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>Basically, my girlfriend and I have not been together that long, but since we have we've talked about every day and there was like a genuine interest in talking to me; yes we've done all the sexual stuff and we really enjoy each others company.

> She was working 45 hour weeks last week and managed to cope but was always tired as a result, which is fair enough and I told her she should stop working so much!

> Sunday I Was near her workplace and she was like you should have come and visited me, would have made my day so much better! and she also called me to chat as she normally would!

> Monday she starts a second job (leisure activity - 1 hour) which she enjoys but her schedule starts getting busier and the replies started to become really short and infrequent

> Tuesday is the same, practically driving me insane as I don't know the cause of why bare in mind she is working again and also starting a third job (Independent work - 2 hours) and her response to me is still cold.

> Wednesday: still cold; I get a reply as she cancels plans for me to meet her parents (raincheck) but has a completely valid reason! so I call her up (get a text saying, I'll call back in 30 minutes) and when she calls I ask if she's okay and everything, and I make her laugh and smile, and everything seems fine; we've both made different plans, she's seeing her best friend and I'm seeing mine instead. And when I ask about why the little replies she says "Everything is getting on top of me at the moment and I'm struggling to cope." I told her it's fine and I understand you need your space" and she says "have a good night, you" But it just seems to be only me she's blocking out, she's still in communication with her best friends etc..

> Thursday: Complete Radio Silence on my end, no attempt by her to contact me. She's meant to be seeing me next week on the Tuesday at my uni! - My friend asked her about it (they talk) and she said yeah she was!

"Consent must be explicit, implicit, complete, thorough, and informed. In addition to the implicit consent that is already exchanged between couples, you must explicitly ask your partner whether your partner wants to have sex with you. You must also give a complete and thorough summary of your sexual history. This is to help your partner to become aware of how many previous partners you've slept with and whether or not you've contracted STIs from those partners and whether or not you've been tested for any STIs. Finally, informed consent involves telling your partner exactly what is going to happen, which is sexual intercourse. You must be able to articulate that you are going to have sexual intercourse with your partner, how it is going to be achieved, what positions you are going to do, where you are going to do it, how long the sexual intercourse will take approximately, and that your partner can refuse participation in the act at any time at no penalty on your partner's part."

Would you ever entertain the notion of having a sexual relationship with a partner if he/she went through all this with you as a prelude to every single sexual encounter that you ever had with him/her, as the guidelines state that people now have to do, under the 'yes means yes' guidelines, or be found guilty of rape? If they sat you down, and gave a complete and thorough summary of every single sexual encounter they'd ever had in their life; before going on to tell you exactly what was going to happen in the forthcoming sex session, how they were going to go about having sex with you, which sexual positions they were going to do it in, exactly how long they'd have sex with you for, and clarifying that you could refuse to participate at any time in the explicitly detailed sexual activity they'd set out- in a cold, calm and emotionless manner, as the law states that all sexual partners must- how would you react? And would you ever have sex with them if they did this?

As the question states, Are some men meant to go through life alone, you hear in your 20s that there is someone out there for everybody and people pretty much keep poking at the fact you have never had a girlfriend, you hear be yourself or get involved in activities you like which you do, then as your late 20s come people say you are trying too hard or to stop thinking about getting a girlfriend and it will just come naturally so you just focus on yourself and activities you enjoy, then your 30s roll around and now as a 35 year old virgin with no experience, you realize that to no fault of women, they view that as a red flag and people start thinking something is wrong with you, and now you are almost 40 years old still in the same predicament, so what do you think? Is there really someone out there for everybody or do some men not have that spark or interest to keep a woman interested or attracted maybe sexual chemistry just puts women naturally off from certain men where as other men don't even have to try and they have women coming to them and doing the work, another man can do the same exact thing and be a mirror image personality wise etc but will get no women coming to him, is it just nature or are some people just destined to live alone?