Me and this one girl who gets on my bus to college, we've had a previous altercation about a year ago and since coming back to college in September her and her friend have been messing with my head however it's more her friend doing this than the girl. This girls will join in but won't do too much beyond watching me.
This girls friend is a MASSIVE bitch, though.
I did confront the girl when she least expected it, about them watching me. she looked like she had shit herself and she denied everything.
On a certain day, this girl gets on the bus on her own and at the start of term she begun sitting far away and now likes to sit directly opposite me ( where I usually sit, in front of my mate. Quite odd for someone who I have been told is apparently uncomfortable with me...) And she will go sit there with no hesitation even when I'm already on the bus.
Most notably, I also have turned round to speak to my mate a few times and caught her eye but I know it wasn't me that initiated the eye contact, I've seen her eyeing me out by peripheral vision quite a few times, caught her looking at me through gaps in the bus seats occasionally and even one time where my mate could see her eyeing me before I even turned round.
She's been looking at me a lot when there really is no need to. I don't attract much attention from, well, anyone... So I really don't know why she would be eyeing me so much.
I spoke to my mate a few days ago about this, she thinks the girl likes me. She didn't explain how, said it's a "female thing" but I would assume its some type of intuition or inside knowledge of what females do when they like someone ( my mates a female and she's a lot older than me, got that life experience)
What the fuck is she playing at?
I think she does like you, but considering the way her friend acts she kinda felt like she couldn’t say anything and maybe that’s why she’s acting the way she is on the bus when her friend isn’t with her.
"Perhaps constrained by her friends influence" is I think what my mate said a few weeks ago...
When she's with her friend, she will sometimes play along with any games her friends playing, but she's doing it so much less now than at the start of term, while her friend has continued. And when she's on her own she's like a fucking shadow. Like I said, there is no real reason for her to continue watching me or get closer to me, even when she's on her own, so I'm inclined to agree. But, if she really didn't like me, she would just ignore me or stay away perhaps? I know that's what id do.
Yeah, if I didn’t like a guy I wouldn’t be getting closer to him the way she is. I definitely think she’s more comfortable at least trying to get closer to you when her friend isn’t there to be annoying.
To be fair, that sounds about right. When. I spoke to her, I called her and her mate out, and she denied everything but her face went red and she looked like a deer in headlights... I reckon I did catch her out but now I'm not too keen on going up to her yet, in case i get it wrong... Even so, she has gotten so close to me now that I think it's practically impossible for her to be uncomfortable with me...
I was wondering whether youve ever had an experience like I said my mate has, where you sort of know a girl likes a guy? My mate hasn't said why she thinks the girl likes me, but says " it's a female thing" and she "just knows"... I trust my mate with my life, so I'm inclined to trust her with this
( she's even started to make jokes about me getting with this girl, grooming my pubes for her, shit like that. I know she wouldn't say it otherwise), I would assume its some sort of intuition or inside knowledge of what girls do when they like someone, fuck, I don't know. You ever experienced this?