Is she giving me signs to ask her out?

[Bringmebackto2008]

am in college and have a class with a girl my age. She laughs at stuff I say, smiles a lot at me and to stuff I say. She said hi when she saw me ask what's up. We had to do peer reviews and she came to my table sat next to me at my table. She sat between me and another woman Im friends with, talked to her she said something, smiled at me and looked deep into my eyes and didn't stop smiling and it felt awkward, if I didn't break the eye contact she probably would've continued. One day I sat down waiting for class and sat with another woman and she came in for class walked over and started waiting very close to me, hovering over standing in my personal space, she walked right in front of me and started getting close to me and I could smell her but she had her back to me. This was the closest she's been to me. There was a whole room not a lot of other people it's empty. When I talked about another girl flirting with me and asking for advice from a woman I talk to in college to not lead her on. She joined the conversation said that the other girl will continue pushing boundaries and persisting if I don't say I'm not interested and ignore hrr. She started this stuff after I asked for advice, . I told her someone said my hair looks like the clown from it and she said that's not nice. I'm afraid she knows I'm too nice not say I'm not interested in a girl and won't ignore. She started seeming flirty after giving me advice

Yes she's been Flirting

No

[Heaz99]

The part where you ignored her and she had an attitude. Maybe she was just frustrated that you didn't notice her efforts in trying to get your attention. Though if she has a boyfriend now, I don't know. Study how she acts when she's with him. It could give you a clue as to whether or not she's genuinely happy with him or she (might and I say this as a theory, take it with a grain of salt) be trying to get you jealous somehow. She could just be in a relationship, because she's lonely, she wants to be in a relationship just to be in one or she's trying to get your attention. (Maybe) I hope I'm right because I don't want to give you false hopes, but you seem very in love with this girl! If she was single, I would say, tell her how you feel. If she would've rejected you it's okay, there are a lot of people on this earth.

I know everyone thinks they have one soulmate, but they actually have many and they don't always have to be romantic partners either.

And for the observing part, I'm sorry if that sounds like a crazy Idea, but try it. (your dealing with someone who is going to college to study psychology. I just love observing people and trying to understand why they do what they do! LOL, sorry I can't help myself.)

[Bringmebackto2008]

I really want to be friends with her

[Heaz99]

Oh, i thpught you had a crush on her or something

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why am I told she likes to tease me

[Bringmebackto2008]

You still there

[Heaz99]

Oh. I'm VERY sorry! Yes I am. Didn't mean to leave ya hangin' there. My apologies. And your last reply what exactly do you mean? I'm not sure I follow.

[AmandaYVR]

You have described a scenario and stacked the decks so that, imho, there is likely no way that she's not into you. She is. But if you're not interested in her, then... so what? You seem to know how to let them down, so do that.
On this and other posts from guys, I notice a bit of a pattern with no matter what the scenario described, some guys will always think something like "she's playing games - not worth it". Maybe. But don't forget everyone is young once, and they are trying to figure out themselves and how to act, how to be around others, etc. Sounds to me like she likes you and is not a subtle girl. You have your choice on what to do next. She's putting the signals out there. She wants you to meet her halfway? Maybe she'll stop if you don't.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Hey when she stood really close to me when I sat with a 39 yo woman was she trying to get close to me intentionally

[AmandaYVR]

Is that a question? Cause it's funny that it doesn't have the question mark, yet like I said, you seem to know it already.

[Bringmebackto2008]

When you girls do what she did

Do you stand that close on purpose?

[AmandaYVR]

Well it's not a girl thing in particular. Think of human beings as not that disimilar to animals. We stay away from those that could be a threat, we allow our bubble to be closed down when there is no sign of trouble. If she is really on purpose moving that close to you, she may be attracted to your scent (cologne, or natural), or wants to hear what you are saying. Either way, come on, you can't be this clueless. You are starting to sound like you just want compliments from strangers.

[Bringmebackto2008]

I wasn't sure if I'm overthinking or notice things but I did notice she was close enough I noticed and smelled her

[AmandaYVR]

Yes you're overthinking and yes she likes you. Move on to someone you're also interested in.

[Bringmebackto2008]

I meant overthinking as in I wasn't noticing something, nothing was going on that's what I meant

[CharlieBadger]

Yes, she is interested in you.

If you are interested in her ask her out.

If you want to make a good impression have a plan on what to do and or where to eat. Have back ups in case she wants to do / eat something different. Seriously, women like it when a man has his shit together. plans but flexibility.

Now if you aren't interested then I don't know how to help.

[Bringmebackto2008]

How do you know she's interested

[CharlieBadger]

She laughs at stuff I say, smiles a lot at me and to stuff I say.
She said hi when she saw me ask what's up.
She came to my table sat next to me at my table.
She sat "between" me and another woman Im friends with,
smiled at me and looked deep into my eyes and didn't stop smiling and it felt awkward,
One day I sat down waiting for class and sat with another woman and she came in for class walked over and started waiting very close to me, hovering over standing in my personal space, she walked right in front of me and started getting close to me and I could smell her

Those are probably the big ones.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would she tell me to ignore a girl that likes me and that shell push when she's doing that afterwards

[Massageman]

If I understand all your pronouns correctly, it sounds as if the girl in question seems to be pushing her way into your life with little regard about your relationships- regardless of kind.

[Bringmebackto2008]

How do you know

[Massageman]

You answered your own question when you said ----- " sat with another woman and she came in for class walked over and started waiting very close to me, hovering over standing in my personal space, she walked right in front of me and started getting close to me. . . ."

[Bringmebackto2008]

So she's obviously trying to interfere with other women

She butted into my conversation when I asked for advice on how to not lead on another girl she butted in told Me ignore her or shell keep pushing

[MrOracle]

LOL. YES, dummy! This girl is obviously showing a lot of interest in you and probably goes home wondering "what more could I do to get my point across?"

When a girl isn't interested in you, she will almost never go out of her way to be physically close to you or give you compliments or give you a lot of attention. This girl is doing all of those things.

You need to flirt with her, and be a bit more overt about your interest in her, and you'll almost certainly see her escalate a bit to match (or, she'll back WAY off in the rare case where she is just being friendly and didn't mean to show romantic interest, but I don't think that's the case here). Assuming she responds positively, then you need to TELL her that you're going to take her on a date.

"You know what? You're awesome. We need to go on a date. If you're free on Saturday, I'll pick you up and we can _______."

If you TELL a girl that you're going to take her out, and if she has any interest in you, she's either going to say "OMG, I'm already committed on Saturday, but how about Sunday/next weekend?" or she's going to say "Yes!" Women respond very positively to confidence, and having the confidence to TELL her instead of just ASKING her will greatly increase your chances of a "yes." Make sure you have an activity that's inexpensive (don't try to impress her by spending money) and where you have lots of time to talk to each other (movies aren't great for this), and have at least 2 backups in case she wants to do the date but really doesn't like the activity. Again, girls don't like having to make the decisions, so you having chosen the activities is likelier to get a positive response.

It's even better if you know some things that she likes already. It shows that you've been paying attention to her and take her preferences into consideration, and most girls will like and appreciate that.

Being "too nice" isn't really a problem of being nice - girls like nice - rather, it's a problem of lacking confidence and trying to make up for that lack of confidence by "letting" her make all the decisions and choices (girls don't actually LIKE making the choices!) and by never telling her "no". It's perfectly possible to be nice and still make most/all of the decisions and to tell her "no" if she's being unreasonable about something - girls actually want and respect that. The solution to being a "nice guy" isn't to be a dick - it's just to have confidence and to make decisions.

[Bringmebackto2008]

I'm just used to guys saying I don't know signals or saying she's being polite

[MrOracle]

That's why you flirt with her. Flirting is a SMALL escalation of the situation, and you'll either get a positive response or a negative response. A positive response is that she laughs, makes physical contact, or otherwise escalates herself. A negative response is her backing away or changing the subject. If you're getting the positive responses, then she's telling you that she's into you and that you should initiate a date with her.

Girls don't want to just come right out and say "I like you, ask me out" so you have to pay attention to those initial signals (which you've clearly noticed), and then escalate with flirting to double-check, and then you either back off or you initiate a date.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Well I realised I Kind of shy away once I notice things I did with eye contact and when girls show it I don't know what to do

[MrOracle]

You FLIRT BACK - that's what you do. And you start planning date choices in preparation for inviting her on the date.

Yes, you'll occasionally get rejected. Don't take it too seriously - you'll survive and there will be other girls. Be gracious if you're rejected - she might have a friend and if her friend gets a "good review" from her about how you acted when she rejected you, that's a big win for you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Is she shy with me

[nightdrot]

Forgive me. I usually do not respond to these types of questions because there is no way that I can know the things I need to know to make an informed judgment. I do not know the personalities involved. I have no sense of context or history and the only things I do know I am only getting from one side of the aisle so to speak - yours.

However, in this case, I am not even sure of the basis of the question. You go on for a lengthy paragraph describing the numerous ways that she seems to be showing interest in you. Then you ask why "blowing her off" would upset her. Is that not obvious?

She is turning handstands to catch your eye and get your interest. You respond courteously - good for you - but not with any enthusiasm. It seems her reaction is only natural. Frustration, disappointment, etc,

That is how we all react when we don't get what we want - especially when it comes to romance and sex. You are playing - unintentionally - with her feelings and her natural instincts. She probably could respond better and more wisely than she has - but that she is reacting poorly is not really a surprise. (Although, based on what you wrote, her response does not seem to be that bad.
Certainly it could be worse.)

Bottom line, in terms of your own conduct, remember that it is not what you want to say, it is what the other person to hear. So be clear in your own mind about what you want, and then find a way to express it that will take into account how she is feeling and therefore how she will react to it.

