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My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years. We live together and we have no sex life. At all. No kissing, sex very rarely and only the way he wants to do it. I've given him handjobs and blowjobs so many times when he was in the mood for sex and I wasn't, but he hasn't even once done something to satisfy me in return, when I'm in the mood and he isn't.

The other night I broke down and told him that things need to change and I am so lonely. I need affection and to feel close to someone. That if he doesn't appreciate me I will have to find someone who does. And that if we don't start acting like boyfriend and girlfriend I'm leaving him. I asked why he never wants sex. He said he's just never in the mood. He said his last relationship was like this and it wasn't affectionate. No wonder she cheated on him! Because he wouldn't show her anything! 😒

I asked him if he's the type of person who just doesn't need or want any affection and isn't affectionate. And he said "maybe." The whole time I was talking to him he was emotionless. I started crying. No hugs or trying to comfort me. Nothing. He just said "I do care." And that was it. He said that we will fix things and it will change. Well it's been a couple of days now and he hasn't done anything to change things.

Most guys would at least make an effort for a little while, right? I am at the end of my rope. How long do I give him to change before I know I've given him a chance and it's over? I told him it was the last warning...