It's a simple fact of it. They think that you don't like sex. They think that you're waiting for marriage, and hopefully I really do pray that you are and not give yourself away foolishly. They fear that they going to have you be attached to them which is exactly what happens after sex and that's how it was supposed to be. Or they don't want to be your first experience because they feel that, quote on quote "breaking a virgin" too much work.
Avoid those kind of men at all costs. And avoid questions like this because it makes you seem desperate and that you don't love yourself. Which is not only unattractive it is also a major red flag but you may provide drama and problems. At the end of the day you got to be secure of yourself. You got to love yourself. Understand that there's nothing wrong with being a virgin. And it's better for you to be a virgin that's not be one at all. And most importantly, that you're only looking to have sex for the right reasons and not simply because you just want to experience something and everybody else is doing. Because trust me when I say as I am a virgin myself and I'm happy I made that decision to stay that way by the grace of God. Don't do something that most people wish they can turn the clock on. Many regret ever losing their virginity let alone who they sleep with.
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I think signs of overeagerness from 20-30 something, virgins like you can put off men.
They aren't sure if they are going to walk away with their kidneys in the morning, or get a psycho stalker ex for life.
Maybe lay off telling them about your virginity and instead talk about your virtues and hobbies.
why not
but here's a qestion would any woman date a virgan man, thats 30, that his life is destened to be a loser, can't find a job, i could go on why. also no muccels , and no actual life.
to me a woman always has opertunity to have a good life, men i dont think i can
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1. We think it will take to much time to convince the girl to have sex
2. We don't want to go easy "Whait, slow, gentle, it hurt...". We don't have patience.
3. We don't want to teach the girl. It take time to understand how to do sex in the right way whit a certain person.
4. We think she will become addicted to us becouse we whas the first
5. Fisrt time is painful for her, but for us is not big deal.- I would much rather date a girl with a lower sexual partner history. so since virgins are zero that would be a plus in their favor.
- because I am not a fan of modern hookup culture and what it does to peoples sexual standards. so I only engage in sexual encounters with one exclusive partner at a time.
- so provided we got along well I would like to date and have sex with a virgin woman.
As a virgin myself, it would be preferred.
I assume the sex would happen in it's own time and shouldn't be rushed.Sure and most men won't have sex with someone who has no knowlegde of sex. As for me i am a virgin as well so its gonna be find
I dunno. I'd have no problem with it. Less intimidating, if anything.
I would go out with a virgin yes. I think it is a good thing to be one. I respect that in you...
Yes, Yes. If you are a virgin, then it makes the relationship more meaningful and romantic.
Yes, no doubt I do not see why I wouldn't... maybe you gave birth to this ideea in your head
Dont look to give ur virginity away like its a curse, srsly, save for someone special.
any guy put off by it just wants to pump n dumpOnly if there is the prospect of marriage
I would date a virgin. That really doesn’t matter.
Yes. İt is better than
I only date virgin women
Yeah.
yes, I would
sure, why not
Yeah
I'd date a virgin
Yeah of course
Yes I will
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