I know if you like the person none of this would matter, but just for the sake of the question imagine with me what would you prefer
Guys would you prefer being your girl's first man? And is it true that some men don't like taking a girl's virginity? Or would you prefer if she has more experience in what she's doing?
I had more virgins than non virgin girls and I can definitely say I would rather have a non virgin girl.
Because most of my virgin girls were lousy in bed. Except for two of them, though.
I mean there's one thing that is the lack of experience, but not being enthusiastic for taking the things with your boyfriend to another level is a plain deadweight.
There are a couple of questions I would have never ask: if she has a boyfriend and of she is a virgin. Nowadays, drawing from past experiences, I started asking the second one. :))
I remember I had a virgin girlfriend about 10 years ago that we totally clicked. I never made any virgin girl (that I knew she was a virgin) go hasty. I told this girl that maybe we should wait until her 17th birthday, which was about in a month. She said "no, I want you now" and we did it. We both loved it as she had no intention of laying flat like a board and I spinned her around to several positions. And lasted all night. I had the most intense sexual experiences with this girl.
It's nice to see a woman (teenager then) wants you and definitely this adds to the momentum. On the other hand, I had another girl that was "don't put it all in", "I can't be on top", (after 10 minutes) "I'm done (and I was like: 10 minutes, wtf? How about my boner?)". We kept in touch and she recently told me she "got to" 30 minutes. 😂
On the other hand, most of my non virgin girls were at least above average. Except for one, recently, none of them argued about different sex positions. And this one said she was tired to get too involved. 😒
I remember someone (a stand-upper, I guess) saying: "she lays flat? She doesn't want to ride you because she is too tired? Ask her to ride your face and you'll see how her "fatigue" goes away in a flash! :)))
Usually, virgin girls are also "virgins" ar kissing. Or at least this was my case. (Un) fortunatelly I can't tell if she's a virgin kisser or not. Probably because I would never think that girls in their 17-18's have never ever french kissed someone... But I expect some of them to be virgin. Some girls that I've talked to admitted they kissed other girls, but not boys before me.
Coming back to non virgin girls, most of them didn't let me unfinished. Which I found quite polite! 😊 I mean, if your boyfriend gives you 3-4 orgasms that make you tremble like a chihuahua, it's nice to at least try to return the favour.
Another thing: (my) virgin girls don't have (early) sex outside of the bedroom. No car sex, no public sex, no nothing... 🙁
Other than that, knowing where and when to touch your boyfriend is probably the best thing a virgin girl should learn.
Guess I like being pleasantly surprised and I because I constantly (even on the street) touch them, hug them, kiss them... it's great to also get some kind of 24/7 attention.
The reality is that I have had the privilege of being intimate with both and on the surface the answer is: Non-virgins are batter. HOWEVER! You are lucky to have either woman give herself to you and you had better appreciate that. Virgin woman are probably looking for something different than their more experienced friends. In my experience, both intimately and friend-zone, virgins are looking more for the love of their life, mr right, prince - that sorta thing. They often have their entire heart open to the man they have chosen - AND men need to know that these ladies are not hook-up dates. They take intimacy to heart and if you are not looking for the same thing be a man and don't emotionally abuse/hurt these woman.
Non-virgin woman are usually more experienced, which does not mean they are better, in most aspects of sex. With that said it turns on what exactly you, as a male, are seeking.
Personally I would have to admit that I would always choose a non-virgin woman simply for the fact that I would be worried that she was looking possibly for something I am not maybe seeking at the time. I can say that in my experience both have the possibility of being crappy lovers.
I prefer to headline it just for my own assurance and comfort. Personally; i do not care about the virginity status and i'd never judge any women accordingly.
However; if i have to necessarily choose. I'd choose a virgin. As someone who do not enjoy the promiscuous culture and finds establishing sexual relationship with everyone you'd talk and date to as highly inappropriate. I'd prefer someone who is embracing the values and principles that are as close as mine.
I enjoy to be the girl's first and that the girl to be my first experience. It's more pleasurable and special. The fact that a girl would share her privacy and intimacy only with me; would make me feel entirely special and privileged. It's a pleasure in another level.
I don't believe in sexual experience. We born inexperienced and there is no obligation that we must grow to have experience. We are not living our lives to be professional sex performers. Sex is not the center of our universe. Two lovers can live and grow the experience they need altogether. They grow together; live together; get to know each other more; study each other and enjoy every single touch that make through each other's body. That is my ideal and that is the definition of true love. I mean; true love doesn't care about experience because you don't need it. Those who are truly in love; they'd enjoy each other's touch whatsoever. Because what they need is each other's touch; not just the opposite gender's touch. They find each other special and exclusive. Being together becomes the goal; not the sexual pleasure. When you love your partner and all you care about is their existence and touch; sex turns magical and magnificent very automatically. It becomes enjoyable so you actually don't have to be really worry about it anymore.
In my world; sex is part of life; not life part of sex. And as long as you are in love; doesn't matter what kind of shape; size and measurement your partner stands on or how much experience they have. Their existence becomes a guarantee of a lifetime pleasure. That's love.
I'm a virgin myself, and I'd prefer my first time to also be with a virgin. That way, we'd both be figuring things out and there wouldn't be as much pressure. Or at least, that's what I think.
Granted, even if my first time will be with someone more experienced, she would most likely respect understand and be patient.
I feel its a gift that she trusts me enough to show her this act she knows. little to. nothing. about and to. not. take. advantage of. her and. the other. plus is. a. bunch. of. dongs ain't been. in there. also but. that matters little mostly trusting me with such a gift and knowing I will do. right. by her. in every way possible and. that I was. not. with. her. Simply for sex but. for LOVE
There pros n cons to each. I choose non virgin. For exactly what you said, I want her to have experienced things and know what she likes/dislikes. I know what i want and i hope we're a good match sexually, instead of teaching & training. Now if a virgin is open and willing to learn, that'd be different but that's a big chance
Non virgin girl. Because I don’t think I could cope with if it was hurting her and she was bleeding, I’d feel responsible even though it happens to a lot of girls and there isn’t much you can do.
If a girl really want me and is her first time, she would have to be willing to take directions well and not hesitate when told to do something. Otherwise, the mood is lost. A lady with sexual experience knows what she likes and wants. That is my type of lady.
1. I am a virgin as well 2. It will makes me feel special that another human decided to give his first and last virginity to me 3. It will be awkward and cringy which will make it a good memory 4. We would be both unexperienced so we will try and explore new things together 5. I can have my chance to try things I've been thinking about and they won't sound weird cause were both unexperienced
Even if i wasn't virgin it would still make me feel special
Sort of the same way you said above, I dont really have a preference and I can't really decide. As long as my partner is okay with it I am fine too. Hope I could be of some help...😅 or you just don't read this hehe
I would prefer she be a virgin because I'd like that we each only had sex with each other. If I really loved her and she wasn't a virgin I'd be a bit disappointed but I guess I could get over it.
It's totally wrong that man don't lyk taking a girls virginity... every man want a virgin girl but when it comes on experience vs virginity I will definitely go with experience bcoz I can enjoy sex more with an experience holder...
preferably on either of those ends. either none or at least 10. i fantasize about taking a girl's virginity when she doesn't want to and doesn't expect it
I asked the same question, i would like to keep virginity for the one, also learning and exploreing sexuality is more comforting and fun with a virgin then learning from someone else.
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