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The reason I ask: We do it ourselves all the time, talk about how we have an unconditional love, why we know we will always be together, all the things that show us we are meant to be together, etc. We have talked about these things for a while, all of them stand. Justin is a psychology teacher too, so I just kind-of go with that as my "excuse." It gives me more reason to trust his intuition. (not that I have any doubts about getting married, I don't, I'm talking about the counseling part) But here's the thing: a lot of people say pre-marital counseling is a good start. We are open-minded to it, but honestly it's something we don't see the point in BUT we think there might be a point that we're just not seeing. This is where you GAGers get to help us out! :)

So, do you GAGers think we should do it professionally, or is his psycho-oriented brain enough? 😂 Jk, do you think there is something we might miss if we don't do it professionally?
Like I said, we would be fine without, if not we would do it later.

This guy and I have a very toxic relationship.
Same age. He treated me horribly/used me and in return I got hurt. Misunderstandings and miscommunications.

We separated for a good 7-8 months. He kept hovering over my social media during that time even though we didn’t follow each other. It was toxic to the point where other people were in our business. I ended up blocking those people but I gave him a second chance. With this second chance I told him I value honesty and safe sex. He said he wanted to respect me and didn’t want me for just purely sex. However, after he left he stopped messaging/texting me as much. He went against our plan for meeting each other. My intuition told me to check something. 2 days later I found out one of the condoms was broken. When I asked him about it he said he knew but it broke when he took it off. I asked if he knew where the sperm went. He called me weird and stopped talking to me for 2-3 weeks. No communication at all. I went to get tested. He lied and I got infected. Nothing too serious that is life or death so far. After 2-3 weeks he ghosted me he comes back and asks if I’m doing anything. At this point I feel completely disrespected and that he’s blind to what he does. Do I tell him I’m not a suitable partner and wish him well? Or do I just completely ignore him?