she seemed to like you and wanted you to make a move if you like her too but you didn't. So she moved on. She is sad when she sees you cause she probably liked you and you didn't seem to like her back, that hurts.
I opened the door to her and she was right in my face a foot away she seemed so happy that I said hi was decent held the door open.. so does she still like me
id say she probably still likes you, would she be with you is another question but if you like her you should give it a go and try or you'll wonder forever, regardless of her boyfriend by the way just curious - why didn't you make move earlier?
Dude! If you have feelings of attractions towards her. Don't be a dumbass wondering if she does. The answer is right in front of you! She obviously has a huge crush on you. She would dump that boyfriend of hers in a heartbeat if you say let's go out sometime. She envys you so much and would do just about anything for you! All you have to do is open your mouth and use those word's and say hey. Do you want to go have some fun with me? You will never know if you don't ask.
She worships the ground you walk on! How will you ever know what she wants from you if you do not ask her. Be straight forward with her. She might really want to be with you or she may just want to jump your bones and could possibly want both. You're going to keep wondering and the before you know it. She's off married some other guy.
Because that action of yours showed that you went out of your way to hold the door for her. Just because it is the gentleman to do so. It also shows that you're not Narcissistic, self-confident or selfish. That also gives her even more feelings towards you.
I opened the door and I saw her walk in right in front of me and she was right in my face and she said hi loudly and then said ohh thank youuu in this tone and higher pitched voice sounding more like a girl. How do you know she worships the ground I walk on
Body language shows It all. Did she sound sexual of how she said Hi and thank you? Did her eyes look at you up and down? Just ask her! You will never know what she wants unless you ask!
She obviously has a crush on you and NO SHE HASN'T GIVEN UP YET. When people have a crush, they do all the strange and stupid things you wouldn't want them to do. She is desperately trying to get your attention and that is why she has a boyfriend. If you like her, I'd say you better approach her before it's too late... Hope this helps
It's either one of the 2 things 1. She has a crush on you and only gets boyfriends to get your attention 2. She just likes to flirt... For no good reason at all. She's not interested in you she is just that kinda girl. You will have to judge yourself
She doesn't just flirt for fuck sakes she would stare at me a lot and went out of her way to see me and showed up 30 mins early to class every day after she ran into me so she would see me every day
she likes u a lot when i say a lot i mean a lot and she desperately wants ur Attention. a man going for orders is disgusting its just my opinion. she's weird u should stay away from her don't give her any attention. i would do the same if i was in that situation
I had a similar situation when I was 22. This woman was 44, hot and in a bad marriage. She was the owners daughter of my employer so she was around a lot. I’d say it’s time for a hot cup of coffee my friend. I mean, if that’s something you’d want. If not, just tell her straight that that’s not what you’re about and it’s weird to you. I went with my situation and learned a lot!! LOL
She'd do stuff behind a guys back and date a guy only to continue stuff behind other guys backs and then would date a guy only to get mad at me and still be mad afterwards but single would still do stuff. Dates a guy only to start back up once she's single again
Stalker alert! Of course she'd be pissed when you're not responding like she wants to. Have you ever had a normal conversation with her?(without her acting like described or in a fake voice? I'd be wary of her.
Difference between stalking and a crush, is crossing lines. A normal crush wouldn't find you at strange places. You don't seem to answer my question if you've ever had a casuall normal conversation with her or if it's normal for her to talk to you in a fake high pitch voice. I'd be wary. You don't seem to know her very well. So your options are. Get as far away from her (could piss her off even more) or maybe try date her? I don't know. She might just desperatly want your attention and maybe she'll not be so instense if you give in to her. (I could be wrong).
I think she liked you earlier on, and nothing came from it, so she moved on. There's potential for regret there, or a missed opportunity, but hard to say.
She has a boyfriend now, so she's moved on. She probably just remembered your past interactions. Like I said, she probably liked you, but nothing happened, and so she's moved on.
