friend to be honest and he asked me why I don't have friends. I am very reserved and he has problem with me not having friends stating how will I grow despite having a good job and that I won't be able to survive in corporate world. He said me thrice that in home country, you're paid less and abroad you're not and that I should come to NZ. He asked me why i, 23 year old girl not getting promoted and i said that it's p been a year and a half. He is 24 and asked me why no wfh for me and I said the reason that I don't have access to those softwares at home and will resume office after lockdown gets over coz here still everything is shut. He said that he'll leave me if he gets someone like him. I asked him why not leave me right away and he said that he doesn't have anyone rn. He don't have time to find one. He wouldn't leave me because he loves me. Such contradictory statements. He suddenly talked about pre-nup that he'll make me sign before marriage stating I won't get a single penny after divorce that made me wonder why he talked to me like that. He aslo mentioned about the break up part and asked me if I want to break up and I said that if you have problem with me, you should break up and make decision right away. Then he says he doesn't wanna break up. I totally don't understand what to do. Should I break up?

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Siren: Confident. Sensual. Erotic. May be noncommittal.
Sophisticate: Elegant. Graceful. Dignified. Rational.
Boss: Confident. Competent. Assertive. Calm. Unemotional. Emotionally independent. May be judgmental.
Bohemian: Independent, pleasure-seeking, confident, goal-oriented, free spirit.
Coquette: Confident. Freedom seeking. Passionate. Assertive. Outspoken. Adventurous. Emotionally self-sufficient. Doesn't easily become attached. Demands respect.
Goddess: Serene. Otherworldly. Spiritual. Sensual. Grounded. Introverted, but enjoys attention and connection.
Enigma: Soulful. Spiritual. Reclusive. Aloof. Quirky. Very introverted. Doesn't crave attention.
Diva: Warm. Sensual. Leader. Competitive. Seeks marriage.
Empress: Seeks marriage. Inspires partner by showering him with attention. May be prone to jealousy and possessiveness.
Sensualist: Nurturing. Affectionate. Sensual. Spontaneous. Warm. Down-to-earth.
Lady: Nurturing. Affectionate. Warm. Motherly. Caretaker. Emotionally available. Pampers partner & feeds his ego.
Ingenue: Charming. Sensual. Possesses womanly sex appeal & girlish innocence. May be codependent.
Gamine: Youthful personality. Playful. Spontaneous. Compassionate. Creative. May be sexually inhibited, codependent, and/or prone to depression, but may also become fully mature & grow into her power, becoming creative, sensual, spiritual, and wise, meanwhile maintaining a youthful personality.

Which of these personalities seems most attractive to you in a marital partner? I had to put more than 1 archetype in each option because there weren't enough options, but click the option that contains the archetype you find most appealing.