Search Results: breaking it off with a guy

Guys, Is my crush playing me?

I have had a crush on him for 2 months and we used to text each other and ask questions about each other. He would text first and send me funny memes etc. then it all stopped when he got a girlfriend but we would still...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I went on a date with a guy and now I'm unsure what to do as he lives miles away, help?

I matched with a guy on tinder, he's 2 years older, pharmacist and he lives 65 miles away from me. We matched as he was working in my area and he went on tinder while here. He messaged me saying "sup" as he thought I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is difficult for me to get over a guy who even if he never meant to have a relationship with me , I cared for him a lot?

Could it be beause he was my first for everything? The guy died 3 months ago suddenly and unexpectadly of a cardiac arrest during a bike ride. I met him 5 years ago and even though he always told me he never wante to have...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I thought it was: Innocent Until Proven Guilty?

I came home one evening with my girlfriend. We had gone to Michaels (the arts and crafts store) for something to do and to get out for a bit. This quarentine has beenrough on all of us. I live with my Boyfriend and he...

FlutterFox1738

Xper 4 Age: 42

Break Up & Divorce

Breaking up with a guy?

How do you break up with a guy without being reeled in? I have been with this guy for 10+ years. I want to break up with him though. He does not pay attention to me at all. He barely calls, he barely texts and he moved...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Why does he get mad when I give him space?

I’ve been talking to this guy on and off for about 8 months now. He’s always doing things and normally will ask me to hang out. Lately , he’s been wanting me to ask to hang out because he feels like he ask more than I do...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is he still watching all of my Instagram stories?

I was briefly seeing this guy and long story short, we had a falling out over something minuscule which resulted in him deleting me off Snapchat and us breaking things off/no longer speaking. But he still has me on every...

Cb475

Xper 4 Age: 28

Is this guy a player?

I [20 F] dated him [26 M] for less than 2 months. I thought everything went smooth, but after he dumped me, I started getting second thoughts. So here is a basic timeline for what happened over the 2ish months: Date...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My girlfriend is grounded. What should I do?

So first off, let me explain by saying that I am not in my 20's. I used that age in case I wasn't allowed to sign up (if you can even see that since this is anonymous). Anyway, I (M15) have a long distance relationship...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What are some red flags I should be on the look out for?

Little backstory: I suffered a lot of emotional and physical abuse over the course of years which has left me thinking there is something wrong with me. 1. My second relationship was with a best friend I thought I could...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can I forgive myself for being so weak with women when I was younger?

Full disclaimer I’ve proudly noticed myself change in the 10 particularly last 5 years. I better understand my personality and why I developed some nice guy quirks that left my vulnerable in my youth. I know my breaking...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

I'm “dating my ex” HELP? Do you think he genuinely wanted to connect again?

Me and my boyfriend of two years broke up at the end of last week. He broke it off with me because he couldn’t hand the consequences that his addiction and breach of trust created in the relationship. I took full...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How do I (F21) get over the feeling of being “replaced” after my ex-boyfriend (M 23) jumped into a new relationship?

So me (F21) and my ex-bf (M23) were on and off for a while. For the most part, he was doing the “breaking up” and then he would run back to me multiple times. He was the first guy I dated that told me he “loved” me so I...

holly6090

Xper 7 Age: 26

Jealous or insecure that boyfriend has female friends?

I've been dating this guy for a few months now, I've been on and off about thinking about breaking up tbh. its his birthday today and we are meant to be getting food later when i finish work, however, he had a female...

Pinupchickx

Xper 5 Age: 29

My heart is still breaking after 2 years, can someone please explain to me why I feel this way?

I met a guy on holiday when I was 16 and from the second I saw him my heart just stopped. He was 3 years older. We are from different countries. He walked by me on the beach and it was like he was in slow motion. A week...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Does a controlling relationship get any better possibly when married or in future?

i been with my boyfriend for about 5 years now at first he was very nice and sweet and caring then soon we intro our partners to family and then official. So he is very controlling always calling me well too much...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating long distance only?

I have been dating this guy who's in his mid thirties but has only been in long distance relationships. We are in a LDR without any expected change for the next 3 years. After 7 months, i don't feel like we have built any...

Chicnala

Xper 4 Age: 36