She has had multiple boyfriends only to do stuff behind one of their backs and does it single or not dates a guy only to do stuff behind his back and single still did stuff
So does she still have those feelings. I could tell I made her day I held the door open and was decent. She stops posting pics of her boyfriend as often since she saw me lol
She rlly wants all ur attention and thinks by doing the absolute most that she's achieving that. You might just have to tell her straight up that she being a little extra
She rlly interested in you and it looks like she's stopping at nothing to win you over. And if she gets mad that she doesn't get the reaction that she wants from you then she's probably a spoiled brat that's used to getting everything with those so called "charms" she needs to know she giving off them weird vibes
I reached a point of not giving a fuck. I ran into her today and it's the first time I didn't ignore her she was talking higher and like when she did in hs and she talks like a little girl around me. Said hi and she said thank you bc I held the door open and I could tell she was trying to sound feminine she was like oh thank youuu
Honestly at this point you just act like she dont exist. If she comes around to purposely get ur attention then you just don't give her any. Don't even give a reaction at all. And if she's staring just don't even mind it. Let her know without even having to tell her anything ya know
Yeah I tried that for almost 3 years or so it got me nowhere and she'd get pissed and still do stuff
Well if I get uncomfortable she gets pissed and I can tell it really upsets her today is the only time I was decent and she was doing that and I could tell based on how she was talking
Why would she be like that when I was decent to her and didn't act uncomfortable
by the way I'm like the first and only guy that doesn't really care for her other guys want to hangout with her and more so date
by the way why in hs would she encourage me to talk to her and do the stuff I did
When I talked to her she'd ask me to sit with her and want a pic ask me to get closer to her and she'd take the pic send to me and have me post and tag her then comment and like it then say the next day she likes it in this sweet girly tone. Did it again when I held a door open for her
Honestly I feel like she's frustrated bc like I said earlier she is used to getting what she wants and you seem to be the one exception and she's just not used to being over looked like that
She probably is interested but not like in a way that she cares so much about you as a person. Tbh she probably just wants to get that body count up. She just mad bc you ain't having it
She was maybe trying to give you no excuse to ignore her or act like she wasn't there especially since she was being overly loud. Like people around y'all probably heard her too
Well she was right in my face bc I was about to leave and opened the door to her and she was right there and said hi and then said thank you that way I had to hold the door she was right there
She was walking in I was leaving. It's like she really wants to put herself in spots that she'll be in my face and I can't ignore she fucking waited outside my classroom and would show up 30 mins early. How is she obsessed?
She's had bfs and met me when she had one and it never stopped. She dates guys only to do stuff behind their backs get mad at me lol
She has a boyfriend but still posts "no matter how hard it is don't treat them how they treat you"
SHE WANTS YOU. POINT. BLANK. PERIODDT! She is not gonna stop popping up I think it doesn't register to her whenever you give her an annoyed look or whatever face you make that indicates that ur uncomfortable. Or it probably does and she just act like it never happened
She can do whatever she want it'll catch up and it's not my place or business to and it's my word against hers. I'll look like the bad guy anyways. I don't want to look like an ass if I'm wrong and it's better to mind my own business
So does she still like me if she says thank you like that
At this point you just need to ask her. Pull her to the side or something and ask her what's up wih what she's doing. Ik a lot of people don't like to ask people stuff upfront but it needs to happen in this case
Well maybe that's exactly what needs to happen in order for her to feel accomplished and stop trying so hard. Ya might just have to let her win this time
I don't get it the one time I didn't ignore her she talked to me in this tone
I don't get it she got upset from me ignoring her for the longest time still does and she's all happy seeing me yet posts stuff on FB like "no matter how hard it is don't treat them how they treat you" yet has a boyfriend lol
Okay, so she is not taking advantage of you. There's nothing much that you can do I guess apart from ignoring her or pretending you didn't notice anything.
Again. She may still have a crush on you and be trying to make you jealous by having a boyfriend. I don't know though. I'm not exactly sure what kind of relationship you want with her.
Probably she liked you before. But unfortunately she do have a boyfriend already. She looked sad probably because she do have some sort of arguements with her boyfriend. When she sees you she tried her best not to show her sadness despite of having a boyfriend already.
this is all oddly specific and im just as confused as to how you know all this, and have taken note of it. I would guess she's a stalker, but I can't tell if you're into it or not.
