@nella965 your not good in bed either, virgins are better in bed , you’re not 👎🏾👎🏾
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I’m 30 a virgin by choice I don’t think too much about it I don't know I give some amazing relationship advices even help couples lol I don’t realize I’m a virgin I don’t even know what’s a virgin.. I’m extremely sensual too due to knowing learning about myself more.. and my body! I’m of course meeting guys and dating and currently the guy I’m dating is attached a lot to me saying good things etc he doesn’t know im like this due to some old fashion values I carry. Well let’s see I might give him a chance if he has family values as I do ! He is a great good hearted guy too I’m attracting good man — I think that’s what’s good about keeping your cookie safe. Funny thing is that I posted such an answer somewhere and I was asked if I’m Arab etc etc 🤦🏼♀️ No , I’m white , green eyes , brown hair , European! Born as catholic identify as agnostic
Wow that’s amazing wish we had more women like you alive who are virgins and above 18 years, just hold on a bit if you can to make sure that he’s the right guy so you don’t regret it later
I'd be surprised at my age to find any virgins left. I'm more concerned with her spiritual convictions, how honest she is, how well she manages money, her wisdom with children, etc. A previously untapped pink spot is merely icing on the cake. But icing I don't expect to find.
If she had one other and only one other, I'll chalk that up as a sign of her gaining wisdom and a sense of priorities over time.
To all those whining about bedroom experience: hush up. It has to be learned. I can at least accept that. Two bodies learning how to connect to each other won't always be a seamless, effortless linkup. We're not USB ports.
I don't know man, i am happy where i am atm and honestly i don't care who did what and when, as long we are happy, am fine with it. This whole dating and relatinship has become a game without thinking how psychologicly is effecting people... But hey! Someone got head from a tider date last week 🤷♂️
Virgins are terrible in bed. If you're an experienced sexually , having sex with a virgin will not be enjoyable to you. It takes a LONG time to learn how to have good sex.
@Jamie05rhs There is such thing as a woman who sucks in bed. No man just wants a lump that just lays there while he does all the work. there's a term for a woman who doesn't know how to do anything in bed, its called a "dead fish".
sex is an art form where you learn techniques over long period of time on what makes a man feel good. how to get into positions quickly enough, how to lick. Its not just penis going in vagina , pump for 5 minutes then dump.
You don’t understand my point. That just good sex cus you’ve never had mind blowing sex. It’s kinda like saying frozen pizza is great only cuz you’ve never Knew what real pizza tasted like. If you knew what real pizza tasted like , you would never go back to frozen pizza
Sex is same thing for a woman, A woman can stick a dildo or cucumber in her vagina and it would still feel good. She doesn’t need a man with skills. Any guy with a dick will get the job done.
But since you’re a Virgin , you need to realize that your understanding of sex is severely limited. What you don’t understand that sex is an art form with Sensuality And many techniques. It’s not just putting your dick in a vagina.
The best example would be thinking that you know what it takes to fight in war just cus you watched some war movies. You’re not gonna truly understand what makes a good soldier unless you actually have been in war.
Just cus you watch a million porno movies , it doesn’t mean you know what makes someone good at sex or what good sex is.
I’ve been around the block. I’ve had sex with many different people. The ones that can have the best sex are usually the ones who had Long term relationships/ marriages for a very long time.
from my experience, the worst sex are with virgins. It gets especially clumsy and awkward and disappointing if the Virgin watches too much porn. Because they would usually try to reenact pornography and 90% of the time , they tend to fail. It comes out as clumsy Awkward or not very satisfying. Virgins aren’t hot. Male or female.
The guys who are the most patient And sensual tend to have the best sex. The guys that think sex is a 5 minute pump and dump tend to give the most mediocre , poorest sex
Most women need at least 45 minutes to an hour of making out in order to be fully turned on for sex. Any less than that will significantly decrease the quality of sex for both partners. How turned on the woman feels , has a direct affect on the quality of sex for both partners. The longer the making out , the higher the sexual tension and desire
Good sex also has to do with the nimbleness of the woman , to be able to get into different positions quickly Enough to keep the mans sexual enjoyment going. There are also things that the woman can do to increase the mans enjoyment during sex such as the way she moves as she fucks him, controlling her vagina muscles, the way she touches and licks him.
Foreplay is about building sexual tension and desire and this is Lays the foundation for sex. It’s the most important part of Good sex. Teasing is also something that needs to be learned , how to touch someone The right way is also something that can only be learned Through trial and error experience. How to give a good blow job is also something that can only be learned through trial and error experience.