Best of luck.

[nightdrot]

Type-o:

This sentence: "Bottom line, in terms of your own conduct, remember that it is not what you want to say, it is what the other person to hear."

Should read: "Bottom line, in terms of your own conduct, remember that it is not what you want to say, it is what YOU WANT the other person to hear."

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would she talk to Me that way the one day I was decent to her

Oh thank youuuuu in this girly high pitched voice?

[nightdrot]

BECAUSE you raised her hopes. You paid her attention and she hoped it meant something.

In that sense, you were cruel. I read your description as that you were being polite and that was the norm. Be clear, you have no obligation to become romantically or sexually involved with her. You DO, however, have an obligation to treat her courteously and with respect.

It is a hard line to walk and you may have made it worse if you are generally dismissive and then - one day without reason - treat her better. She is probably hurt and confused and looking for any indication that she has a chance with you.

Forgive me, I don't mean to be harsh, but it is time to grow up. There is another person's feelings involved here and it is time to act accordingly. This may require that you cut through the fog and - politely as possible but as firmly as necessary - tell her what you feel.

Tell her that you have gotten the impression that she is interested in you. Then tell her that while you are flattered and certainly mean no offense, that you are not interested. If you have let things reach that stage, you may have to - as the kids say - suck it up and say your peace.

It won't be fun. However, again, keep in mind that there is another human being here, one with feelings including perhaps feelings for you. The mature man treats that with respect and courtesy.

[Bringmebackto2008]

I'm decent and I figured she'd move on she's had bfs but still does that shit then posts on FB "no matter how hard it is don't treat them how they treat you"

I kind of stopped caring and will stop ignoring her I'll be decent

[nightdrot]

Well, that speaks well of you, but now it will be harder. If you stop ignoring her - as you should - then she may take that as interest. You are going to have to be sensitive to how she reacts and you may have to lay your cards on the table about how you feel.

As I said, now, having started by ignoring her, you have to walk a fine line. Be the gentleman without seeming - in her mind - to lead her on.

[Bringmebackto2008]

How does it speak high of me

[nightdrot]

Your sentence is a little unclear, but I read it as you saying that you would stop ignoring her. That is the right thing to do. You simply don't treat another human being that way, as if they did not exist.

If you plan to do so, that speaks well of you. However, as I added, given your previous conduct, you will now have to make quite clear that your change of conduct does not change the fact that you are not interested in seeing her romantically and/or sexually.

That will be difficult to pull off and you may have to - as gently as possible but as clearly as necessary - lay your cards on the table. I don't envy you having that conversation as it will be difficult to say. (It also assumes that she really does like you. I am only getting your side of the story. You may have to begin by saying, "I've kind of gotten the impression that you are interested in my. I don't know if that is true, but if it is..."

In any case, treating another human being with respect and taking care with their feelings is the right thing to do. If that is the course you intend to take - particularly in the context of your previous mistaken behavior - that speaks well of you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So Is she pissed bc forever I didn't handle her feelings well

[nightdrot]

Please go back and read our discussion. You don't seem to be picking this up.

As I said, she was undoubtedly hurt and frustrated. She likes you and you were treating her badly. Suffice to say that produced in her a certain amount of upset and explains why she acted as she did.

Try living in her head instead of your own. She likes you and you are - in so many words - spitting on her. Just imagine how you would feel in her shoes.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Was she flirting when she said In a higher pitched and in a girly tone "ohh thank youuuu"

[nightdrot]

Really, this is not hard. She likely thought that you were being kind and this suggested to her that she had either caught your attention or that you had become interested in her. So she was trying to show you that she liked you.

Forgive me sir, beyond a certain point I cannot help you. As I mentioned at the outset, I don't know you, I don't know her and I don't have an side of the story but yours. Odds are that she was trying to show you that she likes you. Alternatively, it is possible that she is so frustrated by your conduct and - not to be too harsh but - obvious emotional immaturity and lack of empathy, that she was being sarcastic.

Either way, I don't know either of you and I was not there, so I cannot say definitively why she acted as she did but can only speculate as to the cause of her conduct. You will have to think this through on your own based on what you know and your best guess.

Indeed, the only thing that I can say with absolute certainty is that ignoring anyone who has done you no harm is wrong. To repeat, you are NOT obliged to date her, go out with her or even like her. However, unless she has hurt you or someone you care for, you ARE obliged to treat another human being courteously and with respect.

That is your moral obligation and your starting point. After that, you will be forced to rely on your own best judgment, what you know and your intuition.

[Bringmebackto2008]

I'm amazed how happy she seems just bc I held the door open to her and tried to act decent.

[Bringmebackto2008]

by the way I couldn't help looking at her the way I did and responding the way I did I didn't feel comfortable around her

I have autism

I feel bad for how I treated her

[Bringmebackto2008]

There were girls I had crushes on it fucking hurt being ignored all the time

[nightdrot]

Sir, first, I was beginning to sense that you might be autistic. That is certainly a complicating factor in terms of your ability to form relationships.

Unfortunately, I cannot tell you how to conduct yourself but suggest that you seek out advice from those you know - friends, relatives, parents - and perhaps more professional sources. Beyond that, I might suggest that if you care about this young lady that you explain yourself and your condition.

That is a decision for you depending on how you feel. Certainly it is not without its risks and that is a deeply personal thing. However, in life, there are no rewards without risks and if, in any way, you do care about this young lady then you might take that chance.

However, again, there is simply no way for me - at this distance - to tell you if your assessment of her actions is correct. You will simply have to take your chances, but that said, unless you take some risks, you are not apt to be able to meet someone to share your life with.

Indeed, for anyone, autistic or not, relationships carry a certain amount of risk. You can be hurt either way. Unfortunately, for you, the risks are somewhat the greater.

Best of luck.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Does it really hurt her we haven't hung out?

[nightdrot]

Regrettably I cannot be sure for all the reasons I have already laid out. I don't know either of you. I have never seen her around you and how she conducts herself. I am only hearing this for your side.

Throw that all together and the best I can do is make an educated guess. It seems possible but there is no way that I can be sure.

Your best bet, if you like her is to explain things to her. Tell her that you have gotten the impression that she may like you. If so, then tell her your situation and how you feel about her. Again, as best you can, be polite, be kind and however you feel about her, treat her with kindness and respect.

Unfortunately, you are asking from me things that I cannot be sure of and have no real way of knowing. You are asking for concrete assurance when all I can really give you is best guesses.

It seems possible and it is not unlikely that she likes you - but there is no way to be sure. As I say, that you will have to discover for yourself. All that I can add is that, however she may or may not feel and however you feel, you are morally obliged to be kind and treat her with respect.

[Anonymous]

I'll be blunt, reading that made ME feel uncomfortable, specifically the time and effort you took write that out in such detail... If you didn't care about it you wouldn't ask.

Stopping what your doing to go take a pic of her low cut shirt your friend told you she's wearing... that's in the realm of WTF. .. Don't get me wrong, everyone loves a nice pair of sweaterpuppies but... By saying it rudely I mean to be helpful- Ya might wanna tone that down a bit.

I get the feeling you might be projecting... and in some way are looking for validation or confirmation that she's into you by asking us about it here... Lotta folks aren't aware when they are doing it.
I could be wrong.

Direct answer- It's been heavily studied and proven that women are better at not only verbal and phonetic communication (inflection, tone, rate of speech, emphasis placement), but are much better at the nuances of body language and facial expression.. Most of communication isn't the message itself... That being said. yeah dude she knows.

[Bringmebackto2008]

I didn't take a pic of her shirt she wanted a pic you can think whatever you want but you seem to have your own opinion on this before reading the whole thing

[Bringmebackto2008]

I can be blunt and say you are talking out of your ass and making assumptions

[Opinion Owner]

Making assumptions is standard operating procedure in the great plane of the Interwebz. Inference is basically alls we have as opinion givers outside of whatever you hand us.. Okay, I misjudged by assuming you were the person wanting the pic- from a complete stranger you'll never care to hear it from: My apologies.

I still think the level of your interest in what she might be thinking is disproportionate to what you're giving us- and that's what tipped off my something-is-off-o-meter... I simply expressed that... not to make you feel bad- but to help you maybe see how other people might perceive your thoughts on the given situation- It might seem like a personal attack, it's not.

If you'd prefer I can just lie to you? *Rubs hands together and straightens posture*... Here we go:

Dude she wants your dick.

[Bringmebackto2008]

She makes me feel uncomfortable and yeah

What are you trying to say the level interest in what she is thinking I'd disproportionate to what you are giving us? You're assuming it's all me? I avoid her and avoid eye contact don't say hi first if I see her I avoid looking at her and stay away.

You've said I stated this stuff I never said. Obviously you're trolling bc you're annonomyous.

[SMPlSl]

Hmm, i can't tell if she's trying to het your attention now, but it seems like she was before, and for a quite a long time at that. I bet she was crushing on you a bit. I'm getting the impression that you're crushing on her as well. If that's the case I'd recommend talking to her and hanging out. She probably won't act the same as she once did if she has a boyfriend because it might be considered too flirty, but but talking to her and assessing her body language you might be able to pick up if she still likes you, if not romantically then at least as a friend.

[Bringmebackto2008]

by the way I'm a very withdrawn and aloof person and was the only guy that was ever not too crazy about her snd. when I opened the door right to her she seemed so happy and she was very close.

