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My best friend has been in love with me for 8 years. I've known for 3 years but am not attracted to him that way [you know the drill - to make it short, I am what they nowadays label as 'a friendzoning evil bitch'] and told him so very clearly, as to not create further expectations. 2 years ago I got into a relationship, I still am very in love, he still won't meet the guy out of spite. When loneliness got to him he got a girlfriend and he expects me to meet her. She knows the truth about his feelings for me (I am not sure she knows they're still there, but I know and that's strange enough) and has already tried to manipulate him by saying all kinds of crap about me even though we haven't met. Ironically enough that's what he did about my boyfriend too. When she came to visit him the last time (she lives in another city) they invited me over one night, but I had a lot of work to do and couldn't go. She got upset and my friend acted awkwardly which made her conclude I was avoiding her. She wouldn't let it go for days afterwards and fought with my friend over this until I made contact with her, so this nonsense would finally stop. I kindly explained, introduced myself and eversince, she's been writing to me daily, she reacted dubiously friendly. He talks about me often when they're together and she said she was very 'curious'. I should probably mention she'll be moving in with my friend, who's in love with me, but who feels guilty about being with her under these circumstances, so he tries to help out (she wanted to move out of her town and kinda needs financial support). My expectations are that he will probably never really love her but he will manage to distance himself from me, which may be for the best. At least we won't see each other almost daily like we do now. However, I am clueless as to how to act when she's there, I'll meet her soon. I am aware that she sees me as a threat, but still I wonder if it's possible for things to ever be genuinely friendly.

My boyfriend is obsessed with being 6'2, which is quite specific, anyways he thinks he is 5'9 but isn't really sure. Sometimes he swears he is taller than that. I'm only 5 foot so he's tall enough for as is but it seems to be a hot topic for him and he was very excited to find out his height.

So last month the school nurse gave him a physical for whatever reason and they said he was only 5'6 or 5'7 but he felt like it wasn't accurate cause she measured him the "old fashion way." So last week he went to the doctors for his annual check up and they took his height but usually they don't tell you your height or weight unless you ask.

So somehow he forgot to ask. Is he really that clueless, considering that he really wanted to know his height for at least months or did he pretend to forget because he got a number he didn't like?

I always try to make him feel good about his height because he is pretty tall in comparison to me. I call him a giant and say he's the perfect height for me. I really don't understand, maybe it's an insecurity of his. I don't know why it bothers me, I guess I feel as though he is lYing to me about it and I'm a little irritated.