"The ones that can have the best sex are usually the ones who had Long term relationships/ marriages for a very long time.". THANK YOU. This is what I've been saying for years.
I know you’re just saying that cuz you just want to preserve your own dignity for being a Virgin until your current age. You won’t know this stuff until you have sexual experience. I didn’t know any of this stuff until I had sexual experience
I'm a virgin and I would like to date or marry a virgin as well. It's hard to find virgin guys though, or at least they lie about having sex because they fear I am someone who judges them for not having sex. But I prefer to have a guy who is a virgin. I find the guys who say they need to have sex with you before marriage. Is such bs and that's their way of just using you. Because when a guy has sex he's not losing anything, in fact he's gaining. A woman loses more when she has sex. The mentality why buy and car before driving it is something men have come up with to manipulate women or at least try to and a lot of them succeed because a lot of women fall for it. But the same idiom is used in this intance why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. Its all just guy tactic because the man can leave whenever he wants. He'll especially leave after he gets tired using her every way he wants to. I believe guys who are respectful and have selfcontrol don't care about it. Those are usually the serious ones that want a faithful proper wife who has the selfcontrol and self respect to wait. Not that I'm trying to disrespect any women out there that has sex. But that's how I feel personally
@St37xy11 OK, your a 27 year old woman who is a virgin. If you are saving your virginity for marriage, why aren't you married yet? I can imagine an 18 year old man meeting you when you were 18 years old. You say you want to wait for marriage... the man waits nine years, hoping, praying. Nine years go by and the 18 year old is now 27 years old, his testicles shrivel-up due to non-use. Why aren't you married yet?
Don’t worry yourself you will find a virgin guy in due time, maybe you’re at the wrong place or looking at the wrong guys, but just as how they’re virgin girls there’re virgin girls, just don’t rush to date any guy if it takes longer than you expect and regret later like all girls who lost there virginity to guys they regret losing it to
I appreciate it thank you. Basically what you said is exactly why I'm not married yet. I'm a old school woman and guys now a days don't want that life style so it's hard to find a man who appreciates it in America. I'm American. But I know there are more guys in Europe looking for a woman like me then guys in America.
I am monogamous only thus it doesn’t correspond with my decision based on if a person is virgin or not. What matters is how both people feel about each other and the will to respect. It’s far more than just sex it’s about sharing/bonding through everything with your best friend and close partner.
People who are virgins by choice are the winners in my opinion. What's more impressive? Someone who gives in to the urge to have sex or someone who has a sex drive just as high but decides to wait for the right partner or moment to engage in sexual activity?
The latter, I say. Even virgins are sexual; they just dont express until they choose to. The girl here who went on about virgins being bad in bed and good sex taking a long time to learn is an idiot.
It depends on the situation, I myself am not a fan of one night stands, sleeping with strangers etc, so I don't participate in that 'culture', However I also do not agree with the celibate until marriage lifestyle. I believe sex between two soulmates, lovers to be a beautiful bond, not something that has a date and time on.
In conclusion: Would I date a guy whos a virgin because he just didn't 'get round to it'? Yes.
Would I date a virgin man whos heavily christian, and sees sex as an after marriage thing? No.
Yes, I have dated a virgin and yes, I did marry a virgin. She's awesome. She gave birth to our children and has super powers over me. Namely, she has the power to captivate me with her flirtatious look and intoxicate me with her... Well, I'll just leave that to your imagination.
My favorites attribute about her is her loyalty to me and our children. She truly has made me a better man over the last 12 years of marriage. I have and will remain faithful to her too.
In my opinion I don’t believe in being at the right place or not, persons tend to say when good things happen they are in the right place or when something bad happens they are in the wrong place, but things happen when they are suppose to
@Jamie05rhs She is does not want to date those guys tho. All she said is that she would if a guys was a virgin, but the virgins she know are not what she likes
@lisaraven OK WTF? I don't belive that for a second. Your main this is popular and muscle. Nice guys finish last for a reason. Why do millions of women put up with abusive husbands. I don't think you much diffrent form the rest of other girls
@Kenzy009 that’s a lie, nice guys don’t finish last, unless you’re wired , every human being as a much, plus if you knew females well Not every girl like bad boys most like good guys too
Piece of advice to all virgins out there. Don't sleep with only the person you marry.
