Search Results: sexually active

My first pap came back abnormal... is this common?

I got my first Pap smear done, and the results came back abnormal... no stds thankfully. They didn’t test for HPV just because it is so common, but I am going back in to get another exam done. A lot of my friends said...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How should I come out to my parents?

So I'm just gonna say it. Im 15 and pregnant. I dont know what to do and i dont know how im gonna tell my parents. My dad has already told me that he would be mad at first but then understanding. (But he hates my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

Girls, What do I need to know before starting to take birth control pills or should I think about going on another method and what would be better?

My mom and I were in a salon today getting a haircut and a mani/pedi. Mom and I talked and she set me up with a appointment at our local planned parenthood about going on birth control instead of going to my OBGYN because...

rylielovessoftball

Xper 5 Age: 23

Health & Fitness

I have (had) HPV. Every single woman I’ve slept with is vaccinated so it’s a non-issue? Do I need to keep bringing this up prior sex w/ new person?

So five years ago I found out I had a HPV infection (one gw). I was horrified at the time and to make matters worse my ex had dumped me only 3 weeks earlier. But long story short I got educated about the disease. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

When A Doctor First Asked You If You Were Sexually Active When You Were Active, Did You Lie? Or Did You Tell The Truth? Was A Parent With You?

Thank goodness my mother did not stay with me in the room. She went to go work. I asked the doctor if she would tell my mom and she said no. Tbh if she would have said yes I think I would have lied.

Aphrodite801

Yoda Age: 25

Thank goodness my mother did not stay with me in the room. She went to go work. I asked the doctor if she would tell my mom and she said no. Tbh if she would have said yes I think I

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Girl's Behavior

Are black men the only race that is fetishised by women?

In case of women I seem to think girls who are sexually active seem to love black men Cuz of the dick size and colour contrast Since men fetishes almost every race of women , I was wondering if women do the same...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Why am I not pregnant yet?

I have regular periods and mild period symptoms. I have a period tracker and it tells me when I have high chance of pregnancy. Me and my significant other have been sexually active almost all month and on the days I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Why are some white women delusional, messy and desperate? How are black women jealous of white wine when it's usually white women who start drama?

I be minding my own business when white women be starting drama. They don't just start drama, they go on and on about the shit. They start talking about white power, how they think they're better than black women, and...

VanillaAlmond

Xper 2 Age: 26

Girl's Behavior

Ladies, do you get bumps down there?

I have noticed a bumps on the lips of my vagina. I am sexually active, but I really don’t think it’s an std. They are red, small, and pimple like and they are where I am most sweaty if anything. I am itchy down there but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

TMI WARNING: what’s going on down there?

So, I’ve been coming on here a lot cause it honestly eases my mind talking about what’s going on with everything down there. I am seeing an obgyn Friday for my first ever Pap smear. I’m 22, and sexually active. My partner...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Guys: Is it a turn off if a woman tells you she’s still a virgin?

I’m 28 and I have never dated, kissed and nevertheless had sex. I’ve had a crush on a guy whom I know has dated several girls before and well he is way more sexually experienced than I am. Recently we began talking and he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

When will he say I love you?

my boyfriend and I are 19, have been dating for 6 months, and sexually active for four. We are like best friends, and get along great with each other’s friends and families. The sex is good, and we care for each other a...

alijacob1234

Xper 4 Age: 26

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Are women genuinely attracted to white men or is it because Society is telling you to? What do you think about white men?

I have always wondered if women were really attracted to white men. When a women is attracted to a black man , she is frowned upon by her family especially the father as well by society and yet she is still with him ,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why are people so judgmental when it come to fwb?

I found that most of the people who have something negative to say are people who have never been in a friends with benefits relationship. How can you judge something you’ve never experienced. Also everyone in these types...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Beauty standards and INCELs, a second look!

It’s time to bring incels back into the discussion today as I focus in on male attractiveness and physical beauty. I have written on this group in the past. But things have become unclear as to what an INCEL is lately,...

Robertcw

Editor Age: 32

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Dating

Does it sound like he just needs space or is this the end of things?

So I’ve been speaking to this guy for a few months, we’ve both told each other we like each other and things have been getting more intimate with each other, not just sexually. But opening up about how we feel etc....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

How is outlawing abortion taking away women’s reproductive rights right?

The way I see it women have plenty of right when it comes to there reproduction without the need for abortion. ( this doesn’t include rape victims they should have the option because in the right I’m about to list one has...

Stoner710

Guru Age: 32

Health & Fitness

I am 27 yo and tomorrow I have my first appointment at the gyno - What should I expect?

I am 27 yo and I've never been at the gynocologist. 1. its because I was always scared and 2. i wasn't very active sexually (had sex 2 times in my life till now) So tomorrow is my first time that Ill have a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Do very unrevealing clothes lead to rape?

Most people would say societies where women dress revealingly have more rape, but in reality it's the exact opposite. Think about this, why do many middle eastern and Indian guys on here send weird sexual messages to...

Nadim171

Yoda Age: 21

Girl's Behavior

'Unladylike' Things Women Should Stop Apologizing For

Cursing Sometimes regular words just aren’t going to cut it. Cursing can be an effective form of expression when feeling intense emotions. While it’s usually not necessary to throw F-bombs into every other word in normal...

MzAsh

Master Age: 41

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