Female coworker giving me signs that she wants me to make the first move, I think?

[KazDillinger]

Just in update, my coworker today I noticed she walked past my desk and I noticed she was looking at me from the corner of her eyes as she went into the break room, then she comes out and went out to the hallway but as she opened the door she looked back as she opened the door back at me. Then later on she walked to the break room and walked past me and turned to look at me full on locked eyes, it seems she takes the door closest to me instead of the one closest to her in order to keep passing me which is the long route to her desk by the way, so I'm not going crazy I believe she is attracted to me just too many coincidences. Now my question is I want to ask her if she's single but don't know how to go about it, since I'm in a workplace, it seems she's waiting for me to make a move but I'm just trying to find a way to ask if she's single without being obvious and since I'm not 100% that she's into me so I'm being really cautious, what are you guys thoughts?

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Quick note, I already know the risks about dating a coworker I've weighed in everything from the pros to the cons, so I'm aware of the risk associated so please don't continue to remind me of them as we're all adults so thank you.

[ShiftingMonke]

My thoughts? Don't. Just don't.

Getting romantically involved with a coworker is a bad idea, simply because the relationship failing will lead to incredibly awkward encounters at work. Not to mention potentially against company policy, depending on situation.

Even if it does work out at first, you will get no breaks from this person, jealousy can creep in, there's a whole host of reasons why it can fail spectacularly.

My advice? Take no action and focus on your job. If she's truly interested in you romantically, she will make a point that you cannot ignore. Simple glances and pathing aren't worth risking your job over, right?