It might sound romantic and honorable and pure but you will be miserable in the long run, everyone has a hoe phase that they should get out of their system before talking about marriage
I would date them, sure. Having sex is a part of getting to know each other for me, so I'd never dive in to a relationship without being sexually intimate.
Get married for 20 years to someone who is sexually incompatible, and then tell me why marrying a virgin is such a great idea. It's stupid.
Live together first. Figure out if you can even stand to live with them before committing. Same with sex. It's like buying a beer with no label. It might be good, or it might be skunky garbage.
What a stupid fucking concept. Virginity is nothing but fear wrapped up in a righteous blanket of ignorance.
Yes to dating, no to marriage. I would need to get to know a girl's sexuality better before deciding on getting married. I've been in relationships which were sexually disappointing.
No you’re not damaged goods, I can’t believe you would say something like that, maybe used not damaged, plus virgins are the best the most loving and loyal creatures on the planet
You virgin boys... thinking somehow virginity and sexual purity implies loyalty. It doesn't. You guys need to grow up. Love involves WORK and SACRIFICE. Whether a girl has her poon smashed or not doesn't dictate whether that person has commitment or responsibility. Your virgin obsession has nothing to do with how "loyal" a woman is. It's simply is derived from your personal insecurity; by you feeling inadequate that some girl has experience and you don't. Just because a girl has had sex before doesn't make her any less capable of loving or caring for you over a virgin.
@mobiusforniner who the fk are you talking to? Just don't reply. You don't know me. If you didn't get what I said then Keep your ignorant reply to urself. Anyone that has a brain and past like me gets exactly what I meant. Obviously you don't. And that's good. I wouldn't wish my past on anyone. Don't presume to lecture me on general human nature when my comment wasn't directed at you.
But you got to be realistic 2 try’s 5, 15, relationships isn’t just sex , communication, commitment, trust loyalty should be the first, then sex 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
How did you remain one, and what advice would you give to teens and young adults girls who say they can’t resist the temptation, plus your time and their time , by the way how old are you
date yes, marry no. cause at the point that i'm thinking about marriage, i would have had sex with her. if not, we would have broken up long before that.
That would definitely be a preference, especially being virgin myself. It’s not a deal breaker if she’s not, but I love the idea of my partner and I loosing virginity to each other.
Date a virgin, yes. By the time I proposed she wouldn't be one anymore, so I wouldn't marry one. I wait 2 years for sex. If she doesn't want it by then we break up. If she's waiting until marriage, we break up. If she never wants sex we break up. As long as she will wait at least 3-6 months before we have sex and we have it before the 2 year mark we have a chance
Given microchimerism and telegony, I will marry a so so cute virgin before I’ll marry a super beautiful res hot CC riding slut who’s body is pre filled with other dude’s DNA
Respect them for what exactly? Just for being a woman? Uh, no. Respect is earned, not deserved. Virginity isn't a condition or a malady that needs to be fixed or cured.
And no, no virgins for me. You better get that sexual compatibility thing right or you'll sign yourself up for a lifetime of frustration and anxiety.
I would date but I would never marry a virgin I wouldn't want to marry someone without being intimate with them and in terms of intimacy that's like 2 people having sex before they kiss
Virgins are terrible in bed. I think anyone who is a non virgin will prefer a non Virgin. People like to say they prefer virgins But it’s something that is much easier said than done
Virgins are terrible in bed. They need to be taught and trained how to have good sex. Having good sex is not something people are born with. ItS a skill that takes a long time to learn
And what of those with minimal experience who are all the same not virginal? If your only standard of someone's value is how well they can amuse your clit, you deserve only the company of a vibrator.
well this question was not about virgins / non virgins. It said nothing about romance. My point is, there are consequences to dating virgins that you are not aware of. Virgin don't have "minimal experience". Someone with minimal experience has at least 6 months of sexual experience.
@aquamarine321 There is nothing wrong with @nella965 expressing an opinion that virgins are not good at sex. But that should be interpreted as "not YET good at sex." Sex is like anything else, if you desire to improve and practice, you will improve. As a man, I would be fine dating a virgin woman, but she wouldn't be a virgin for much longer... Some virgins also have false beliefs about sex.
@SunnyFlorida Many guys are fine dating a virgin because there is an element of dominance and control when having sex with an inexperienced virgin. Men like being dominant and in control. However it comes at his expense of having awkward , unfulfilling sex or having to teach someone everything from basic scratch.