[SMPlSl]

I'm also naturally shy and reserved. I've found that it's important to make the effort to be conversational even if it is mentally draining at times. In this case you already seem to have some rapport with her so all you need to do is just talk to her. "Hi, how've you been today?" She'll either give you a one word answer like "good" or she'll start telling you about her day or she'll, or she'll give you the one word answer and tag along with "how about you?" in which case you have the opening to start talking about yourself.
Even if it amounts to nothing and it just goes "hi how've you been today?" and she says "good" and is about to leave, you can say "Let's talk about it sometime, see you later [name]" it'll display that you have an interest in her of some kind and as little friendly interactions like this stack up you'll quickly see her start warming up.

[purify]

Sorry to break this to you but she has a sexual interest in you, that's her underlying intention not a crush. She's trying to win you over that's why you're seeing her strange behavior toward you that's making you feel uncomfortable that you are still trying to be a gentleman and at the same time avoiding her/ not reciprocating her attention toward you. She's being very clever showing that she all into you to lower your defenses to get what she wants. What's great is your intuition is telling you otherwise, listen to it, you'll avoid a big headache.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Does she know I'm going to be a gentleman but I don't feel comfortable around her and don't feel the same

[purify]

No... she can't recognize it, she's in a state of tunnel vision wanting what she wants without acknowledging or respecting your body language that's clearly saying I dont see or feel or agree. Instead she gets bitter and sees it as rejection.

[Bringmebackto2008]

But she's so sad and upset or mad when I act like that. The funny part is every time I ignore her she gets a boyfriend shortly after and acts like she's in love. There is a website I was on and I made my Instagram public for the first time in years. I had a screenshot of a post on the site. Couple days later I see her post about not finding the one under her own name and used to throwaway account to post it.

[purify]

Believe me love you don't want an emotionally unstable, manipulative, drama female. Look at her behavior, you two are not even in a relationship and this is how she acts in a controlled environment with people at work, imagine when you are alone with her in a different setting? Yikes psycho!

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would she have thus relationship with me since I was a younger boy she was like a big sister when we were younger

[purify]

She's not acting like a big sister now, more like a predator, that's making unwanted advances toward you.

[purify]

Even though at one time she acted as a big sister it does not give her a right to disrespect and play games with you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

When she acted like a big sister when we were younger she flirted with me more

[purify]

We are speaking in your current situation that you dont want and the behavior she's displaying because of your rejection.

[purify]

And thank God nothing came out of it

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would she be like a big sister that flirted with me when I was going through puberty

[purify]

It is inappropriate on her part since you were still a kid going through puberty

[purify]

A sister figure doesn’t flirt

[Bringmebackto2008]

Is it similar to pedophiles and grooming what she did. Did she groom me

[purify]

Yes dear it is

[purify]

I was going to say she revealed her nature back then

[Bringmebackto2008]

How did she groom me. was she trying to take advantage of me and thought there would be no way id say no and figured I wouldn't resist

[purify]

You said she flirted with you is there anything else like was she extra nice, attentive, bought you stuff, was she sexually explicit in front of you and what would she do that was flirting to you?

[purify]

Answer my questions above so we can figure it out

[Bringmebackto2008]

She would ask for pictures with me and get close to me and take the pics then send to me have me post and tag them. Like and comment sweet things on it and then the next day say she likes it. She would support me with my problems and listen and laugh. Compliment me a lot.

[Aguysopinion4799]

Well I mean, from the description, it sounds like she is trying REALLY hard to get your attention so if you try and ignore it or show your discomfort, I assume that annoys her in that she is trying to get close to you, almost at an obsessive level?

From the way you explained this, it sounds like she is really fixated on you and if it is making you uncomfortable, you should say something which I hope will reduce her frequent attempts of obsessing over you.

She might change her tactic and become more mellow, possibly even become friends, or she will amp it up and become seriously difficult to handle, it can only go really well or really bad..

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why does she seen pissed if I seem uncomfortable

I saw her today she was happier

[Aguysopinion4799]

I mean, I can't be sure but maybe it was just a few days when she was annoyed or maybe she can't see your discomfort anymore and just thinks it is part of your personality, maybe she is happier in the belief that she has finally gotten you close to her?

[Bringmebackto2008]

Has she had like a crush on me

[Aguysopinion4799]

Sounds like it, I can't see any other reason why someone would be so obsessed over you :)

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why am I told she likes to tease me

[Aguysopinion4799]

Well maybe her teasing is just a way of trying to get closer to you, makes sense I think :)

[Bringmebackto2008]

No I was told she likes to cock tease me or something

[Aguysopinion4799]

hmmm... Well you do have girls who do that shit, I have had that before where they just pretend to like a large number of guys like it's some sort of game to see how many they can get to fall for them and when they get caught, their reputation falls and no-one wants to be with them.

She might be cock teasing you but I don't know unless I actually met her, you'll have to test her and see how she behaves.

[LoU_Hades]

relax man.
As I worked in a company with 20 women in office and I was then only young boy there, I've got every day lot of similar shit in first months. But I am an asshole and I didn't fear any confrontation and escalation.
Some of those women who showed me their feminine qualities got discouraged as I begun to treat them like cheap sluts with decent but lewd remarks, other started to joking about and we remained in a 'lewd slut to another one' status quo. Those who were really interested threaded me really nice and very friendly, but never that specific way.

You must know, women love "who is the biggest slut" competition, especially in a bigger group. You seem to be perfect 'object' where she can play this game.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean play this game

I thought she really likes me wants to be around me and I don't want to be bothered

[LoU_Hades]

She annoys you?
Fuck her or appear arrogant or too aggressive to get rid of her.
Maybe it stops your mutual obsession.
What I wrote above is just one option why women act that way.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why does she do it

[LoU_Hades]

- usual female biggest slut competition
- she know that another girl is a secret admirer of you and she tries to show her that you're are an 'easy lover' a 'male slut' (what ever)
- she has a crush but she doesn't accept something on you
- she is a weirdo who likes to be admired by guys, but if it becomes too serious she turns cold
...
..
..
I don't know what is her motivation, but I can tell you that it isn't an usual behavior when a girl wants a man. Possible partners aren't so offensive and obvious, because women fear the rejection of men they really like. She doesn't fear yours. She exaggerates with her false affection and when you seem not interested she becomes pissed. (carrot and whip behavior)

Hear on your instinct, you feel there is something fishy with her.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So she has a weird crush I don't get it

[Bananaman177]

That's some great stream-of-consciousness poetry you wrote there, but can you tell me which line or lines contain the point? Or some fact?

I'm not going to sit here and read "50 Shades of she stared at me and then one time I didn't stare at her and then this other time, she could see me and she totally was staring at me."

Motherfucker, GET TO THE POINT!!! The fuck are you yammering about? If I was your bro, I would smack you in the back of the head and tell you to start over and leave out all the bullshit this time.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean.

[Bananaman177]

You see that enormous paragraph you wrote?

Now tell me what it says in 15 words or less.

[victoriaxoxo]

Ok. So I don’t feel like she has done anything excessive to show you that she likes you yet. You need to evaluate her character and see if she naturally friendly and it might be that she was just genuinely giving you advise. Maybe mix yourself into a situation where she is chatting with you and a bunch of other guys and see if she seems to pay particular attention to you (like are her responses more detailed and longer when she speaks to you, does she seem to follow up on what you say, her physical proximity to you when you’re chatting as opposed to other guys). For now play it kool.

[AlphaBob]

This is going to be really harsh bro so here's you're chance stop reading right now. YOU WERE A LITTLE BITCH! WE ARE SEXUAL CREATURES! SHE PUT HERSELF OUT THERE!!! SHE TRIED AND WHAT DID YOU DO? PROBABLY WENT HOME AND BEAT you're MEAT! haha its ok though if you weren't ready you weren't ready its perfectly ok. Its better to actually use you're brain then to use you're cock. The faster the better though if you got a good grasp on reality start as young as possible but really make sure you have a good grasp on reality. Think of some sexual things or whatever and ask you're self is that ok? If it sounds fucked it probably is don't do it.

[Bringmebackto2008]

I opened the door to her and she was right in my face a foot away she seemed so happy that I said hi was decent held the door open.. so does she still like me

[talloak]

If she has a boyfriend, I'm not sure what options are available to you. That is, if she has a crush on you or not, what can you do about it? Most people act annoyed when people who know them ignore them or give them strange looks. You can't go by that. All I can suggest is to be friendly to her, expecting little in return. If things don't work out with the boyfriend, perhaps you would have a shot.

[Bringmebackto2008]

No it seems to really hurt her feelings

[talloak]

Then why do that to her?

[purify]

She wants you to think that, she's playing on your emotions. Dear you dont want someone that seeing you as a sexual object and is manipulative. You're not a loaf of bread your worth is way more then what she's project ting.

[purify]

Sorry for typos

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean she's playing on my emotions

[purify]

By her putting a sad face to pull on your heart strings to get a reaction out of you which you did, you said you felt sorry for her. For what you felt sorry? This is sexual harassment

[Bringmebackto2008]

I did but it doesn't get her anywhere

[iamchrissy]

Hmmm sounds a little stalkerish... Why is she everywhere you go? 😂 But ya I mean judging from what you wrote she obviously fancies you. A lot. And anyone would be a little upset if their crush didn't like them back. And the high pitched voice part, I can't explain but a lot of people do. It's kind of like a flirty little tease.

[Bringmebackto2008]

A flirty little tease?

[Justme987]

Definitely likes you, but be careful. I had an experience with an older women when I was 19. She was 40 something. On a night out, we talked, drank, kissed and then she prominently took charge sexualy. I'll be honest... I loved it. She loved it. She was a nurse and knew EXACTLY what she was doing. Long story short and no details, she left me mind blown and in heaven lol. No regrets here lol. Bless her she was amazing.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Does she have a crush on me

She has a son 1 year younger than me and a boyfriend

But I look old af and for real looked like a dad since I was 15

I look like I'm in my 30s

[Dextrosis]

Depends what you want from a relationship and a significant other.

