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I don’t understand. Call me an attention seeker but I seem to be invisible to guys. I am in my twenties and guys have never really spoken to me. I have hardly dated or been in a relationship. I’ve tried online but haven’t really had any success. In person interactions are a joke. I lost a fair amount of weight and seem to still be avoided by the opposite sex, while a lot of other women I know get a lot of suitors. What is wrong with my body? I always believed that was the issue. I’m told I’m attractive but men seem to avoid me like the plague.

I've always been one who believes that if there is no emotionally romantic connection or physical attraction, a straight male and female are capable of being good friends. I personally have close male friends whom I've known for years who I enjoy hanging out with and getting a male prespecive/advice on certain things. Though there have been 3 that have come to say they liked me, and there was a time where I thought I was falling for 1, we kept things mature in talking feelings out and all occasions except 1 did we test things out only to learn that we're meant to be friends. I'd also say that I have a somewhat equal amount of male and female friends and have 2 relatively close guy friends that I have NEVER had any interest in (and No, they are not butt ugly.)

However I've been seeing this question pop up a countless amount of times and I've been reading otherwise and seeing "rules" around the topic, like it's diffrent if the two are single/if both are in a relationship/or if one is single and the other isn't. I've also read that if one thinks that tgey are merly just friends... they're dead wrong as in some point of tge friendship one or tge other has developed a crush.

What's you're take on it? Are YOU able to keep a friendship with the opposite sex without falling for/fantasizing about him/her?