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My boyfriend and I have had our ups and downs so I could just be paranoid. But I do want to also shed light on the fact that this girl that I am about to discuss has been a huge playing factor in things that led to my paranoia. We have been together for 2 and a half years. The first year and a half was terrible. We faught constantly because of finances and it led to a lot of things before we finally were able to grow up and talk to each other like adults. We would split up and every time we did, he would go and hang out with this girl Jordan. Now, they had been friends for years so originally it didn't bother me. Not until he would tell me that she was always grabbing his ass, asking if he wanted to see her nipple piercings, bribing him with money to go hang out, running her mouth about him "playing daddy" to my kids and lastly, she started texting me saying some ignorant things. She was doing this all while claiming she didn't want my boyfriend and that he was just a friend. Last year we moved an hour and a half away from our hometown to start over. We vowed to not tell anyone where we were except his brother and our parents. 4 months ago my boyfriends brother was here saying that Jordan was asking where my boyfriend was living and what his phone number was. He didn't tell her anything and we went about life as if it was never brought up to us. However, our lease runs out next month and my boyfriend's brother posted on FB asking for tips on rents for us. Jordan commented on it and said "Isnt he living in Portland? I know of some rents." So I told my boyfriend and asked how she would know where we were and he shrugged and said "Guess we need to move out of state." His casual, unphased behavior normally wouldn't bother me except back when this girl was looking for his number or anytime before this, he would freak out and start yelling about how he was fed up with this girl being "obsessed" with him and that under no circumstances did he want her knowing where he was.