One of the biggest mistakes I've made was get into a relationship just because an attractive person showed interest in me.

If she's trying to get your attention like that it's usually because her body produces pleasure when she's around you and your attention gives her validation and an ego boost.

She's essentially into you, but she's in it for her.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean her body produces pleasure around me

I don't give her attention I ignore her

What do you mean she's in it for her

[Dextrosis]

Kay, when you see an attractive woman--do you feel a nice sensation, an unpleasant sensation or nothing at all?

Women don't feel the exact same way men do, but the same priciple applies. She's after that fix and she gets it around you.

This isn't necessarily a bad thing, but if she's not making efforts to benefit you as well as herself in your mutual interactions it's a selfish behavior.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Her bc I think she's a fucking pig and she's too much of a drunk I feel unpleasant

I ignore her and don't make her feel good about herself I give her no attention I don't respond well

So has she had a crush on me since I was 14

[Dextrosis]

You don't have to degrade her behind her back, just tell her you're looking for someone who shares your values.

[Dextrosis]

Be polite but firm. If she's who you think she is she'll probably take it as a personal attack and leave you alone.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Has she teased me at all

[Dextrosis]

It seems pretty clear she wants you and that yes, she has been teasing you.

But I'm not sure what you want out of the situation, and it sounds like you're not sure either.

Listen to your head, not your heart and certainly not the tugboat in your drawers.

Emotions and sexual desire should only follow when reason checks out.

[Bringmebackto2008]

How can she want me and be teasing me

[Dextrosis]

Dude, I think the signs are clear and that you have enough answers.

Your body is probably telling you to shoot babies into the world and keep sniffing around any situation that will lead to it.

The more you fixate on this the more it will take control of your actions. If you decide you want to pursue her after you weighed the consequences that's your call, but don't let your extension cord make that decision for you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

How has she been Teasing me

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Since you're the one ignoring her, I'd say it's you who "gave up", and not her. And she got a boyfriend because you didn't make a move after all that time. Not sure what other outcome you were expecting from this. Just meet other girls, continue being pleasant around her when you do interact, and your lack of neediness may be enough to give her second thought. If she's happy with her boyfriend either way, then just take it as a lesson. Strike while the iron's hot next time.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean

I stopped and will be decent

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

what I mean is that there's usually a window of opportunity to take action, and in this case you missed that window. Next time try to get her on a date or something while the opportunity exists. Life's short.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why does it seem like she was so happy I was decent said hi and held the door open for her I opened the door right to her and she was in my face

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

I don't know man, does it really matter? You wanna date this girl? You wanna make her your gf? Fuck buddy? One night stand? What do you want? And do you want it enough that you'd be willing to overlook the boyfriend? You're focusing on the wrong things, trying to figure out women's intentions is a waste of time if you don't know your own. It sounds like you're very reactive in this situation and don't really know where you're trying to lead things. You're trying to play "catch-up" with someone who's already moved onto a new game.

[Bringmebackto2008]

I want to be friends

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Okay, so what can you do to be a friend to her?

[Bringmebackto2008]

Not blow her off

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

There you go, run with that :) everything else is just speculation and guesswork. Control what you can, forget what you can't.

[HeavyRoller]

Well, trust your vibe. Based on what you described she is sending out a number of signals that she's interested. If you're not interested back then politely let her know. If she gets upset that's ok, she's probably embarrassed at your rejection. If she gets REALLY upset then take it to the school for help.

[Bringmebackto2008]

She also giggles says my name at something I say
17 yo girls do that

[BattleKitten77]

You are in college. I think you need to learn some basic grammar instead of worrying about her. You are a fuccking moron. This is the stupidest thi g i have ever read. At no time in this rambling incoherent monologue have you managed to put together one single sentence that made sense.

[LaVillaStrangiato]

I meannnn. She doesn't NOT like you. The only way you're going to find out is to up your game a little bit, flirt with her for a couple weeks to see how she engages with you, then ask her out.
If she says yes - then great! Move on from there.
If she says no - then you won't be wasting your time chasing. Be friends and maybe ask her again after you get to know each other better.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean she doesn't not like you

[LaVillaStrangiato]

I believe that if a woman pays any attention to you whatsoever - beyond polite behavior - that she will entertain the idea of being friends (or possibly more) with you.

[demonics]

When women try to flirt 101 lol. She's got a Reddit post out there someone "WhY IsN'T hE pIcKinG uP oN mY HiNtS?"

Yandere (plural yanderes)-

(chiefly Japanese fiction) A character, usually a girl, who fits the archetype of being genuinely kind, loving, or gentle, but suddenly switching to being aggressive or deranged, often homicidally so.
(chiefly Japanese fiction) A character, usually a girl, who is violently obsessed with their crush.

She's a creeper dude!

[Bringmebackto2008]

She had bfs and still wouldn't leave me alone

I ran into her today and was decent To her and didn't act uncomfortable or do any of that she said hi John and said thank youuu in this girly higher pitched voice when I held the door open for her.

[demonics]

Maybe put a bug in the ear of the police or administration. Cover your ass when she inevitably accuses you of rape. Its on record that she's creepy AF in her interactions with you. Maybe it'll save you from the kangaroo courts lol/

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would she respond like that and talk in a higher pitched voice the one day I was decent

[samael_kmarty]

Hey it can be some of these reasons
* She likes you
* She is in love with you
* Its her natural way of talking
* She is trying to sell you something by getting close to you.
* Trying to be friends with you cause you look cool , or some other reasons (only you know that reason)
* You have a great personality and want to steal it by you know getting your weakness
* She might be madly in love with you.

[samael_kmarty]

Hey @bringmeback2008

[samael_kmarty]

See this

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why did she respond like that the one time I was decent

[samael_kmarty]

Sometimes she isn't sure what to say to that comment

[devilish-cutie]

she seemed to like you and wanted you to make a move if you like her too but you didn't. So she moved on. She is sad when she sees you cause she probably liked you and you didn't seem to like her back, that hurts.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would she seem so happy the one day I didn't ignore her

[devilish-cutie]

because ignoring someone is hurtful if you like them, but if you are nice than that makes a person happy

[Bringmebackto2008]

I opened the door to her and she was right in my face a foot away she seemed so happy that I said hi was decent held the door open.. so does she still like me

[devilish-cutie]

id say she probably still likes you, would she be with you is another question
but if you like her you should give it a go and try or you'll wonder forever, regardless of her boyfriend
by the way just curious - why didn't you make move earlier?

[hafinjun]

Devilish cutie nailed it I think

[HuskerCAR2567]

Dude! If you have feelings of attractions towards her. Don't be a dumbass wondering if she does. The answer is right in front of you! She obviously has a huge crush on you. She would dump that boyfriend of hers in a heartbeat if you say let's go out sometime. She envys you so much and would do just about anything for you! All you have to do is open your mouth and use those word's and say hey. Do you want to go have some fun with me? You will never know if you don't ask.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean she envies me so much

[HuskerCAR2567]

She worships the ground you walk on! How will you ever know what she wants from you if you do not ask her. Be straight forward with her. She might really want to be with you or she may just want to jump your bones and could possibly want both. You're going to keep wondering and the before you know it. She's off married some other guy.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why does she seem so happy when i opened the door right to her and we were in each other's face and I held the door open

[HuskerCAR2567]

Because that action of yours showed that you went out of your way to hold the door for her. Just because it is the gentleman to do so. It also shows that you're not Narcissistic, self-confident or selfish. That also gives her even more feelings towards you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

I opened the door and I saw her walk in right in front of me and she was right in my face and she said hi loudly and then said ohh thank youuu in this tone and higher pitched voice sounding more like a girl. How do you know she worships the ground I walk on

[HuskerCAR2567]

Body language shows It all. Did she sound sexual of how she said Hi and thank you? Did her eyes look at you up and down? Just ask her! You will never know what she wants unless you ask!

[Bringmebackto2008]

No just trying to sound feminine like a school girl she was close couldn't do that

[HuskerCAR2567]

Just ask her what she wants? You're wasting time on here and not finding out what she wants.

[austinlmao]

She obviously has a crush on you and NO SHE HASN'T GIVEN UP YET. When people have a crush, they do all the strange and stupid things you wouldn't want them to do. She is desperately trying to get your attention and that is why she has a boyfriend. If you like her, I'd say you better approach her before it's too late... Hope this helps

[Bringmebackto2008]

She had boyfriends and goes behind their backs to do this does it single or not. Like every time right after I IGNORE her she gets a boyfriend

[austinlmao]

It's either one of the 2 things
1. She has a crush on you and only gets boyfriends to get your attention
2. She just likes to flirt... For no good reason at all. She's not interested in you she is just that kinda girl.
You will have to judge yourself

[Bringmebackto2008]

She doesn't just flirt for fuck sakes she would stare at me a lot and went out of her way to see me and showed up 30 mins early to class every day after she ran into me so she would see me every day

[austinlmao]

So she has a crush on you... S. I. M. P. L. E.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why does she seem so sad when I ignored her

[austinlmao]

Because she has a crush on you

[Bringmebackto2008]

by the way her and her friend would flirt with me and since day one giggled around me a lot. Why would her and her friend do that when I was younger

[bush123]

she likes u a lot when i say a lot i mean a lot and she desperately wants ur Attention. a man going for orders is disgusting its just my opinion. she's weird u should stay away from her don't give her any attention. i would do the same if i was in that situation

[Bringmebackto2008]

Was it flirting the way she was talking to me when I held the door open

[bush123]

yes she's DESPERATE avoid her she's EXTREME.