Since I started looking at her funny she seems either pissed or upset. I ran into her today and she said hi John and I held a door open for her. She talked to me in this higher pitched and feminine voice and said oh thank youuuu. She seemed happy I opened the door and she was right there
Nothing really screams "I like you" to me. If anything it sounds more like she's comfortable with you as a classmate, which could be why she gravitated towards you for peer review and the classroom.
I have social anxiety, so I only really become comfortable with a couple people in my class at a time. Then I tend to try and stick around them when I see them because it makes me feel safer. That could be what she's doing with you, although I don't know what she's normally like with others and big crowds etc
Take it from a girl: she's most likely into you. Unless she really doesn't understand social cues. She sounds like she's trying to get you to know her better!
Some girls still believe in the whole "dilated pupil" thing, so it could be that. Usually when I make eye contact and smile I'm just really in awe like "wow this guy is hilarious" and I'm just kind of admiring eye color and everything about the guy!
It sounds like she is interested to me. She might not know if you like her as more than a friend if you asked her for advice about another woman. If you like her I would ask her out.
It's hard to explain. Usually means they like you and it's kind of a way of connecting and also looking for signs you like them back in the same way they like you. Like if your eyes hold the same spark, or if it makes you shy and you look away embarrassed, etc.
Pfft. If she REALLY wants you she'll make a point of being your friend, supporting you and making small considerations in your behalf, not just bat her eyelashes at you.
Guys should be courted to, and girls need to demonstrate their worthiness, not their intermammary cleft.
@Dextrosis, he’s not, but from what he said it seems that she’s been trying to get his attention and if he wants to be with her he has to make the move. @Bringmebackto2008 that I don’t know.
@Dextrosis well said! If he’s asking if she wanted to hang all this time for me means he’s interested or else he wouldn’t bother asking. It’s better to find out if she feels the same rather than questioning yourself. Everyone shows their attraction in a different way, maybe that’s his way.
Sounds like she wants you in a romantic/sexual context, and being friends with a person with different hopes for the relationship is very difficult.
I've found that being direct with a person like that either presents a challenge so they try harder or it offends them and they cut you off.
Quietly learn what she finds unattractive and subtley start to behave that way when she's around while still being nice to her.
If she doesn't notice slowly dial it up until she's forced to make a value judgment about you. Only if she decides she doesn't want you or you're not worth it will she leave you alone with the least negative consequences for you.
I really liked her as a friend and viewed her as a big sister but I think she knows she's attractive to guys and Flirts with men and knows she can get them hooked and make them want to date her and hangout
I'm the only guy that really doesn't feel comfortable with her shit and want no part of it
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she seemed to like you and wanted you to make a move if you like her too but you didn't. So she moved on. She is sad when she sees you cause she probably liked you and you didn't seem to like her back, that hurts.
Why would she seem so happy the one day I didn't ignore her
because ignoring someone is hurtful if you like them, but if you are nice than that makes a person happy
I opened the door to her and she was right in my face a foot away she seemed so happy that I said hi was decent held the door open.. so does she still like me
id say she probably still likes you, would she be with you is another question
but if you like her you should give it a go and try or you'll wonder forever, regardless of her boyfriend
by the way just curious - why didn't you make move earlier?
Devilish cutie nailed it I think
Dude! If you have feelings of attractions towards her. Don't be a dumbass wondering if she does. The answer is right in front of you! She obviously has a huge crush on you. She would dump that boyfriend of hers in a heartbeat if you say let's go out sometime. She envys you so much and would do just about anything for you! All you have to do is open your mouth and use those word's and say hey. Do you want to go have some fun with me? You will never know if you don't ask.
What do you mean she envies me so much
She worships the ground you walk on! How will you ever know what she wants from you if you do not ask her. Be straight forward with her. She might really want to be with you or she may just want to jump your bones and could possibly want both. You're going to keep wondering and the before you know it. She's off married some other guy.
Why does she seem so happy when i opened the door right to her and we were in each other's face and I held the door open
Because that action of yours showed that you went out of your way to hold the door for her. Just because it is the gentleman to do so. It also shows that you're not Narcissistic, self-confident or selfish. That also gives her even more feelings towards you.
