Your Daughter Is NOT A Princess! Stop Treating Her Like A Spoiled Brat!

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Far too often I've observed the same kinds of problem women have, all resorting from the same root of the causes. Daddies spoiling their daughters. This is a highly opinionated...opinion on why you should really stop treating your daughter like this.

Your daughter is NOT a princess! Stop treating her like a spoiled brat!


The consequences of Treating your daughter like a princess:


1. She becomes Spoiled and Entitled



A 'princess' won't feel the need to work for anything in her life. She'll stroll through life thinking everything will be given to her. This will prevent her from wanting to approach a cute guy, pursuing a degree, even will damage her health by making her lack the desire to exercise and eat healthy.


2. She becomes a perpetual 'victim' of everything


When something bad happens to a 'princess,' instead of taking personal responsibility to rectify it or to learn from it to grow, she instead will complain. She will put the blame on everything and everyone else besides herself. Notable examples of this include 'feeling used' after consenting to sex, sometimes going to the extreme as to falsely accuse a guy of rape. Another instance is a girl becoming so easily offended by jokes not even directed at her.
A lot of this may result of the 'over protective father,' the kind who keeps a shotgun loaded whenever a girl brings a boy over.


3. She becomes insecure and lacks self-esteem


Following up to her spoiled upbringing, when a woman doesn't get the man she feels 'entitled' to, she'll feel as if her entire being is ugly. She'll post images of herself online for validation, hopelessly aiming to fill that void in her heart. She'll even make herself more readily available to men wanting to have sex. Not because she'll enjoy the sex, but more so to satisfy her ego and her lust to be desired.


4. Garners an Absurd Sense of Self-Worth


This is the exact opposite of the previous one. However, it doesn't mean that a 'princess' can't experience both in her lifetime. This end of the spectrum a girl will feel she's worth more than others. She'll outright reject a guy for 'not being good enough.' Standards are okay to have, but a princess will feel entitled to having absurd levels of standards that nearly no one can even achieve, and the types who even do won't even want to mingle with such a girl. They pressure guys who even try to talk to her by giving him senseless amounts of shit tests and even lie to get out of a conversation. Putting herself on such a high pedestal she neglects her own personal desires for the sake of 'acting proper.'
"I can't do that, that'll make me a slut."



How to prevent your daughter from being a spoiled princess.


1. Let her have a boyfriend


If you feel she's emotionally capable enough to experience any sort of relationship (personal recommendation of age 16 at minimum,) then just let her have a boyfriend. Put that gun down, put it away. Don't scare him off. Let her have the experience.


2. Let her fail, but support her


Failure is what helps us learn and grow. This goes along with the previous one. If she feels heartbroken from a bad relationship, she'll learn from it. She'll become a stronger minded woman when she grows. Often parents fear of bad things happening to their children to the point where we restrict what they do to asinine amounts. Instead, let them do something that might be a bit risky, as long as it's not immediately life threatening.


3. Make her work for what she wants


Labor and effort isn't just a man's thing. Women, in fact, need to learn how to dedicate themselves towards their goals and aspirations as well. A lot of problems result from girls just being given anything they want (or rather children of any gender.) Not saying it's bad to give your kids things once in a while. Generosity should be a trait to teach. However limit your generosity to some degree.


4. Try restricting her makeup usage


Make up is a facilitator of honing a false sense of self-esteem. While reasonable use of make-up is like another method of hygeine, using it as a sole means to mask a persons' true physical identity can make one rely on it as a crutch. Teach her to appreciate her true self.


5. Teach her self-defense


Frankly everyone should learn martial arts of some kind. A woman knowing how to defend herself shows that she is disciplined and responsible for her own safety. She won't be a victim, because she knows how to kick her ass out of any situation that may try to make her one.


6. Teach her to be humble and appreciative of others


Lastly, thankfulness is a key one to prevent a girl from becoming spoiled. Making her give appreciation daily will help her grow into a healthy and a caring adult. She'll know and understand the struggles others go through. She'll learn about how to view the perspective of other people. It even teaches her to become conscious of herself and her surroundings.

Your Daughter Is NOT A Princess! Stop Treating Her Like A Spoiled Brat!
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