Search Results: fear of commitment

Why do guys always lead good girls on?

Anytime I talk to a guy, I just can’t bring myself to believe what he’s saying now as every single time I have, I’ve been made a dick out of. No matter who it is, they always seem to say one thing to me, and something...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Marriage & Weddings

When You're Asking: Why Won't S/he Marry Me?

Are you in a long term relationship that's been going on for years that has you scratching your head and asking "why won't they marry me already?" I mean, what's the deal? Are you not worthy? Are they? Now there are...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Did I push him away for loving him so much when he didn't want commitment?

I am only just now realising that my ex probably had commitment issues. Abandonment issues, fear of losing his freedom, past relationship drama and a mulitude of signs showing me how terrified he was of commitment. I had...

Anonymous

(25-29)

A guy liked me and now he doesn't. His actions are confusing. Please see details and tell me what should I do?

I met a guy 7 months back. I was perfect for him. But he wanted to give some time to the relationship as he had a bad breakup. I was fine to give time. I moved to a new city for work. After moving i know i shud not have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

A guy who liked me keeps turning hot and cold. please see details. What should I do?

I met a guy around 6 months back. We instantly hit of and started liking each other.. He had told me had fear of commitment so is not looking for a relationship rite now. He even introduced me to his friends. And i...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to get back the guy who pulled away?

A guy I was dating has pulled away and we haven’t spoken in a few weeks. We had a great connection (according to me), but I know he really liked me at the time. Clearly he can survive without me though haha. I believe...

ikms000

Xper 3 Age: 29

How soon should I tell this girl I have deep rooted commitment issues after 2 friends of mine committed suicide over a breakup?

I have had my old college roommate commit suicide after his girlfriend broke up with him and dated his friend. I have also had a HS teammate do the same. It has awlays bothered me that I wasn't around them when they made...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do women say "You do not love me!" to their boyfriend/husband?

Women don't feel love the same way that men do so they are constantly having to test men to see if we love them or not so that they can be secure that the guy is giving her his commitment. When a woman says to a man you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Religion & Spirituality

One (Of Many) ways to avoid evil - A Christian Story

A pastor at my church told us a story and I will edit it and give you a similar story here. In her story, a married couple named Sin and Wickedness were operating a convenience store and trying to get people to buy their...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

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Everytime I date a guy I get anxious... help?

Last year, I dated this horrible guy. He was ugly and refused to shave his pedo mustache. He didn't know a thing about dating, made my friends uncomfortable, and was almost a neonazi. I hated him, so how did we end up in...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Let's Talk About Long Distance Relationships

There are many ways to understand love, many ways to love and to feel loved, but some of them are judged negatively by those who fail to understand them. One of these peculiar ways of loving someone is to love from a...

Desconhecida

Influencer Age: 39

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Can You Really Be Yourself?

I’ve seen a lot of topics on here about men doing the chasing and why don’t women make more of an effort. Well there’s always been this paranoid thought that women are just in it to marry. Women from a young age are...

Anonymous

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Family & Friends

Long Lost Friend Appears At My Doorstep! What do I do?

It's been 3 years since we last spoke. We were friends in high school, but everyone assumed we were official. We had an odd relationship. I was and still am inexperienced and he was and still is odd. He's the...

Beach84

Xper 6 Age: 31

Guy seems to be moving fast - is a fear of commitment holding me back? How do I differentiate anxiety from gut instinct?

Disclaimer: I have never been in a real relationship. I've dated plenty, pretty casually, but never made "girlfriend" status. When a guy was interested in me, I wasn't interested in return, and when I liked a guy,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to get over fear of commitment?

I've been seeing this guy for two months now, and we're in a situation somewhere in between fwb's and a relationship. He would like a relationship. I like him a lot, miss him instantly after I left his place, am always...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

"Don't Let Your Heart be Troubled" - Conquering Depression

Depression That is a fearful term for many of us who have went through that or have at least witnessed its ravaging effects on people around us. I can empathize with those who are currently going through such a stage in...

SirSkylar

Xper 5 Age: 29

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Girl's Behavior

How does this girl really feel about me?

I really like this girl I met a year ago. She's super chill, sweet, and smart. She genuinely makes me happy every time I chat with her. She knows I like her and told me she just wants to be friends. I told her that I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do people that have a fear of commitment always get relationships but people that don't fall by the wayside?

Just noticing this I like my peers who arn't scared of committing to a single woman really struggle to find dates meanwhile the guys and gals who will jump ship at the first sign of commitment are swimming in a sea of...

Anonymous

(25-29)