@nella965 the world would be a better place if they where more virgins and it’s not only virgins who wants virgins non virgins always wants virgins and virgins are better in bed and better at everything virgins marriage last forever until death no baby daddy drama and slut like behavior
@aquamarine321: She only cares about arousal technique. She isn't bringing any single other consideration into the discussion. That such "thinking" is literally why we have a thot problem, which has created a simp problem, and the two are now a destructive positive feedback loop... none of that matters to her.
@nella965 well at least we know you’re not marriageable/ marriage material, not everyone cares only about sexing and cuming , you should go to porn industry cause you love to fuck , you’re not going to be committed to be a wife to be a mother or to have a successful relationship
@obsuredbeyond ikr that why she won’t he married or have a successful relationship because she only cares about sex and who can make her cum, that not important to men, your just something to make a man cum and go home
No woman is a Virgin nowadays. If you only want a Virgin , you would probably end up with no dating life. Most female lose their virginity at 16-17 nowadays.
@nella965 that’s a lie , virgins are still around, not every girl is loose and sluty in there thier teens years, some girls grow up with morals and standards
@aquamarine321 not saying virgins don’t exist but you’re just gonna have an extremely hard time finding a date if you’re only interested in virgins. You’re not gonna have a lot of women to pick from either.
The only one suffering From a lack of options and dates is you. The overwhelming majority of modern men have no problem dating a non Virgin woman. We’re the ones who have it easier in dating
@aquamarine321 Com'on man, there is not sense arguing with @nella965 about virgin/non-virgin. You do you. In the US, by age 25, 99% of the women will no longer be virgins. For women over age 25, you are limiting yourself to 1% of the population. Odds are they won't be pretty; its harder for a woman to keep her virginity than for a man to remain a virgin in the US. That being said, some women will NOT want to date a virgin men. In general, women like masculine men. Part of dating is sex and virgin men can be ackward at sex for the first time - the opposite of masculine.
You will be only limiting yourself more if you’re only gonna date pretty girls under 25. Chances are you aren’t good looking in any way either so you’re not gonna be attracting the attention of any hot ladies.
@nella965 lack of options what the hell are you talking about, nobody wants a hoe y’all belong to the streets, no man is going to settle down and it’s not difficult to find a virgin @SunnyFlorida unless you have hard prove but your estimation is wrong, plus how me choosing a virgin makes me unattractive, it’s a preference
Only misogynists or chauvinists tend to only go for virgins. It’s not the Type of thing modern men are into at all. A man who insists that a woman be a Virgin , would likely also be against a woman with a career or job.
Only misogynists or chauvinists tend to only go for virgins. It’s not the Type of thing modern men are Not*** into at all. A man who insists that a woman be a Virgin , would likely also be against a woman with a career or job. It’s a very 1800s mindset
@nella965 The age 25 was a point of reference for discussion with @aquamarine321 as far as availability of virgins in the female population, not an age restriction on my part. I'll let the women decide if I'm good enough for them. :-D
@aquamarine321 Your goals are noble, but may be outdated. Beware of the "born again virgins." I wish you the best.
There’s nothing noble about basing someone’s self with purely in virginity. Humans are so much more than virginity. What if nobody saw you as worthy of dating cuz you’re a divorced man? Would you be damaged goods?
Nobody respects Or understands that kind of Mentality anymore. You think you’re noble or special but really the rest of the world just sees you as very brainwashed and closed minded
@nella965 I don't expect a woman to be a virgin. However, I don't want the "town ho" either. There are women in their early 20's with over 100 sexual partners; that's too much for me. So if I contemplate marrying a woman, I will ask about a woman's "body count."
If another man, who is a virgin wishes to only date virgins - that's his business. I think it is outdated, but as long as they aren't hurting anyone, it's their choice. Just like some women "require" a man be 6 foot tall or taller, which eliminates about 85-90% of the male population. It's that woman's choice. I would argue that the 6' rule is stupider than the virgin rule, but it is personal preference.
Do you realize your priorities reflect who you are? If you're willing to admit its ridiculous to base a man's worth completely on his height, then why would you say its not ridiculous to base a person's self worth purely on virginity?
Gold diggers are not decent people. Neither are sex diggers (who only date girls under 25). A decent person should understand what is most important when choosing someone to be a life partner. A woman who only dates rich men, will only abandon her husband when he loses his wealth. A man who only dates women under 25 will only cheat on his wife once she reaches 40. A man who bases a woman's self worth on virginity does not understand human value.
