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There’s a guy that has been flirting with me for about a month. He is super shy. Never been in a relationship or done anything with a girl. We both look at each other a lot and it always looks like he’s trying to suppress a smile. He is always in the area I’m in, even if it’s not directly by me. He goes out of his way to help me do things even when I never asked him for help. He does smile and laugh with me but when we talk it’s very vague. He did sit near me at lunch but now will sit across from me. He sometimes stands right beside me. Sometimes he looks annoyed with me and will avoid me and sometimes he gives a sheepish grin and will talk and his face gets all red. We both have this fight or flight response and whenever we are uncomfortable we flight. I’m shy myself too. I overheard People saying that he wears a shit ton of cologne (just started doing that about a month ago) because he likes me and he only does it on days we work together. I follow him on twitter but he doesn’t follow me back. I also asked him hesitantly to talk after work and he said he would stay but not even 20 minutes later he was one of the first people to leave. I also have done that with him when he tried to stay after to talk to me before, just the two of us, I speed walked super fast out of there. We are both super hesitant to talk to each other and when we do we get embarrassed easily and then avoid each other like no other. That’s our flight response. We both also don’t talk to each other when other people are around. How do I get him to stay and actually talk to him? He also has no problem talking to anybody else at work it’s just with me and I don’t know why.