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The reason why I say that the dating and relationships, boyfriend/girlfriend scene is fair for girls but not fair for guys is for the obvious reason that us guys always have to be the ones to initiate everything, we have to make the first move and start the conversations, keep them alive, prevent all of the awkward silences and pauses, call back first after the date, overall, initiate everything, while girls get everything handed to them on a silver platter, they get to be spoiled by us guys which I don't like. Hell, even Dating and Relationship Experts Ron Louis and David Copeland will openly admit and say that Dating is not fair. But that's not the whole story, the fact that us guys have to initiate everything is not the only thing that is not fair. It's because girls just have to be cute and pretty, look good in order to attract guys, in order to be girlfriend material, that's all, a girl can be bratty, boring, have no life, be negative everything as long as she is very hot, meanwhile guys have to be high status, talk right, think right, walk right, sit right, stand right, breathe right, have the right social skills, the right conversation skills, the right attitude, the right mentality, the right way of thinking, they have to have a life, be in involved in something or with something, have a passion, be a leader and not a follower, be confident, have friends, be outgoing, be decent looking, be tall.

Something is shallow when we are attracted to it, but it doesn't tell us anything about the other person's character.

For guys that's:

-Looks/hotness (primarily)

-Horniness/sluttiness

For girls that's:

-Social status (primarily)

-Looks

-Money

Now that we've got that out of the way, let's see how each gender reacts in a shallow situation:

A shallow guy will go for a hot, slutty girl, f*** her, and then be done. Hit it and quit it.

A shallow girl will go for a hot popular guy, date him, have sex with him, try to get in a relationship, and then get hurt when it didn't happen or when he leaves her. This is your typical player scenario.

So why does the girl think that her shallow attraction is a reason to start a relationship? I don't know, but I think that the solution is pretty clear. For girls, you just have to figure out when you're being shallow and not fall for guys based on social status. It's comparable to a guy being infatuated with a girl's beauty.