I opened the door and I saw her walk in right in front of me and she was right in my face and she said hi loudly and then said ohh thank youuu in this tone and higher pitched voice sounding more like a girl. How do you know she worships the ground I walk on
Body language shows It all. Did she sound sexual of how she said Hi and thank you? Did her eyes look at you up and down? Just ask her! You will never know what she wants unless you ask!
No just trying to sound feminine like a school girl she was close couldn't do that
Just ask her what she wants? You're wasting time on here and not finding out what she wants.
She obviously has a crush on you and NO SHE HASN'T GIVEN UP YET. When people have a crush, they do all the strange and stupid things you wouldn't want them to do. She is desperately trying to get your attention and that is why she has a boyfriend. If you like her, I'd say you better approach her before it's too late... Hope this helps
She had boyfriends and goes behind their backs to do this does it single or not. Like every time right after I IGNORE her she gets a boyfriend
It's either one of the 2 things
1. She has a crush on you and only gets boyfriends to get your attention
2. She just likes to flirt... For no good reason at all. She's not interested in you she is just that kinda girl.
You will have to judge yourself
She doesn't just flirt for fuck sakes she would stare at me a lot and went out of her way to see me and showed up 30 mins early to class every day after she ran into me so she would see me every day
So she has a crush on you... S. I. M. P. L. E.
Why does she seem so sad when I ignored her
Because she has a crush on you
by the way her and her friend would flirt with me and since day one giggled around me a lot. Why would her and her friend do that when I was younger
she likes u a lot when i say a lot i mean a lot and she desperately wants ur Attention. a man going for orders is disgusting its just my opinion. she's weird u should stay away from her don't give her any attention. i would do the same if i was in that situation
Was it flirting the way she was talking to me when I held the door open
yes she's DESPERATE avoid her she's EXTREME.
She has a boyfriend but yeah
So what do you mean she's desperate and extreme
wait are u 4 real she has a BOYFRIEND
Yes and when she's single or not does stuff
I had a similar situation when I was 22. This woman was 44, hot and in a bad marriage. She was the owners daughter of my employer so she was around a lot. I’d say it’s time for a hot cup of coffee my friend. I mean, if that’s something you’d want. If not, just tell her straight that that’s not what you’re about and it’s weird to you. I went with my situation and learned a lot!! LOL
Does she have a crush on me
She has a son 1 year younger than me and a boyfriend
But I look old af and for real looked like a dad since I was 15
I look like I'm in my 30s
By the body language/eye contact you’ve explained I’d say yes.
And why do you want to know our opinion? Do you want to act on it?
So I can talk to her
You can talk to whoever you please amigo.
I mean she could still think youte attractive but based on what you said there isn't enough to say she is tryna flirt with you again you know
She very well could like you but her having a boyfriend makes me think she's not trying anything, as of now
She'd do stuff behind a guys back and date a guy only to continue stuff behind other guys backs and then would date a guy only to get mad at me and still be mad afterwards but single would still do stuff. Dates a guy only to start back up once she's single again
Stalker alert! Of course she'd be pissed when you're not responding like she wants to. Have you ever had a normal conversation with her?(without her acting like described or in a fake voice? I'd be wary of her.
Why would you say that
Difference between stalking and a crush, is crossing lines. A normal crush wouldn't find you at strange places. You don't seem to answer my question if you've ever had a casuall normal conversation with her or if it's normal for her to talk to you in a fake high pitch voice. I'd be wary. You don't seem to know her very well. So your options are. Get as far away from her (could piss her off even more) or maybe try date her? I don't know. She might just desperatly want your attention and maybe she'll not be so instense if you give in to her. (I could be wrong).
So why have this talk I don't want to be bothered
Okay. Then I guess you don't really care whu she's pissed
I do but I think it's stupid
I think she liked you earlier on, and nothing came from it, so she moved on. There's potential for regret there, or a missed opportunity, but hard to say.