[Bringmebackto2008]

She has a boyfriend but yeah

So what do you mean she's desperate and extreme

[bush123]

wait are u 4 real she has a BOYFRIEND

[Bringmebackto2008]

Yes and when she's single or not does stuff

[Jackson8650]

I had a similar situation when I was 22. This woman was 44, hot and in a bad marriage. She was the owners daughter of my employer so she was around a lot. I’d say it’s time for a hot cup of coffee my friend. I mean, if that’s something you’d want. If not, just tell her straight that that’s not what you’re about and it’s weird to you. I went with my situation and learned a lot!! LOL

[Bringmebackto2008]

Does she have a crush on me

She has a son 1 year younger than me and a boyfriend

But I look old af and for real looked like a dad since I was 15

I look like I'm in my 30s

[Jackson8650]

By the body language/eye contact you’ve explained I’d say yes.

[Jackson8650]

And why do you want to know our opinion? Do you want to act on it?

[Bringmebackto2008]

So I can talk to her

[Jackson8650]

You can talk to whoever you please amigo.

[teamvic]

I mean she could still think youte attractive but based on what you said there isn't enough to say she is tryna flirt with you again you know

She very well could like you but her having a boyfriend makes me think she's not trying anything, as of now

[Bringmebackto2008]

She'd do stuff behind a guys back and date a guy only to continue stuff behind other guys backs and then would date a guy only to get mad at me and still be mad afterwards but single would still do stuff. Dates a guy only to start back up once she's single again

[PinkPenguin]

Stalker alert! Of course she'd be pissed when you're not responding like she wants to. Have you ever had a normal conversation with her?(without her acting like described or in a fake voice? I'd be wary of her.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would you say that

[PinkPenguin]

Difference between stalking and a crush, is crossing lines. A normal crush wouldn't find you at strange places. You don't seem to answer my question if you've ever had a casuall normal conversation with her or if it's normal for her to talk to you in a fake high pitch voice. I'd be wary. You don't seem to know her very well. So your options are. Get as far away from her (could piss her off even more) or maybe try date her? I don't know. She might just desperatly want your attention and maybe she'll not be so instense if you give in to her. (I could be wrong).

[Bringmebackto2008]

So why have this talk I don't want to be bothered

[PinkPenguin]

Okay. Then I guess you don't really care whu she's pissed

[Bringmebackto2008]

I do but I think it's stupid

[Ally247]

I think she liked you earlier on, and nothing came from it, so she moved on. There's potential for regret there, or a missed opportunity, but hard to say.

[Bringmebackto2008]

When I opened the door to her she seemed so happy the one time I was decent and held it open

[Ally247]

Probably missed your interactions

[Bringmebackto2008]

So is she still going to do stuff

Why would it make her that happy

[Ally247]

She has a boyfriend now, so she's moved on. She probably just remembered your past interactions. Like I said, she probably liked you, but nothing happened, and so she's moved on.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Well she seems bitter bc she posts stuff like "no matter how hard it is never treat them how they treat you" the boyfriend commented and no response.

[Bringmebackto2008]

She has had multiple boyfriends only to do stuff behind one of their backs and does it single or not dates a guy only to do stuff behind his back and single still did stuff

[Ally247]

She probably isn't over it, but is trying to be

[Bringmebackto2008]

So does she still have those feelings. I could tell I made her day I held the door open and was decent. She stops posting pics of her boyfriend as often since she saw me lol

[Ally247]

I don't know for certain mate, but it appears that way, it's obviously hard to tell though

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would it make her that happy she used to seem sad whenever she saw me. Sad or mad I could tell

[Bringmebackto2008]

I really want to be friends with her but I think the only way she'd want anything to do with me is if she likes me

[Ally247]

Even if she does or doesn't, she's got a boyfriend

[jinswatermelon]

She rlly wants all ur attention and thinks by doing the absolute most that she's achieving that. You might just have to tell her straight up that she being a little extra

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why does she do that

[jinswatermelon]

She rlly interested in you and it looks like she's stopping at nothing to win you over. And if she gets mad that she doesn't get the reaction that she wants from you then she's probably a spoiled brat that's used to getting everything with those so called "charms" she needs to know she giving off them weird vibes

[Bringmebackto2008]

I reached a point of not giving a fuck. I ran into her today and it's the first time I didn't ignore her she was talking higher and like when she did in hs and she talks like a little girl around me. Said hi and she said thank you bc I held the door open and I could tell she was trying to sound feminine she was like oh thank youuu

[jinswatermelon]

Honestly at this point you just act like she dont exist. If she comes around to purposely get ur attention then you just don't give her any. Don't even give a reaction at all. And if she's staring just don't even mind it. Let her know without even having to tell her anything ya know

[Bringmebackto2008]

Yeah I tried that for almost 3 years or so it got me nowhere and she'd get pissed and still do stuff

Well if I get uncomfortable she gets pissed and I can tell it really upsets her today is the only time I was decent and she was doing that and I could tell based on how she was talking

Why would she be like that when I was decent to her and didn't act uncomfortable

[jinswatermelon]

You might need to make a stalker report. Scare her away or something

[Bringmebackto2008]

She hasn't stalked me it doesn't get to me that much but I do get nervous

She hasn't really stalked I guess she says hi

[jinswatermelon]

I'm surprised you haven't flashed on her yet... cuz lord knows I would've

[Bringmebackto2008]

Can you message me please

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why am I told she likes to tease me

[jinswatermelon]

Ur obviously not feeling teased ur feeling annoyed. That's just irritating

[Bringmebackto2008]

by the way I'm like the first and only guy that doesn't really care for her other guys want to hangout with her and more so date

by the way why in hs would she encourage me to talk to her and do the stuff I did

When I talked to her she'd ask me to sit with her and want a pic ask me to get closer to her and she'd take the pic send to me and have me post and tag her then comment and like it then say the next day she likes it in this sweet girly tone. Did it again when I held a door open for her

[jinswatermelon]

Honestly I feel like she's frustrated bc like I said earlier she is used to getting what she wants and you seem to be the one exception and she's just not used to being over looked like that

[Bringmebackto2008]

So has she had a crush on me all these years

[jinswatermelon]

She probably is interested but not like in a way that she cares so much about you as a person. Tbh she probably just wants to get that body count up. She just mad bc you ain't having it

[Bringmebackto2008]

I thought she cared she really seemed hurt bc I joked about moving away and she got very upset

She has guy friends and bfs into smoking and she really doesn't want me smoking

[jinswatermelon]

I don't know at this point.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would she talk in the same girly higher pitched voice she did as a girl when she'd compliment me with

[jinswatermelon]

Bc she wants to seem cute to you. She obviously is unaware that it's rlly not cute and you might just needa say sumthin

[Bringmebackto2008]

Hey so why does she seem so happy and say thank you in a tone the one time I was decent to her she'd get pissed I'd look at her funny

[jinswatermelon]

Bc she expects you to react differently and when you don't it makes her mad and uncomfortable. She probably gets embarassed for trying and failing

[Bringmebackto2008]

Was it flirting when she saw me said thank you in a higher pitched voice she was like oh thank youuuu

[jinswatermelon]

Yep. This girl is definitely flirting with you

[jinswatermelon]

But have you ever told her ur not interested?

[Bringmebackto2008]

No I showed body language signs.

Why respond like thar the one day I was decent

[jinswatermelon]

Because you were decent. If you wanna get her off ur back then pretend she ain't there. You don't even gotta open the door for her

[Bringmebackto2008]

So What does it mean she responded like that said hi John loud high pitched almost and then oh thank youuuu

[jinswatermelon]

She was maybe trying to give you no excuse to ignore her or act like she wasn't there especially since she was being overly loud. Like people around y'all probably heard her too

[Bringmebackto2008]

Well she was right in my face bc I was about to leave and opened the door to her and she was right there and said hi and then said thank you that way I had to hold the door she was right there

[jinswatermelon]

She not giving up. If you gotta run from her then do it cuz she seem a little obsessed to me.

[Bringmebackto2008]

She was walking in I was leaving.
It's like she really wants to put herself in spots that she'll be in my face and I can't ignore she fucking waited outside my classroom and would show up 30 mins early. How is she obsessed?

She's had bfs and met me when she had one and it never stopped.
She dates guys only to do stuff behind their backs get mad at me lol

She has a boyfriend but still posts "no matter how hard it is don't treat them how they treat you"

[jinswatermelon]

SHE WANTS YOU. POINT. BLANK. PERIODDT! She is not gonna stop popping up I think it doesn't register to her whenever you give her an annoyed look or whatever face you make that indicates that ur uncomfortable. Or it probably does and she just act like it never happened

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why does she have a boyfriend if she still like this with me then posting that shit and still gets like this with me

[jinswatermelon]

Honey you need to expose her for the hoe that she is. And you can do it nice and kind too. Do you know who her boyfriend is?

[Bringmebackto2008]

She can do whatever she want it'll catch up and it's not my place or business to and it's my word against hers. I'll look like the bad guy anyways. I don't want to look like an ass if I'm wrong and it's better to mind my own business

So does she still like me if she says thank you like that

[jinswatermelon]

At this point you just need to ask her. Pull her to the side or something and ask her what's up wih what she's doing. Ik a lot of people don't like to ask people stuff upfront but it needs to happen in this case

[Bringmebackto2008]

I just think that's giving her what she wants she really would want me to go up and talk to her in some way

[jinswatermelon]

Well maybe that's exactly what needs to happen in order for her to feel accomplished and stop trying so hard. Ya might just have to let her win this time

[Bringmebackto2008]

What so I'd walk myself into it and put me in that spot

[jinswatermelon]

Yeah that's exactly what you would have to do

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why so she can go out and just say it

[jinswatermelon]

Well if she rlly needs to have you talk to her then just have a sit down and talk. That's all I can say. Have you seen her today?

