Search Results: come off as too needy

Seriously considering online dating

I am a guy in his twenties and I have up until now had no experience whatsoever with women. That means no dates, no kisses, nothing. For a long time I never considered online dating an option but as time passes by and...

Anonymous

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How can I get this girl back?!

I've lived in my current apt complex for almost a year. For the last four months I've had a big crush on a girl in my leasing office; due to their strict rules she isn't allowed to date anyone one of us tenants, even...

Anonymous

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This guy confuses the hell out of me..help!

This guy&I met at a concert over a year ago.. He's 3 years older than I am too. Ever since we first met I've liked him. It just feels right to me. He's always been one to mess with me though.. He goes to school 4 hours...

Crimsonbamagirl

Xper 5 Age: 31

Is he withdrawing after asking me to be his girlfriend?

I started seeing a new guy about two months ago. He is a senior in college and graduating this month, I am a year younger and will be abroad for the summer. Because of this, we originally agreed to keep things casual....

Anonymous

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Busting Myths About Modern (Non-Extreme) Feminism

Feminism is a widely debated topic of today. However, what exactly is it? Many people are unsure of what feminism means (besides the women’s suffrage movement and others of the 20th century) and do not understand how it...

Anonymous

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A girl I was getting close to suddenly seems disinterested?

I've known this girl for around 6 months and we've been getting progressively closer each time we see each other. We got to the point where we hug each other very often and will hold hands etc. She's told me that she...

Anonymous

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Valentine's Day

He is pulling away after being all sweet and loving last Valentines

I went out for a few casual dates (just normal get-to-know each other stuff) with this guy before he joined a project overseas few months ago. Since then we've developed a long distance flirt and crush kinda thing. From...

Anonymous

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How do I react to apology?

Ok so my boyfriend been ignoring me for couple of weeks, he blew me off many times when we were supposed to meet. I'm avoiding him back and making it seem as though I'm happy with life and there are other things besides...

Anonymous

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Not calling back...Curious behavior. What do you think?

So I've been talking to this girl for a couple of weeks and taken her out on 4 really cool dates 4 weekends in a row that were practically perfect in all areas. Things like dinner and dancing, football games, tapas bar...

trueblooded2013

Xper 5 Age: 45

Ladies, what is too much, too fast, or too soon for a first date?

What is the limit on spending $$, time, touching, kissing, etc. when on a first date. I know its good to impress a girl, but there is also a way to come off as too needy and clingy by going overboard on a restaurant or...

brandon8899

Xper 5 Age: 35

Don't come off as needy

This girl I like isn't feeling too good so I went over to her house last night to give her some medicine and spend some time with her. I text her today and haven't heard from her all day. I want to see if she is OK by...

Anonymous

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Is it possible for us to get back together?

My now ex boyfriend and I dated for 3weeks, he felt smothered by me and discontinued the relationship. This relationship was via Xbox and live and text, also should mention we are not in the same country, about 2years ago...

RZiPc00ki3

Xper 5 Age: 32

Relationships

I feel like I said I love you too soon!

I take it that it can be a turnoff and it can make you come off as needy and desperate.He was the one who said it first on like the first face to face conversation as an official couple or when we started dating...

Anonymous

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Did I come off as too needy? Is it over now?

I'm 22, and my female coworker is 23. She's a new hire. About 3 weeks ago I got her number, told her I would hit her up sometime and she said alright. First time I asked her out she said no. 6 days later I asked her...

Anonymous

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Your Feelings Don't Matter

Listen, I'm just a guy. I was born with testosterone, a propensity for growing hair on my back, and a lack of vocabulary to explain my feelings. And what I can't explain I don't discuss. And yet I DO have...

bobair

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Why does he always take responsibility for me?

I'm a big girl, I can and always have taken care of myself. This guy though always seems to want to take care of me. The first time we ever hung out, he wouldn't let me climb this building like I did before with him...

katg4560

Xper 4 Age: 32

Relationships

Why do girls get a free pass for being insecure? an insecure girl can get a boyfriend but an insecure guy

can't get a girlfriend, well at least the vast majority of the time he won't, why is insecurity frowned upon more in guys than it is in girls? Also, not only that, why are guys expected to be way more independent than...

Anonymous

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