When I opened the door to her she seemed so happy the one time I was decent and held it open
Probably missed your interactions
So is she still going to do stuff
Why would it make her that happy
She has a boyfriend now, so she's moved on. She probably just remembered your past interactions. Like I said, she probably liked you, but nothing happened, and so she's moved on.
Well she seems bitter bc she posts stuff like "no matter how hard it is never treat them how they treat you" the boyfriend commented and no response.
She has had multiple boyfriends only to do stuff behind one of their backs and does it single or not dates a guy only to do stuff behind his back and single still did stuff
She probably isn't over it, but is trying to be
So does she still have those feelings. I could tell I made her day I held the door open and was decent. She stops posting pics of her boyfriend as often since she saw me lol
I don't know for certain mate, but it appears that way, it's obviously hard to tell though
Why would it make her that happy she used to seem sad whenever she saw me. Sad or mad I could tell
I really want to be friends with her but I think the only way she'd want anything to do with me is if she likes me
Even if she does or doesn't, she's got a boyfriend
She rlly wants all ur attention and thinks by doing the absolute most that she's achieving that. You might just have to tell her straight up that she being a little extra
Why does she do that
She rlly interested in you and it looks like she's stopping at nothing to win you over. And if she gets mad that she doesn't get the reaction that she wants from you then she's probably a spoiled brat that's used to getting everything with those so called "charms" she needs to know she giving off them weird vibes
I reached a point of not giving a fuck. I ran into her today and it's the first time I didn't ignore her she was talking higher and like when she did in hs and she talks like a little girl around me. Said hi and she said thank you bc I held the door open and I could tell she was trying to sound feminine she was like oh thank youuu
Honestly at this point you just act like she dont exist. If she comes around to purposely get ur attention then you just don't give her any. Don't even give a reaction at all. And if she's staring just don't even mind it. Let her know without even having to tell her anything ya know
Yeah I tried that for almost 3 years or so it got me nowhere and she'd get pissed and still do stuff
Well if I get uncomfortable she gets pissed and I can tell it really upsets her today is the only time I was decent and she was doing that and I could tell based on how she was talking
Why would she be like that when I was decent to her and didn't act uncomfortable
You might need to make a stalker report. Scare her away or something
She hasn't stalked me it doesn't get to me that much but I do get nervous
She hasn't really stalked I guess she says hi
I'm surprised you haven't flashed on her yet... cuz lord knows I would've
Can you message me please
Why am I told she likes to tease me
Ur obviously not feeling teased ur feeling annoyed. That's just irritating
by the way I'm like the first and only guy that doesn't really care for her other guys want to hangout with her and more so date
by the way why in hs would she encourage me to talk to her and do the stuff I did
When I talked to her she'd ask me to sit with her and want a pic ask me to get closer to her and she'd take the pic send to me and have me post and tag her then comment and like it then say the next day she likes it in this sweet girly tone. Did it again when I held a door open for her
Honestly I feel like she's frustrated bc like I said earlier she is used to getting what she wants and you seem to be the one exception and she's just not used to being over looked like that
So has she had a crush on me all these years
She probably is interested but not like in a way that she cares so much about you as a person. Tbh she probably just wants to get that body count up. She just mad bc you ain't having it
I thought she cared she really seemed hurt bc I joked about moving away and she got very upset
She has guy friends and bfs into smoking and she really doesn't want me smoking
I don't know at this point.
Why would she talk in the same girly higher pitched voice she did as a girl when she'd compliment me with
Bc she wants to seem cute to you. She obviously is unaware that it's rlly not cute and you might just needa say sumthin
Hey so why does she seem so happy and say thank you in a tone the one time I was decent to her she'd get pissed I'd look at her funny
Bc she expects you to react differently and when you don't it makes her mad and uncomfortable. She probably gets embarassed for trying and failing
Was it flirting when she saw me said thank you in a higher pitched voice she was like oh thank youuuu
Yep. This girl is definitely flirting with you
But have you ever told her ur not interested?
No I showed body language signs.