[Bringmebackto2008]

Couple days ago

[jinswatermelon]

What else does she do that makes you uncomfortable?

[Bringmebackto2008]

Just her presence

[jinswatermelon]

Wowww... that's just not it😕

[Bringmebackto2008]

Everything
Being close to me
Doing stuff to get my attention

[jinswatermelon]

You should just tell her

[Bringmebackto2008]

Does it sound intentional

I don't get it the one time I didn't ignore her she talked to me in this tone

I don't get it she got upset from me ignoring her for the longest time still does and she's all happy seeing me yet posts stuff on FB like "no matter how hard it is don't treat them how they treat you" yet has a boyfriend lol

[shimmeryns]

How is she trying to take advantage of you? Has she ever touch you inappropriately? Or asks you to pay for her stuff?

Is she making you uncomfortable?

[Bringmebackto2008]

Making me uncomfortable

Why would she have this relationship with me

[shimmeryns]

Okay, so she is not taking advantage of you. There's nothing much that you can do I guess apart from ignoring her or pretending you didn't notice anything.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why does she respond like that and seem so happy the one day I'm decent

[shimmeryns]

I don't think the change in her behaviour should concern you if you don't like her.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Here's the thing

I pretty much opened the door to her and she was really close to me and said started talking that loud.

So why would she do that stuff she did for all this time

[shimmeryns]

I don't know, I can't read her mind. Maybe ask her next time?

[Heaz99]

Again. She may still have a crush on you and be trying to make you jealous by having a boyfriend. I don't know though. I'm not exactly sure what kind of relationship you want with her.

[Bringmebackto2008]

I want to be friends

[Heaz99]

Hmmm okay

[Luisacgf]

Probably she liked you before. But unfortunately she do have a boyfriend already. She looked sad probably because she do have some sort of arguements with her boyfriend. When she sees you she tried her best not to show her sadness despite of having a boyfriend already.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why does she hide her sadness?

She seemed so happy when I was decent and held the door open for her

[Luisacgf]

I think there are some sort of regrets. You should show that you really care for her tho she already have a boyfriend.

[Casey10101]

this is all oddly specific and im just as confused as to how you know all this, and have taken note of it. I would guess she's a stalker, but I can't tell if you're into it or not.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Since I started looking at her funny she seems either pissed or upset. I ran into her today and she said hi John and I held a door open for her. She talked to me in this higher pitched and feminine voice and said oh thank youuuu. She seemed happy I opened the door and she was right there

[Casey10101]

yeah cool but there's really no answer to your question, you are just picking apart every interaction.

[amanda_smith]

Nothing really screams "I like you" to me. If anything it sounds more like she's comfortable with you as a classmate, which could be why she gravitated towards you for peer review and the classroom.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean

[amanda_smith]

I have social anxiety, so I only really become comfortable with a couple people in my class at a time. Then I tend to try and stick around them when I see them because it makes me feel safer. That could be what she's doing with you, although I don't know what she's normally like with others and big crowds etc

[Bringmebackto2008]

She doesn't do that really

[GenericGirlFace]

Take it from a girl: she's most likely into you. Unless she really doesn't understand social cues. She sounds like she's trying to get you to know her better!

[Bringmebackto2008]

What are you girls doing when you hold longer eye contact and smile

[GenericGirlFace]

Some girls still believe in the whole "dilated pupil" thing, so it could be that. Usually when I make eye contact and smile I'm just really in awe like "wow this guy is hilarious" and I'm just kind of admiring eye color and everything about the guy!

[Bringmebackto2008]

So she was trying to read eyes

[klara68114]

Sounds like. she was looking for attention tbh. Some girls like the attention of a guy but not the rest.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why does she still she pretty much stalks me

[Bringmebackto2008]

Do you not understand that she found out where my class was and would show up 30 mins early every day so she could see me!

[klara68114]

She sounds like a real case. And you have confronted her about this?

[Bringmebackto2008]

No I don't even give her the time of day

Why do you say she wants attention I treat her like shit and keep her at an arms length

Fuck I'm sick of being told that

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean a real case

[klara68114]

Some girls will chase the guys that treat them like shit. It's a self esteem thing. A real case is like crazy.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would she do it to me

[klara68114]

Some times there is no explanation to a persons behaviour.
Best to keep yourself safe and dont give into her.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Has she had a crush on me or something

[klara68114]

Its possible she likes you. But with out knowing her I couldn't say.

[HeyAngel23]

It sounds like she is interested to me. She might not know if you like her as more than a friend if you asked her for advice about another woman. If you like her I would ask her out.

[Bringmebackto2008]

When girls hold long ish eye contact and smiling what are they doing

[HeyAngel23]

It's hard to explain. Usually means they like you and it's kind of a way of connecting and also looking for signs you like them back in the same way they like you. Like if your eyes hold the same spark, or if it makes you shy and you look away embarrassed, etc.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Well I got awkward and shy

[HeyAngel23]

Then she might think you like her too.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What was she doing when she was standing close to me and had her back to me and I could smell it she was in my face

[flamiE]

She’s been waiting for you to make the move. Man up and ask her out.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Has she missed me over the years

[flamiE]

That I don’t know for sure, but when she saw you after all these years, she still stares at you, smiles etc so probably yes. Make the move!

[Dextrosis]

Pfft. If she REALLY wants you she'll make a point of being your friend, supporting you and making small considerations in your behalf, not just bat her eyelashes at you.

Guys should be courted to, and girls need to demonstrate their worthiness, not their intermammary cleft.

[flamiE]

Not if she’s quiet or shy. I know it’s annoying but that’s what girls do when they want attention.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Flame

Does she sound shy with me

[flamiE]

Well she’s been staring at you, blushing, making different facial expressions without talking too much. Then yes.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What's it supposed to do when she shows up that early and walks by looks in at me then walks by a lot

[flamiE]

Maybe she just want you to notice her? I see it as I’m showing you I’m interested it’s time for you to make the move.

[Dextrosis]

I don't see why he's obligated to pursue her when he's only stated he's trying to understand her motives.

[Bringmebackto2008]

How come she seems pissed whenever she sees me or seems upset

[flamiE]

@Dextrosis, he’s not, but from what he said it seems that she’s been trying to get his attention and if he wants to be with her he has to make the move. @Bringmebackto2008 that I don’t know.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Has she always wanted to hangout with me?

[Dextrosis]

You're asking very specific questions that are unique to the girl in question.

Women can share with you their perspective, that doesn't mean they have gender-specific telepathy.

You've got to remember women are individuals with individual personalities, needs, wants and motivations.

[Dextrosis]

@flamiE We don't know much about this woman's values or character, except she's acting like a creep.

Like honestly, what would you think of a guy that leers at you all the time and takes every opportunity to display his bulge?

Trying to influence a person to respond to someone just because they're interested and (arguably) attractive is a huge disservice.

What if he takes the advice and it turns out horribly for him?

[flamiE]

@Dextrosis well said! If he’s asking if she wanted to hang all this time for me means he’s interested or else he wouldn’t bother asking. It’s better to find out if she feels the same rather than questioning yourself. Everyone shows their attraction in a different way, maybe that’s his way.

[Bringmebackto2008]

No I just want to be friends with her

[flamiE]

Okay it didn’t seem that way, my bad. Then just don’t do anything 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Bringmebackto2008]

Does she want to hangout with me

[Dextrosis]

Sounds like she wants you in a romantic/sexual context, and being friends with a person with different hopes for the relationship is very difficult.

I've found that being direct with a person like that either presents a challenge so they try harder or it offends them and they cut you off.

Quietly learn what she finds unattractive and subtley start to behave that way when she's around while still being nice to her.

If she doesn't notice slowly dial it up until she's forced to make a value judgment about you. Only if she decides she doesn't want you or you're not worth it will she leave you alone with the least negative consequences for you.

[Dextrosis]

Your best bet: show some insecurity.

[Dextrosis]

Not real insecurties, she might try to use those if she's determined.

False ones that make you unattractive but don't expose you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Has she sexually teased me at all

[Dextrosis]

See my answer in the other opinion.

[Bringmebackto2008]

How has she been sexually teasing me

[Blondeblur]

She sounds a bit obsessive. For a girl to go great lengths especially what you're describing sounds very unhealthy and stalkerish.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why does she respond like that the one time I was decent to her "oh thank youuuu" In this higher pitched girly voice

[kaylaS91]

No.
Even if her allegedly staring at you made you feel a bit uncomfortable, she didn’t make you do anything so you weren’t taken advantage of.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Then what is she doing I don't feel comfortable around her

[kaylaS91]

She’s staring more than you’re comfortable with

[Bringmebackto2008]

So is she trying to make me comfortable around her

[kaylaS91]

Not necessarily.
In some cultures, staring is encouraged so if she does that again, I don’t see why you can’t just speak up and tell her how you feel.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Uncomfortable

Why's it encouraged

[LowSelfSteem]

As Femlaes when we like someone we do anything to get the person attention. She clearly doesn't like your attutde towards her.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So why am I told she likes to tease me

[LowSelfSteem]

Because She wants to engage your interested.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What

[LowSelfSteem]

Engage your interest.

