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In 7th grade I became friends with this boy and never had any feelings 4 him. Until a friend said he was cute which I disagreed to atm but I started paying a bit more attention to him & noticed that it seems like he likes me? (stares, teasing, smiles, body contact, talking, treating me diff, etc) I was in denial of my feelings for him at first but I soon gave in and now I find myself with a crush (maybe more) on him. Now, we’re in 8th grade and he’s in my classes again and he still acts like he likes me specifically. My friends were completely convinced he had strong feelings for me too. Until, the convo came up about who we like & he was guessing everyone in our class and then stopped and said “wait.. it better not be me” but he didn’t say it seriously and I couldn’t pass up this opportunity so I boldly said “but it is” and then he was smiling but said he only saw me as a “friend” and I should consider this as a rejection. After that I ofc said it was a joke and I didn’t like him. But he said he liked a girl in 7th grade, still does that was in our class and gave me hints with the # of letters in their name and the only people who matched up w that was me and this other popular taken girl who he knows nothing about. I guessed her and he said it was but doesn’t know why he likes her. .-. Anyway, this was surprising bc prior to that, his bff was telling me he likes me and “has feelings for me” but he said it was a joke but it also wasn’t? And after that guessing game mishap, a few days later his bff gets the chance to talk to me alone. And he took that whole time telling me more about my crush & giving me info I NEVER asked for + trying to like persuade me to like him and date him in a way. “Imagine if you were together” “give him a chance” are some quotes from that convo. It was confusing af because I never even brought him up, he did. (THE REST OF THE TEXT IS IN THE PHOTO SORRY I TALK TOO MUCH SO IT’S SO LONG LOL)

I see some guy's complaining because women in general don't ask men out. And if the invitee is suppose to pay for the date asked for and planned that leaves them still being the ones paying for all the first dates. They scream IT'S NOT FAIR!!! The problem today is some people including some women think we should be completely equal despite the fact that we are too different to be completely equal. For one thing biologically we are made different which is gonna make us think differently and behave differently. Also until men can start carrying and delivering babies we will not be equal. I think you can deal with asking women out. You don't have to fork out a bunch of money. You can find cheap or free places to get to know her.

Now if you still think it's not fair then don't ask women out. Find a way to get them to notice you and hope for the best.

And before the guys that complain about these issues jump my a$$ because some women think we should be equal in every way too. Just know I don't agree with them either. I know there are some things men are better at and somethings women are better at generally speaking.