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So, I literally hadn't seen my boyfriend properly for weeks there because I've been busy with university and exams etc.

Anyway, during the time I've been studying. He had a work night out last week, and had texted me saying he was almost home at around 20 past 11 at night.

Yesterday I saw him properly for the first time and had said that he had ended up not going home and went to a local night club with some of his work mates. He told me he ran into the secretary from his work (Emma) at the nightclub and asked if he could stand with Emma because the club was full of 16/17 year olds. Emma and my boyfriend are both in their 20s.

He then told me he'd apologised to her at work when he saw her the next day, and I asked what he'd felt he needed to apologise for. He said it was because he'd been dancing and swinging Emma and her friends around on the dancefloor while he was drunk and was nervous in case he'd embarrassed her and her friends. I immediately thought to myself... why care whether you'd embarrassed her or not?

He then went onto say that he thinks one his workmates had mentioned he 'used to have a thing for Emma' at some point during the night (why I needed to know that, I don't know) and to that I said "are you sure it isn't you that has a thing for her?" to which he replied "you better be kidding! No, I don't fancy Emma" but as he said that, his eyebrows twitched nervously. And it made me wonder if he's lying to me.

He also mentioned someone at his work said they'd saw the videos of him from the night before and he said he felt nervous about that. Why feel nervous about someone taking a video of you as well?

I just don't know what to think to be honest, he may well be telling the truth and I'm making a big deal out of nothing, but it made me feel kinda suspicious.

Thoughts?

so my boyfriend told my friend before he met me that he lost his virginity to someone, on April fool's dat and I find out from her and I kept asking him about it, and he keeps telling me he is a virgin, but somehow I still feel it couldn't be true. He told me the real story, yet I still somehow feel doubtful... Tonight he said "and um loose my virginity to you" and that "and um" part makes me feel like he is lying. I don't know what to believe and yes it hurts to be lied to, but more that I don't think I know the truth. What do you think? And do you think he could have lied? Cause he lies a lot to other people more than me. I am honestly scared cause I've been on this case for days and I'm just really really shaken. I'm just really really hurt from what he said but I don't want to say what he said if you want to ask me about it I may say. But I'm sorry if nothing makes sense, I just also wanna know, do darker knees mean he's non virgin? Cause that would help a lot. Thank you guys for being so patient with all my wild paragraphs of this shizzz it's just important for me to know o_o