[Bringmebackto2008]

I really liked her as a friend and viewed her as a big sister but I think she knows she's attractive to guys and Flirts with men and knows she can get them hooked and make them want to date her and hangout

I'm the only guy that really doesn't feel comfortable with her shit and want no part of it

[Ashenicky]

She definitely likes you. If you feel the same way, you should definitely ask her to go to lunch or something with you. Good luck 😁

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would she be standing that close with her back to Me she walked in front of me and stood close but it was the closest view of her ass I had was she trying to shoe it

[Ashenicky]

Not too sure, I think there are things people do instinctively when they like someone, like I've seen men that are interested in a female stand a little close with their chest kinda puffed out. It might be something girls automatically do to try and attract the guy she is interested in. It also probably has to do with her personality and self confidence. I have always had low self esteem so whenever I liked a guy I would watch them but I'd never get close to them. If I spoke to them I'd just keep it casual unless I asked if they were single. Usually they would say they weren't though lol.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Is she confident or no

[Ashenicky]

Yes, she just won't up and say it. Try to be careful though, I've heard way too many stories of guys getting accused of things by girls. Don't want to scare you or anything, but just don't take her to your room, her room, or a room. Date her in public until you really get to know her, if you're going to date her at all.

[Bringmebackto2008]

When she smiled and held long ish eye contact it felt off
What are you girls doing when doing that

[Ashenicky]

Nothing too special. It's just another way of showing our interest. I think I've done that a few times, all I can remember about it is that I was so happy being around him, and looking at him made me even happier. His eyes, voice, smile, everything, in that moment just made me so happy. We are married now lol. I doubt it was that stare that made that happen, just had to point that out. You made her happy in that moment by just being you.

Ask her out to lunch now lol.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Is she shy with me

[Ashenicky]

Doesn't seem like it. Do you like her too?

[Bringmebackto2008]

So does it sound like she knows she's flirting with me

[Ashenicky]

Not to be mean but you got this answer so many times. Either ask her out or don't

[Ashenicky]

And yes, she's flirting. All of the things she's done is because she likes you. If you like her too then ask her out, if not then don't, but don't dwell on it

[foriWish]

What are you waiting for? If you're interested, definitely ask her out. She's totally into you!

Goodluck :)

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would she be standing that close with her back to Me she walked in front of me and stood close but it was the closest view of her ass I had was she trying to shoe it

[foriWish]

I think she wanted you to admire her assets lol

[Bringmebackto2008]

Is it obvious or reading into it

[foriWish]

I think it depends on the person and how they view things. I also think it's obvious as well; however, I could be wrong so there's no absolute answer

[Bringmebackto2008]

How do you know she's been flirting not being polite

[foriWish]

I don't know, that why I said I could be wrong. However, you'll never know until you step out of your (maybe) comfort zone and ask her or begin flirting with her. If she backs off, she was just being friendly

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would she encourage me to ignore another girl I talked about and then come sit with me or stand close to Me about a woman I really talk to openly anywhere especially class

[foriWish]

She must want you to talk to her instead of the other woman

[Bringmebackto2008]

Is she doing all the stuff girls do when flirting or no

[foriWish]

Some women make it obvious, others do not. I'm more of an introvert so I would most likely never flirt like that

[Bringmebackto2008]

What are you girls doing when you hold longer eye contact and smile

[foriWish]

I guess to show I am friendly and open to communicate with and won't bite anyone's head off for speaking to me lol

[Bringmebackto2008]

Is it obvious she's stealing attention from other females

[foriWish]

Probably. I don't know what goes on at your college nor her actions, just the one you mentioned here

[foriWish]

Thanks for MHO :)

[puppupper]

I used to be like that with a guy that I liked so if I learned anything it's that she wants to spend time with you

[Bringmebackto2008]

Does she still have the school girl crush

[puppupper]

Do you mean if I still have the crush on him? Honestly... I'm not sure I'm miss him but do I still love him... I don't know it's been so long but I can't hate him... but do I love him... no idea

[Bringmebackto2008]

No her

[puppupper]

From what I could see... she still has a crush on you... I'm about 95% sure about it

[Bringmebackto2008]

Is it from when I was a boy or current

[puppupper]

Current

[Bringmebackto2008]

Has she missed me over the years

[IceCastles]

If she is older then she is doing it wrong. I mean, it sounds like some middle school stuff. I would ask her if she interested. If she says no, ignore her and move on because this means she's crazy. If she says yes, then see what happens.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean?

Why won't she leave me alone

[IceCastles]

Well, you have not told her you're not interested. You stare at her and say nothing. So she may think there is some interest there. You guys need to communicate because this guessing game should be getting old by now.

[Bringmebackto2008]

I look at her and give her dirty looks that's it

[IceCastles]

That may not be enough. Some people don't know how to take a hint. You may have to confront her and let her know there's no chance of a relationship.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Well I'd freeze and give her the worst look I ever gave someone like "oh shit it's her". She just seems upset or pissed and she sat down and I could tell she was sad.

Then I looked back at her bc I saw someone open the door, I quickly looked away and then when I was going to leave I look down to avoid eye contact and she said hi in this tone like she was so sad.

Well the other day I opened the door to her and she said hi in a happy higher pitched girly voice and said "oh thank youuuu" in a high pitched girly girl voice.

I don't get it why she responds like this when Im decent to her

[IceCastles]

Sounds like she might be little off. Have chat with her and let her know that she makes you a little uncomfortable. You all are gonna have to talk at some time.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean she's a little off?

[IceCastles]

She may be a little disturbed mentally.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why am I told she likes attention I've been ignoring her fuck

[IceCastles]

People like her want to seen and heard. When you ignore them, it drives them insane so they up the anny a bit. Talk loud, show a boob or two (if make, maybe a cock or two) or anything that can get you to acknowledge her. Once you do, she'll ignore you and move on. If you keep doing the same, she'll move on too.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why does she do it with me has she wanted to just hangout since I was 14

[IceCastles]

She sounds complicated and immature. If she really wanted to be with you and all, she'd let you know instead of scaring you away.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean scaring me away?

Listen I'm sick of people assuming shit I ignored her for 3 years

I avoid looking at saying hi to she contact everything

You do know she showed up 30 mins early to a class for no reason and waited outside after she knew it's my class and did it everyday

[IceCastles]

Whoa, calm down. I know this shits frustrating and you just want her to go away. You may have to get really nasty with her. Look, some people don't get the point until you have to hurt their feelings. You may have to set her straight verbally. Example: look crazy bitch, I'm tired of you stalking me and being all weird! If you don't leave me alone, I'll have my sister (or female cousins if no sister) slap yo ass so hard your grandkids with feel the fucking aftershock! Do not bother me again.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would she do this I'm sick of people saying Its for attention

Yeah I try to avoid her and ignore her I was decent a couple times

[IceCastles]

It's either attention or she's mental. There's no grey area here. I can tell you're just tired of the bull shit. Law down the law and let her know if she bothers you again, ya gonna have to take drastic action and this may include the police because it's sounds like harrassment to me. She makes you feel uncomfortable, right?

[Bringmebackto2008]

Yes I'm uncomfortable

Why does she not have a crush on me she fucking waited half an hour outside of class for nothing when she knows I'm in there and stared at me and does all this for nothing I've constantly brushed her off

Why do all this and continue there's no payoff the most she gets is a polite hi

Everyone else says she's a yandere I'm the worst source of attention and want nothing to do with her

Do. you not understand I don't give her the time of day

[IceCastles]

I understand but you gotta put your foot down. Give her the attention she deserves. The not so good attention. You gotta nip this in the bud. She's not going away until you deal with her.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would she do this she doesn't get attention and I've been aloof af

Most other guys ask her out or to hangout

She gives me a bad vibe

I thought she has a crush on me and I care about other peoples feelings

Why would a woman stalk someone that treats them bad and go that far just to get their attention and stalk someone for attention they don't get

[IceCastles]

Some women are necessary and childish. She happens to be one of them. Also, there could be issues at home that makes her act this way. Who knows but one thing is for sure, you gotta get this issue under control. It's not gonna stop until you do something about it.

[Bringmebackto2008]

She's a 22 year-old woman why would she still do this and borderline stalk me look at this realistically

She's stalking someone that acts like she doesn't exist

[IceCastles]

Then she's got some serious mental issues that she needs to sort out. Do you know if she takes any meds.

[Bringmebackto2008]

I don't know if she takes med

Why would she do it particularly to me I and the only guy that ignores her and wants nothing to do with her

[IceCastles]

Some people can't handle being ignored, it drives them mental.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why won't she leave me alone what does she want to happen

[IceCastles]

She just wants you to acknowledge her. Nothing more. There's no logic with this woman, no matter how much you analyze the situation.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would you get buy they broke eye contact and just didn't look back and didn't do anything

[Bringmebackto2008]

To why do you say every single reason except that she has a crush on me

[IceCastles]

Because it's not a crush. It's an obsession.

[Bringmebackto2008]

How is it not what's the difference between a crush and obsession

I think you are just talking to hear yourself talk now

[IceCastles]

No lol I am not. I've been crushed on a have crushed. This whole thing that she's got you going through is no crush. If it was a crush, then you wouldn't feel so uncomfortable around this person. When it's a crush, you feel awkward, annoyed.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So if I didn't feel uncomfortable it would be

[IceCastles]

Yes, I've never had negative feelings when crushing. I've felt shy, awkward, maybe a little unsure, but all those feelings were positive.

[Bringmebackto2008]

I'm not asking you if I have a crush on her I don't

Does she have one on me

[IceCastles]

No, she does not.

[IceCastles]

If she does, she had no clue how to Express herself.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Then why would she fucking stalk me you make No sense how does she have this obsession but no crush

She has a crush on her friends dad wants to fuck Him and does the same shit she does it yet he has a daughter her age and is married

Why and how does she not she is this oriented towards someone who wants nothing to do with her

[Bringmebackto2008]

She did the same shit to a guy who's married and openly said she's attracted to and doesn't leave him alone

Why would she do that to me and him

[IceCastles]

Look, you're putting too much stock in this. What makes no sense is this person you speak of. There's something wrong with her. She has no crush on anyone, she's an attention whore. She'll get attention wherever she can find it. She's trying to hit on someone's dad? Something is not right. I don't know what it is but something is going on in her head and it's a fucking mess.

