Search Results: understanding his feelings

What I am to him? Or does he want?

I met this guy for more than a year. We first been friend and he started to try to kiss me. Later we had some oral sex. He learned my feelings for him and explained that he did not want me to have falsed hope as he wished...

Ninaq154

Xper 2 Age: 27

Am I still dateable if I have a sarcastic humor friendship with guys at work?

At first it hurt my feelings but now i feel understanding and like its not personal. If i kept allowing myself to get hurt about these guys mean comments, i think id lose my mind. But yeah, now that i accept these...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do you become a better listener and communicator to improve your understanding of your partner?

I'm a pretty good listener, but I always tend to add my own experiences too much, not necessarily because I want to talk about myself but to establish a link between me and my partner. At least that is my goal, but I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

A guy I knew for more than 7 years online asked me to be his girlfriend. I really liked him and agreed to it. 3 weeks later he ends it what happened?

We talked online over the course of 7 years it had it's ups and downs. He was in a relationship that he explained mentally screwed him up. You stressed to me that he wasn't ready for a relationship. But then turn right...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

The 10 signs the shy girl you like likes you back, from a shy girl!

We have all (or most of us) had at least one crush throughout our lives. We don’t even know why we fell in love with that person. We notice them, we idolise them and think of many silly ways to impress them, make them...

hellohruu

Xper 6 Age: 24

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Dating

Should I tell him I’m having doubts?

I’ve been dating this guys for 3,5 months now. It’s only been 3 weeks since he first told me he likes me. But he also said he still doesn’t want to be in a relationship with me. He told me he still wants to get to know me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is it so hard for guys to really like someone?

My guy friend recently told me, he can never seem to actually like a girl, he told me even in past relationships he never felt anything and would just lie to make his ex partners happy. He told me that he's never actually...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Observations on Behavior in Dating: A Battle Between the Sexes

This may trigger some people because whether you want to admit it or not, everyone does at least a few of these things when dating. I am equally guilty of doing some of these things too. As I have been on this site for a...

DexWest

Xper 7 Age: 33

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Understanding the whys and the dangers of hope?

Hi I think I just wanted to write something to understand and get the thoughts of some women out there but could also be helpful to me writing things down to process all this. So my ex girlfriend (Sarah) and I...

boymeetsgirl1

Xper 3 Age: 43

Dating

What's the "Common" Key for Navigating Relationships?

Knowing Your Brain On Love Relationships that tend to last are between people with common interests; especially if the sex isn't even happening. You said he's 40, so one possibility is the struggle men face when...

Charli7

Xper 4 Age: 46

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Well I found out he was cheating, made it seem like I was and it was him, I tried to leave him why did he stay to cheat?

I’m kinda hurt bc I literally had a gut feeling he was and I pushed it to the side because of how long we were together , he used to always have attitudes , accuse me of cheating , would constantly share and unshare his...

tahja

Xper 2 Age: 26

Ex friends with benefits that’s my baby daddy?

Me and my ex friends with benefits that’s baby daddy and I are not speaking and I’m not understanding what went wrong me and my bd used to talk bout everything he was my bff wen we first meet we sparked and we got closer...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would someone all of the sudden become jealous, paranoid or insecure about their partner years in?

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I was never paranoid or untrusting of him up until 3 weeks ago. Our communication is fantastic so I told him this. He instantly said "Well, let's see what we can do to fix this."...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

How do I encourage my boyfriend to better his relationship with his dad?

I love my boyfriend so much and he genuinely is one of sweetest people you will ever come across but his relationship with his dad is sometimes very upsetting. I know it's not my place to say, especially when me and my...

GlitterFairy16

Xper 6 Age: 22

Is this friendship worth saving?

I had an argument with one of my friends, and as a result, I feel I will need to take a few days to re-evaluate the validity of our friendship. Maybe my perspective is different, or we don’t have much in common. I don’t...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How To Keep a Man!

Hello! Happy Friday gagers. I`ve been doing my homework lately and realized (from the questions I have seen here previously) that women here need advice on how to keep a man! I think explaining that to a woman as a man...

ragequeen

Influencer Age: 25

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Why doesn't my ex want to accept or believe that I am over him?

My ex n I have a long history of conflict. Because he was a horrible person to me a LIAR n cheater in every way. However we do have a child together n we have to learn to communicate in a healthy way. But when I try to...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Marriage & Weddings

Marriage to a codependent?

I have being dating this guy for about 8 months. It has being just amazing. Next year he is going back to the States to study a masters degree and we were discussing what we should do about our relationship. During...

Anonymous

(30-35)