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What I am getting at here is how do you imagine your future wife or husband, do you want them to be just like you or completely opposite from you?

Here is an example let say you are a black American man who is a democrat, you want to have a family and you imagine becoming a chemical engineer. Would you prefer to date a woman/man who is also democrats, they are also black American and want to start a family and their career choice is an chemical engineer as well or you not interested in dating or marrying a person who resemble you.

While this is the opposite answer, you are a black American male who is of course a democrat, his main career goals are becoming a chemical engineer. You want to have your very own family but here is the thing your partner is rationally different from you. You prefer to have a partner who is a republican, he/she is a different race from your own, they might not been interested in starting a family but you look pass it but the main thing is they worked in a different profession like a college professor. Would you rather have a person who is opposite from you or you couldn't live like that and you want to have someone who shares your ideas, culture, race, political views, and of course have the exact same job as you!

I actually really love the idea of opposite attract to me personally, I kinda wouldn't be interested in dating a literal female version of myself, so I definitely would want to choose a girl who is rationally different from my ideas and views. But what about you men and women, want a partner who is exactly similar to you or you want a partner who is completely different from you? Remember there ain't no right or wrong answer!

And if so, why? Like how many of you guys out there feel that sleeping around is dishonorable? Or getting hammered every weekend is straight up childish behavior? I see too many women getting hammered and having WAAAAAY more sex than the men they try to criticize. And there are a lot of women out there that are pro choice which shows they aren't willing to accept the consequences of sleeping around. Ladies DO NOT get this twisted I am not saying ALL WOMEN nor am I saying that there aren't deadbeat men. But what I am saying is that I feel men have to held to a different standard in society to be seen as noble. I've upheld my integrity and treated classless women the way I was raised to. But they don't respect it, they laugh or ignore me.

Note these women are NOT the women I would even dream of touching. But all through my life I've seen far, far more women acting like debased animals and children then men. I've hung around a lot of men that carried themselves with integrity. But the majority of women I met were the exact opposite and many would say they don't even care about honor, chivalry and all that. But then complain when a player uses them like a piece of garbage. Why do women demand respect when they don't show they can even respect themselves, their communities, their families, their neighbors? Saying Hi/Bye to people isn't being respectful by the way. Your actions are what prove your worth.

Last side note: I am NOT saying men are not without their faults, they have plenty. But the low class trash women are the ones speaking for women these days and ladies aren't putting them in check. There's a reason why so many men have lost respect for women. Ladies, please restore face because you ARE better than this and you know it's true. Lots of you out there with good hearts and good intentions, put those things into action and be an example to the young girls out there who lacked good role models. I DO NOT hate women, I want better for all!