What if you met the perfect woman who has everything you are looking for except she's not a virgin, would you give her up for a virgin (who you love much less and is unsuitable for you in many other aspects)? the whole point of marriage is to find someone that makes you happy and is a good fit. After her virginity is lost, you are just left with the person you married. She will be the same person regardless if she lost her virginity or not.
Nobody who is sane is going to define how happy they are being married to someone , completely based on virginity. Unless you are brainwashed or insane.
You also must be joking if you're saying that there are a lot of virgins in their early 20s. Reality is, you're only likely to find virgins within females 21 and under. Overwhelming majority of women in their early 20s are not virgins.
@nella965 your assumption is out of date no man cares about what you say about red flag 🚩 no modern man wants a sluts that has 1000 body count and 200 baby daddies, y’all non virgin purposes is only to get our dicks wet, virgins are wife
No man cares if a woman is a virgin nowadays. No man would ever dump his girlfriend just because she has a successful career. Its only men on GAG who obsess over housewives, virgins, hate on career women, hate on non virgin women. In reality, no modern man would ever agree with you.
And its pretty clear that you have a passive aggressive dislike towards women. You're a misogynist. Like I said only misogynists' or chauvinistic men would insist on marrying virgins.
I never insisted on non virgins. I would date a virgin , if he is perfect in every other way. I just said virgins are less desirable because they don't know how to have sex.
I work around tons of professional men who highly prefer dating an educated career woman than a a woman who works at McDonalds. You may not care about a woman's career, but professional men do.
@Hallo626262 Another guy friend of mine told me that, he doesn't like it when a woman has to rely on him to pay for absolutely everything. You need to understand GAG is not the real world. Real world modern men prefer a woman who has a career and education.
@nella965 of course she should pay for her own shit. That's besides the point of men not caring about a women's career. At least not naturally but maybe because of peer pressure.
I can guarantee you that men will think more highly of a woman if she has an accomplished career. The caliber of men that accomplished women date tend to also be high caliber men. Elite people date other elite people. Its not about the money, its about being ELITE.
take a look around, why do celebrities tend to date other celebrities?
Thanks for repeating the peer pressure thing I just said. It's different for celebrities. Normal people can't view them as normal so they have basically no choice.
Just because you don’t care , it doesn’t mean other guys don’t care. The more educated and successful the Man, the more he cares about her education and accomplishments
People are now more likely to marry people with similar educational attainment — even after controlling for differences between men and women, like the fact that women were once less likely to attend college. ... The marriage pay gap varies by education, profession and class.
There are several reasons this may be happening. One is that the character of marriage has changed: It was once an economic arrangement in which men worked and women took care of domestic tasks; now, it’s a way for people with similar interests to share life together. Another reason is that more women have entered colleges and high-paying occupations, where they are more likely to meet similarly skilled men (who in turn now consider earning potential when selecting a mate). It’s practically cliché to say it, but bosses once married their secretaries and doctors married nurses. Now, rich men marry their working-world equals.
Research has consistently found that American women with at least a bachelor's degree are more likely to get married and stay married than less educated women.
@Hallo626262 : Screwls molest these kids in their minds long before anything is done to their bodies. Groomers gonna groom. They teach them everything wrong, almost as if a joke. They think losing is winning. That if they destroy their whole future just to scratch that itch a little better now, then no matter who else they've screwed over long term, the orgasm is self-justifying. Kids who see through that as bullshit invented by perverts, are browbeaten and gaslit into submission. If not by academic persecution, then by harassment from NPC peers. The hedonist NPCs tolerate no objection to the program. Neither their own obedience to it, nor the individual rejecting it. They tolerate no personal criticism, no matter how truthful or constructive in tone. They demand absolute "autonomy" to BeAThot. exe being valid. But hypocritically have zero tolerance for men who refuse to be enslaved to BeASimp. exe. To be redpilled on literally any subject, be it politics, the fact that humanism is itself a religion, or sex, to not be an NPC is to be an "istophobe," and be automatically equated with every villain in history, logic be damned.
It's a miracle how any kids escape this brainwash at all. Grown adults are forever lost in the mist, like the "angels" in Far Cry 5.
That’s the problem with this generation no patient nor commitment nor trust, there are too many options nowadays , I’m pretty sure if there where more virgins in the world we would have the patience and time and commitment, but because it’s easier today to find a non virgin and get alone sexually
Girls are sleeping boys young as 9/10 now! Imagine by the time they’re 20 they look like they’re 60 years old, I’ve slept would couple virgins. Is not fun if they’re extremely shy.
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