Search Results: are my signs obvious

Do guys (or even girls) pretend not to remember things about their crush?

I’ve been talking to this guy for about a year now. Sometimes he remembers the tiniest detail of something I did or told him, then at times he forgets some of the most obvious things. He recently asked “so what are you...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you REALLY understand how online dating works?

My experience online. I have significant experience with online dating. I began in 2007, after ending a long term relationship that was - obviously - a mistake. I signed up on match.com and POF. I met two women who were...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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Does a relationship break mean it's the end?

I can't say I didn't see this coming when he started to be less emotionally present, but I assumed it was just because he was tired and strung out after college each day. We've been in a strong long-distance relationship...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, a pretty girl at work is showing obvious signs she wants me ask her out?

so I work at car dealership and this is my first week only 4th day. Today, I had to find a car using key by going around the lot. I couldn't find the car, however this girl came out to check if I found the car. I told...

flyblue111

Xper 2 Age: 33

Girls, attractive girl at work is showing obvious signs she wants me ask her out?

flyblue111

Xper 2 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

What I Learned From My 9 Ex-Girlfriends (Part 1)

So, me being the inferior F-grade height I am, combined with being ugly, dark-skinned, having hypothyroidism (thus effortlessly overweight), as well as having had a Precious Puberty, which lead to at least two of these...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

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Health & Fitness

Please read details! BPD Sufferers: how can someone show empathy to you?

I don't want to get into a whole long saga but basically someone who had put me through an emotional wringer and continues to be fixated on me is exhibiting signs of BPD. It's actually pretty much very very obvious that...

Coulis

Xper 7 Age: 42

Girls, why do you think hints work?

Guys don't really do subtulity. We're pretty blunt and obvious. We also don't read hints that well. If you've just been hinting that you like a guy and he seems totally oblivious to it, he probably is. Most people misread...

Twalli

Master Age: 35

My guy ‘friend’ called me and told me he was in love with me. Being a jokester or is that too deep for a male joke?

For context, him and I become close in a short space of time and quite quickly acknowledged we were attracted to each other. Due to circumstances we were just friends. No hooking up either even though we both did want to....

Anonymous

(36-45)

What are some subtle ways that I can ask him out or exchange numbers?

There’s this cute guy I work with who has shown me some signs that he finds me attractive. I want to talk to him outside of work, but I don’t want to be too obvious about it. We technically have a “no dating within the...

YesTaylor21

Xper 5 Age: 29

Co-worker giving me signs even though she has a boyfriend?

It’s doing my head in. I don’t get it. I work at a factory which has an office area. She works in the office and I in the factory. It somewhat started around 3 weeks ago and I don’t know why? I only really...

YakuzaDiscoMan

Xper 1 Age: 29

Guys, What are the subtle signs you've given to a girl you like?/Girls, what are the subtle signs you've gotten from a guy that he likes you?

Not talking about creepy, straight-up stalker behavior. This Q especially applies to that case where you don't know a lot about each other, but one of you is curious as a cat, yet afraid of getting caught. Tbh sometimes...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is he so confusing?

This boy was 3 years older than me in high school. He initially showed strong signs of being interested in me-very obvious even to outsiders, however, when I approached him, he explained respectfully that I misunderstood...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

How do I subtly flirt with someone in the hallway?

I have a major crush on this guy who lives in the same apartment building as me. We often pass each other in the hallway, smile and say hello. How can I let him know I’m interested without being too obvious? Also what are...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, when you find a man attractive but don't know or have ever spoke to him, what is your behaviour like?

There's a girl whom I take the same bus to work as in the mornings, and I find her really attractive! Every day we see each other she makes a point of making eye contact and giving me a warm smile as I get on, the type of...

FazakMan94

Xper 2 Age: 31

Flirting

Girls, is it true that you feel compelled to touch the guy you are interested in?

I know girls are usually told not to be too friendly with guys so as to not lead them on. That being said, if you start touching a guy more (i. e. shoulders, arms), is that an obvious sign of attraction for you?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you determine when a date is over?

I'm an individual who doesn't like to have my time wasted, nor do I want to waste anyone else's time. This is why I try not to salvage dates when the vibes are off, or it seems obvious that both parties are better off...

Dreday906

Xper 2 Age: 34

Insecurities about my looks?

I feel like my mind is in North Korea atm. Growing up I was constantly bullied for having red hair and told by countless women that it is a curse for men to have and amazing for women to have. I've been on tinder and...

Lj0011

Xper 5 Age: 31