Search Results: preferring virgins

I know if you like the person none of this would matter, but just for the sake of the question imagine with me what would you prefer

Guys would you prefer being your girl's first man?
And is it true that some men don't like taking a girl's virginity?
Or would you prefer if she has more experience in what she's doing?

In both cases explain why

Like I've had a talk with my guy friends and theyre still shocled that im a virgin and theyre saying it like oh its a good thing but they make it seem like its a bad thing. Lowkey somehow wanna lose it since everyone already had but like my guy friend said he prefers a girl with experience than a virgin like is this true? What do most guys prefer? Is being a virgin a turn on or turn off?

I know this guy, says he's rich at least and says he's been with a lot of women, including models, college graduates, and actors. He's rich and successful. ( he's old enough to be my dad) I'm not rich or successful. He wants to get to know me because he thinks I'm interesting. But I have this strange thing with myself. I tend to feel inferior to friends who I think did more in their life than I did or who are smarter. I actually thought about what if this man was my boyfriend. He's rich, successful. And he's had so many girlfriends before me and it makes me feel insecure. He might leave me for a smarter, prettier girl or cheat. I'd prefer being with a guy that no one notices. The guy that barely has friends, the guy that girls and other people often overlook. I want him to be that special diamond that's only for me. He's nice, loving, funny makes a decent income but he doesn't get much attention from people, I want a guy that gets most of his attention from his family, two or three friends and me. I want him to be a virgin with little to no sex partners. Dating or being in a relationship with someone who's filthy rich, tall, good looking and extremely successful to the point he's popular. I don't like that. I really don't like the fact that guys I might date have ex's who are prettier than me. Is it bad that things like this bother me? I'd date a poor, depressed dude whos a virgin and I'd be happy but for some reason the thought of having sex with a rich dude makes me feel uncomfortable and insecure and I don't know why. What's wrong with me?

I believe it is. Because it requirs responsibility. I have heard men say they have no patience to teach, they don't like gentle sex, they are afraid it may hurt, it makes me take care of her and be responsibility. I think fear, lack of patience and avoiding responsibility are the opposite of what makes a man a real man.
This is why I want a NON virgin man who has slept around a lot but prefers to settle down with a virgin. I doubt guys who want virgins for serious relationships are afraid that those virgins get attached. After all getting attached is not bad in relationships.
I also think such guys would find it fun to introduce them to sex.