Do You Think You Can Flirt?

[AbdKilani]

Hello
مرحبا

So, today's take is going to be about flirting, as you can remember, I have said that I will make a take about it in one my questions that I asked a couple of days ago:

Do you know how to flirt? And if you are bad at it, how bad are you?

Suggested reading track:

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Shedding some light into nice VS flirty:

Friendly

Well, lets face it, many people confuse being nice and kind with flirting, specially here on G@Gc, I have asked about this, and people told me it is okay to be this nice, as long as you tell people you are not flirting (Which I do ), I often would be nice and tell people positive stuff, if I am to flirt I would be willing to date that girl and I did that once or twice but it was in private and I was clear in my intentions and yup, got rejected lol anyways the thing is I keep it clear, I don't play games I am just like this, I like to be nice and kind to people.

Why to flirt?

Attraction

Flirting is a natural reaction when you see someone that you like and find attractive, flirting is just an indirect way to tell them that you like them and attracted to them.

When to flirt?

Hold your horses

I am sure you want to flirt on the spot, most of us can't stop it, but you should know better to wait, at least until you talk with the person twice and you have a good first few steps on the line of attraction.

How to flirt?

Flirt and make them feel special

This is where it gets tricky, but if you are true about it, it should be easy just say the truth and don't be straight forward about it but don't be too vague too. You should show that you treat that person extra special and more nice than others. I can tell you that many girls (Including my crush) were flirting with me as I did, but it was just too vague and I didn't get enough hints to proceed, just show that they are special to you, complement them on their looks, and most important notice the small things, a girl with a new hair style , or the guy is getting more ripped or wearing a new color that looks good..etc

There you have it, these are guide lines to flirt and that would help you out dealing with your crush in a good way. For me I am flirty, more online TBH but in real life too I could be charming, but things doesn't always work out, you got to know that.

Peace be upon you all <3

[WillyD]

I can't wait to hear the women's response to this take. lol I really don't like flirting because to me it's just teasing. I'm sure women love it because women in general love attention. But if they have genuine interest in you at some point they want the teasing to stop and you get serious. Now the question is what is your motive behind the flirt. That's the bottom line. If your flirting with someone (this goes for males and females) and your only goal is to peak their interest and walk away you're not a nice person. In short i don't consider complimenting someone as flirting. Flirting is deceptive in nature and i'd rather be up front. But that's just my take.

[AbdKilani]

Nice way to see it

[monkeynutts]

Expertise in the art of Flirtation, can be achieved with practice, positive results can be achieved by knowing when is the right time to risk allowing a girl or guy know that you like them.

Humor is always a good tool, the best way to build a rapport with a person is to make them laugh.

Understanding body language is important to success, if they obviously feel uncomfortable by your advances the best option is to stop flirting with them.

[AbdKilani]

Yes indeed this is a big part of this take

[weysally]

flirting is fun even at my age, its nice that the males can come close to a sexual talk and have a smile about it, in our loves we have all flirted sometimes, its the prelude to a relationship in most cases,
I love to flirt and I like the men that flirt with me whether I fancy them or not,

[AbdKilani]

That's nice ☺️
Flriting is different and depends on the person most times

[Lolli2]

I definitely can. It happens pretty much automatically without trying when I am in the presence of a guy I am strongly attracted to. If I actually tried to flirt on purpose though, I'm not sure I could. It's more in my body language, voice, eye contact, smile etc.

[AbdKilani]

I see
That's good 😄

[Pineapple_Boy]

I like flirting tbh. I don't it with women I'm not even attracted/interesting in. It's fun and you can really make someone's day.

In my culture it's a normal thing so most men and women know that it's just being playful and they don't take to heart.

[AbdKilani]

Good
What is your culture if I may know?

[thisbutterfly81]

Yes, I definitely flirt, probably too much! ha ha! It's fun tho! However I will note... single, I flirt freely... in a relationship, I flirt with him only and I will FLIRT consistently lol! Keeps things interesting and playful!

[AbdKilani]

Great 😁

[SilverHail]

I can flirt as long as someone initiates the conversation. I'm too shy to start the convo but I can flirt if someone initiates it for me.

[AbdKilani]

Nice ☺️

[AnnasiaB]

yes i a so good at it, especially with y best friend. I love hi so much, and i just touch him, or smile a lot

[AbdKilani]

Nice ☺️

[ATuairiscean]

Good take lots of educational stuff - I liked the bit about people confusing being nice with flirting

[AbdKilani]

I had to clear it out

[FatherJack]

No , out of practice for years and am a single , FT working dad , no inclination to date. Too detached by nature , most women round my way are not the friendliest or remotely attractive either.

[AbdKilani]

🙁 That's just bad place you are in.. 😔

[Adrianna7868]

If its a guy I like, no way. I immediately become a nervous stuttering mess

[AbdKilani]

That is cute
But you have at least to give some signs

[Adrianna7868]

I do, but I have to get over the initial phase of nervousness first

[AbdKilani]

I see
You will

[MrAdams]

I can't at all. I get nervous too much and fuck up everything.

But thank you for the track, i was looking for it while ago :D

[AbdKilani]

You can try to take a breath and take things easy
And you are welcome 👍

[deLéman]

Yeah, I've been told that I can be a smooth talker or really poetic ;)

[AbdKilani]

Lol cool 😯

[Aguysopinion4799]

Yeah, I am surprisingly good at flirting but just has to be with the right person :)

[AbdKilani]

Yes it should be like that

[Aguysopinion4799]

Agreed <3 :)

[AbdKilani]

😁😁😊

[alieneila]

Yeah, when I am not trying to and don't have any feelings

[AbdKilani]

Good

[ultimega]

Good take however sometimes I don't realize I'm doing it.

[AbdKilani]

Haha yes it is like automatic reaction

[Blank01001]

Mmm... it depends on the situation and my relationship with the other person. I rarely flirt but whenever I do it's just for fun to keep things interesting and exciting XD

[AbdKilani]

Lol good 😁

[JohnnyMunch]

What's the point of flirting, if it doesn't get you laid?

[AbdKilani]

That's not good thinking, and for that you will need a six pack

[aes321]

i can... i do it too much tho

[AbdKilani]

Lol good

[aes321]

good that i can? or that i do it too much? lmao

[AbdKilani]

good that you can :)

[Jjpayne]

You make it seem so simple :)

[AbdKilani]

It is simple 😁

[AnnieBabe]

Thank you, kind sir for letting me know.

[AbdKilani]

Welocme young lady 👍

[Eryxx]

I can probably never learn to flirt 😐

[AbdKilani]

Lol use these guidelines

[Eryxx]

Learning them is one thing but executing them..😔😔

[AbdKilani]

Yeah. You can practice with a friend, on G@G

[Eryxx]

Who?

[AbdKilani]

I don't know you choose someone

[Eryxx]

Nah man.. I'm better alone xD

[AbdKilani]

No, you should never be alone

[Eryxx]

Lol sure thing mate.. I'll try to mingle up with idiots 😀

[AbdKilani]

Haha yes you brilliant young lad.. And stop calling people idiots

[Eryxx]

Most of them really are.. 😒

[AbdKilani]

Stop being salty man... People are great you just need to understand that

[Somerandongager]

Your grey shirt is hot sexy beast 😌

[AbdKilani]

Haha that's wow ☺️👏👏

[Somerandongager]

I think I’m a natural☺️

[AbdKilani]

You are 😉

[sarahhcmarie]

Yep, I do think I can flirt
lel

[AbdKilani]

You think you can, there is a big difference when you say I think I can, and I know I can
😁😌