[Bringmebackto2008]

, she openly told her friend that she wants to f*** her dad behave the same way

She's done that to me and her dad why would she do it

So why is an obsession and not a crush

She treats me the same way as a guy she openly showed she's attracted to

[IceCastles]

My dear, she's crazy. Stop analyzing the shit she does. Again, there is no logic with woman. If I could read minds, I would tell you what's going on in her head. She's not all there.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Dude why would she always stare at me and tru to get my attention and giggle with her friends around me and her best friend looks at her and says her name when I come into a room

What is stopping you from saying something everyone else thinks

[IceCastles]

She's fucking with you. She's trying to someone's dad and you. She's mental.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean fucking with me

What do you mean it's an obsession not a crush

[Bringmebackto2008]

Dude she openly said she has a crush on someone is attracted to them and act the same way they did with me

Why would she do it with me too

do girls get teased by their friends blush around a guy and stalk him and stare at him a lot when they have no interest or no feelings for said person

[Bringmebackto2008]

Hello

[MajesticTwelve]

Of course her ego is bruised, every woman want's to feel desirable, especially if she's putting herself out there. Have you talked to her about it?

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean her ego is bruised and she's putting herself out there

No bc I don't see her in the way she behaves

[LowSelfSteem]

It means Her pride is hurt, She goes all out to get your attention and you refuse to bat an eye, She even shows you her boob and you dont compliment her, she obivious feels she isn't that attractive to you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Low self-esteem why does she do this stuff to me

[LowSelfSteem]

Because she likes you

[hottiejohnny]

Hey man just are you dum she wants you BAD REALLY BAD GO ASK HER OUT BUY HER DINNER BE VERY NICE TAKE HER HOME SAY GOOD NIGHT SEE WHAT HAPPENS NEXT DAY SHE'L BE ON YOU JUST ALWAYS BE NICE ALWAYS BAD BOYS GET LAID GOOD GUY GET IT ALL NIGHT LONG!!!

[Bringmebackto2008]

She gets a boyfriend shortly after I ignore her every time

[OlderAndWiser]

Why are you treating her differently? Because of the boyfriend?

[Bringmebackto2008]

Bc I realized it's wrong how I treated her

[OlderAndWiser]

So you are treating her decently again?

[Anonymous]

She is totally into you.

I would fuck her myself but if you dont want to do that then you should tell her you aren't interested and that she makes you uncomfortable or something.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why does she react like that the one day I was decent

[Opinion Owner]

Well sometimes you dont give her the time of day.

Its hard to know exactly without having seen / heard it but I would imagine it was sort of playful or flirty or something.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Was it flirting the way she was saying hi and then when I held the door open for her "oh thank youuuuu"

[Bringmebackto2008]

Was it flirting the way she was saying hi and then when I held the door open for her "oh thank youuuuu"

[OlderAndWiser]

It seems very obvious to everyone else that she is interested in you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would she be standing that close with her back to Me she walked in front of me and stood close but it was the closest view of her ass I had was she trying to shoe it

[OlderAndWiser]

Pretty close to other primate pre-mating rituals!

[Bringmebackto2008]

She tried to show her ass?

[OlderAndWiser]

It is part of primate courting rituals.

[nerms123]

She sounds creepy and crazy. I would just be normal and leave people alone lol

[Bringmebackto2008]

Does she have a crush on me

She has a son 1 year younger than me and a boyfriend

But I look old af and for real looked like a dad since I was 15

I look like I'm in my 30s

[nerms123]

Maybe she thinks you’re her age and basically if she pays a lot of attention to you then she probably likes you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

She knows I'm young!

[nerms123]

Then she’s a bit creepy imho

[Bringmebackto2008]

Does she have like a crush?

[nerms123]

It’s hard to say. Maybe she’s just being friendly?

[Sofia93]

Yep.. she’s into you. Either take it or leave it lol

[Bringmebackto2008]

She also giggles says my name at something I say
17 yo girls do that

[Sofia93]

Yep!

[Bringmebackto2008]

So why does she do this it feels weird

[Sofia93]

She’s into you...

[Bringmebackto2008]

Does she have a crush on me

She has a son 1 year younger than me and a boyfriend

But I look old af and for real looked like a dad since I was 15

[Sofia93]

How old would you say you look?

[Bringmebackto2008]

In my 30s

[Bringmebackto2008]

So is she still into me

[nicholas4276]

the same thing kinda of happend to me in 1992 when i was 15 there was this who tried to get my attention but i was too shy at that time to talk to her i remmber she smiled at me one time i never saw her again after 1993 but i always remmber that

[Bringmebackto2008]

What's that supposed to mean

[Neeceeb7]

doesn't sound like she has given up. Do you want her to give up?

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why am I told she likes to tease me

[Neeceeb7]

Because she likes to flirt with you. She obviously likes you. So you like her?

[KeyannaStyles]

She's a dingbat to be flirting fooling around with a nineteen year old.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why is she

[KeyannaStyles]

She's not confident in her body, maybe she got dumped by a guy that told her she sucks in bed? So she picks up the thirsty and inexperienced young guys.. something is wrong there. I'm 37 and would never go anywhere near that young

[Bringmebackto2008]

Does she like have a young guy crush on me

I make her feel young?

[KeyannaStyles]

Hmmm, probably.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Is it like a crush

[skellingtonjack]

She seemed interested, and because you didn't make you move, she want on and found someone else to be interested in.

[Bringmebackto2008]

I opened the door to her and she was right in my face a foot away she seemed so happy that I said hi was decent held the door open.. so does she still like me

[dDsdsds]

Ur an idiot. Word will get around about you being retarded in understanding no signals whatsoever. Funny shit

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean? I have autism cut me some slack

[e-Ghost]

You know she likes you. You're just shy about it, and that's what makes you uncomfortable, not her. Just ask her out.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So does she know I'm uncomfortable about it

Does she know I know

[e-Ghost]

She's horny for you, son.. she just can't help herself about it. You're uncomfortable about the feeling of being wanted by a girl.. that's the demon, not her. Treat her good, don't let the male species down in shame 😁

[Bringmebackto2008]

Is she trying to respect that I'm uncomfortable and give me space

[e-Ghost]

Yes. She is in waiting mode. Not for long tho..

[Bringmebackto2008]

She dates other guys and started doing this behind another guys back when she met me

She's dating a guy rn what's the point she hasn't left me alone after at least 2 lol.

[e-Ghost]

Like I said. She's in a waiting mode. She wants you, but it doesn't mean she have to keep herself in the cave until you make a move. Just ask her about the other guy, in a friendly manner.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Well do you think we could be great friends that's what I want she's one of the few women I do want to do stuff with and hangout with

[e-Ghost]

I dunno. You just gotta ask her that directly.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why do people tell me she likes to tease me

[e-Ghost]

Because she probably is? Just go talk to her. Are you scared of her or something?

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean

[Bringmebackto2008]

I thought you said she wants me hoe can she tease me

[Bringmebackto2008]

If she's teasing that's why I ignore

[e-Ghost]

My point is, I'm not her. You should go ask all of your questions about her directly to her. Do you think you can do that?

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean she probably is teasing me what did you mean

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why are you telling me since the start she likes me and wants me sexually then say she probably is teasing me

What do you mean she probably is

[e-Ghost]

Boy.. because you need to re-check that *possibility* to her directly. You only bring your side of the story, right?

[Bringmebackto2008]

You're giving me mixed messages Saying she wants me likes me then saying she probably is teasing me.

[DrHonesty]

Holy shit, just give her the dick 🤦‍♂️she might back off

[Bringmebackto2008]

Seriously why would she

[Gottabsavagee]

Well she likes you a lot, what are you waiting for. Get her!

[Bringmebackto2008]

She's had bfs and has a boyfriend I don't get it

[Gottabsavagee]

Well she could be a cheater. Maybe she doesn’t love her guy enough. What about when a guy is with her is she still giving you the same amount of attention

[Bringmebackto2008]

She hasn't been around me with a boyfriend

[Gottabsavagee]

I’d wait for that moment, It will make everything more clearer

[Bringmebackto2008]

Dude she fucking never leaves me alone and her friends would look at her say her name when I came in a room

[Gottabsavagee]

Ask her whats up

[Bringmebackto2008]

by the way she's done some of this stuff single some of it not

[Gottabsavagee]

Well she def likes you but you should be the guy, come to her and try to talk. Maybe she’ll tell you about her feelings

[Bringmebackto2008]

So why would she say hi John and then say "oh thank youuuu" in this girly higher pitched tone the one day I was decent

[Gottabsavagee]

Well thats how girls talk. Don’t question yourself anything just go up to her I promise you’ll reveal every secret.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean it's how they talk

[Gottabsavagee]

There are girls who like to say certain things in high pitched voice, I see this everywhere on the street, at school, on youtube

[Gottabsavagee]

But really go up to her like I said. You got nothing to lose. Do you like her too?

[Bringmebackto2008]

What I mean is why would she talk to me in that way the one day I was decent

She'd talk to Me in a sad tone when I ignored

[binginghockey]

this woman or whatever she is, sounds like a stalker. RUN!!

[Bman4907]

Sounds like she was doing everything aside from using those glow sticks ground crews use to direct planes to get you to notice her. I'd be pissed too.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why is she like "oh thank youuuu" in this girly high pitched voice the one day I was decent and held the door open for her

[Bman4907]

because you probably got her hopes up. "he's finally noticing me." Seriously dude, she is crushing on you by the description you mentioned and you have to ask why?

[Bringmebackto2008]

Was it Flirting saying it like that