Would you date a virgin?

Question

Assuming the person has a great personality & you like them.  You find out he or she is a virgin.  Would you date them?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Being a virgin wouldn't stop me from dating her, but depending on how old she was and whether she'd had past relationships (and how long they'd lasted) I might be concerned that we might not be compatible sexually. It depends if she's just someone who happens to be a virgin or whether she's someone that wants to be a virgin and isn't that keen on the idea of sex.

If I was dating a virgin I wouldn't mind waiting (within reason) for her to be ready, especially she could show affection in other ways earlier. (Cuddling, kissing and that type of thing.)

Setsu · Accepted Answer

Virginity is an advantage, not a handicap. It means that you are guaranteed not to infect your SO with an STD and that exes cannot cast as deep a shadow on the relationship. No humiliating mental images of your lover getting shagged by someone else, no gnawing questions about how you compare with the previous model buzzing in your head like angry wasps. Every couple must ultimately develop their own unique style by exploring each other, so the true value of "experience" with other people is really quite open to question.

Madiclark · Accepted Answer

Yes. I would be honored if I was the woman he gave it to but even if I wasn't, I respect his decision. If he is a virgin, he has his reasons and it is his body so I would respect this about him. As an added bonus, if I was the one that he gave it to, at least I would know that I wouldn't get an STD.

kitty71 · Accepted Answer

Sex is not a high priority, personality character, easy going, pretty with sense of humor is what most important because at the end you do not date a girl or guy because of he or she being a virgin. you met that person first for his or her personality not beause she had not had sex before

Esplorare · Accepted Answer

Yes, that’s not a deciding factor. To be honest, that’s attractive in a way and comforting to know that they are less likely to have an STD and that we can share something uniquely special together.

Dayn825 · Accepted Answer

They're still people, and who says anything? They could be incredible enough for you to take there virginity

normalice · Answer

it depends, really. I mean, obviously I'm going to want sex at some point. But if she's a virgin then that makes it very likely she will have hang-ups about it, which only complicate matters. We could still be friends, though. I can 'not have sex' with many friends without agreeing not to have sex with anyone else.

GamerArtNerd · Answer

What most of you girls don't realize is that guys in most cases PREFER virgins. We like the feeling of bringing new and exciting things to her and knowing that we are her first. Girls like to be dominated therefore they usually prefer a guy who has experience.

Snorkasaurus · Answer

My answer is yes because you said i've found that she has a great personality and that i like her. To me this means that she is: pretty, understanding enough to handle my bullcrap, can take a joke, open minded, has a great laugh. Who wouldn't want to date a girl like that?

I_am_repulsive · Answer

I have the utmost respect for people that waits until marriage before sex. Virginity won't be a factor whether or not I date someone. I would however, prefer if she has the same sexual experience or as close to as I have. Having said that, many guys would probably want to put their flag there first, so in other words I would definitely date a virgin.

AleDeEurope · Answer

Of course I will, that doesn't change who she is as a person. I have dated a virgin, and I took her virginity, and even though sex wasn't good, it never changed how I saw her.
Virginity has nothing to do with my decision to date someone or not.

YazanAA · Answer

I will only MARRY a virgin. I said "marry" because I'm into marriage more than random relationships before it.

front2back · Answer

I totally would.

I've had girls not date me because I was a virgin though. Twice now things had been going great and we were fond of each other and then she ceased all communication once she realized I was inexperienced.

Ulyss · Answer

I think I might not because from what I heard my friends say they are very clingy after she loses her virginity to you

RoderLK · Answer

I have no problems with that and it makes no difference. My only deal-breaker is if she was a religious girl waiting till marriage. I'll wait when you're ready but not till marriage.

SomeoneImportant · Answer

Why is this virginity thing such a big deal on this site?

dudeman · Answer

I've done it before. Was the best relationship I ever had.

Daniel110995 · Answer

Yes I definitely would, virginity shouldn't have any bearing on your attraction to someone. I think it would make our first time that bit more special.

Frost_Byt3 · Answer

Yes ofc. For me, she doesn't HAVE to be a virgin, but its a huge plus if she is.

Ilovemilfs · Answer

I think people get a big ego boost when they take it from somebody. Especially if the said person is very attractive. Just my opinion though.

MissNowhere · Answer

Yes, no problem, don't really care, I'm a virgin too.

John_Doesnt · Answer

Somebody has to date them so they won't be a virgin anymore. All none virgins were a virgin at some time who eventually were dated by someone.

meatballs21 · Answer

Is she down for ending that whole 'being a virgin' thing soon?

xxbebosxx · Answer

as long as he's not religious and not trying to convert me in any way I would

danodamano333 · Answer

I can't see myself going, "Oh, you're a virgin... My interest in you has completely faded away."

CountVronsky · Answer

I'm a virgin myself, so yeah, of course I would date her.

genericname85 · Answer

depends if she´s one of those "i wait till marriage" people or not.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes I would date a virgin. I don't see how this would be a deal breaker for the vast majority of people.

Tomsta · Answer

I don't mind it at all i was a virgin till i was 21

Anonymous · Answer

I'm actually datint a virgin so my answer is yes! :3

Anonymous · Answer

I can't believe how obvious some of these questions are getting these days lol

Goldie757 · Answer

As long as its not for religious reasons I'm game.

Juspham · Answer

Im a virgin, so I would like to date a virgin too

Piscarian92 · Answer

I think most men would like virgins.

JustinCaseUDontKnow · Answer

Yes , i would date a virgin i see no problem :-D

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely.. I'm getting older now lol, but for me that is ideal.

RexCatholicissimus · Answer

This even a question? Of course.

Alexious · Answer

I am one. Can I date myself?

Toadette · Answer

If he is willing to accept I'm not, then yes.

RationalMale · Answer

Yes, I'd date a virgin.

curiousdude88 · Answer

Yes i would. I dont see it as a bad thing

Roadcruiser1 · Answer

Virgin here, and I will date a virgin too. <3.

Rocky96 · Answer

Why not, yes I would.

goretcki · Answer

That doesn't matter to me

evenlift · Answer

Yes, I would.

xPoison · Answer

Yes, why not?

Anonymous · Answer

Who cares if their a virgin seriously who cares

Succcesssfulll · Answer

I definitely would.

chocolateismylover · Answer

Yupperzzzz

JCT666 · Answer

Of course, I would.

Anonymous · Answer

yeah i would.

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