Why respond like thar the one day I was decent
Because you were decent. If you wanna get her off ur back then pretend she ain't there. You don't even gotta open the door for her
So What does it mean she responded like that said hi John loud high pitched almost and then oh thank youuuu
She was maybe trying to give you no excuse to ignore her or act like she wasn't there especially since she was being overly loud. Like people around y'all probably heard her too
Well she was right in my face bc I was about to leave and opened the door to her and she was right there and said hi and then said thank you that way I had to hold the door she was right there
She not giving up. If you gotta run from her then do it cuz she seem a little obsessed to me.
She was walking in I was leaving.
It's like she really wants to put herself in spots that she'll be in my face and I can't ignore she fucking waited outside my classroom and would show up 30 mins early. How is she obsessed?
She's had bfs and met me when she had one and it never stopped.
She dates guys only to do stuff behind their backs get mad at me lol
She has a boyfriend but still posts "no matter how hard it is don't treat them how they treat you"
SHE WANTS YOU. POINT. BLANK. PERIODDT! She is not gonna stop popping up I think it doesn't register to her whenever you give her an annoyed look or whatever face you make that indicates that ur uncomfortable. Or it probably does and she just act like it never happened
Why does she have a boyfriend if she still like this with me then posting that shit and still gets like this with me
Honey you need to expose her for the hoe that she is. And you can do it nice and kind too. Do you know who her boyfriend is?
She can do whatever she want it'll catch up and it's not my place or business to and it's my word against hers. I'll look like the bad guy anyways. I don't want to look like an ass if I'm wrong and it's better to mind my own business
So does she still like me if she says thank you like that
At this point you just need to ask her. Pull her to the side or something and ask her what's up wih what she's doing. Ik a lot of people don't like to ask people stuff upfront but it needs to happen in this case
I just think that's giving her what she wants she really would want me to go up and talk to her in some way
Well maybe that's exactly what needs to happen in order for her to feel accomplished and stop trying so hard. Ya might just have to let her win this time
What so I'd walk myself into it and put me in that spot
Yeah that's exactly what you would have to do
Why so she can go out and just say it
Well if she rlly needs to have you talk to her then just have a sit down and talk. That's all I can say. Have you seen her today?
Couple days ago
What else does she do that makes you uncomfortable?
Just her presence
Wowww... that's just not it😕
Everything
Being close to me
Doing stuff to get my attention
You should just tell her
Does it sound intentional
I don't get it the one time I didn't ignore her she talked to me in this tone
I don't get it she got upset from me ignoring her for the longest time still does and she's all happy seeing me yet posts stuff on FB like "no matter how hard it is don't treat them how they treat you" yet has a boyfriend lol
How is she trying to take advantage of you? Has she ever touch you inappropriately? Or asks you to pay for her stuff?
Is she making you uncomfortable?
Making me uncomfortable
Why would she have this relationship with me
Okay, so she is not taking advantage of you. There's nothing much that you can do I guess apart from ignoring her or pretending you didn't notice anything.
Why does she respond like that and seem so happy the one day I'm decent
I don't think the change in her behaviour should concern you if you don't like her.
Here's the thing
I pretty much opened the door to her and she was really close to me and said started talking that loud.
So why would she do that stuff she did for all this time
I don't know, I can't read her mind. Maybe ask her next time?
Again. She may still have a crush on you and be trying to make you jealous by having a boyfriend. I don't know though. I'm not exactly sure what kind of relationship you want with her.
I want to be friends
Hmmm okay
Probably she liked you before. But unfortunately she do have a boyfriend already. She looked sad probably because she do have some sort of arguements with her boyfriend. When she sees you she tried her best not to show her sadness despite of having a boyfriend already.
Why does she hide her sadness?
She seemed so happy when I was decent and held the door open for her
I think there are some sort of regrets. You should show that you really care for her tho she already have a boyfriend.
this is all oddly specific and im just as confused as to how you know all this, and have taken note of it. I would guess she's a stalker, but I can't tell if you're into it or not.
Since I started looking at her funny she seems either pissed or upset. I ran into her today and she said hi John and I held a door open for her. She talked to me in this higher pitched and feminine voice and said oh thank youuuu. She seemed happy I opened the door and she was right there
yeah cool but there's really no answer to your question, you are just picking apart every interaction.
Nothing really screams "I like you" to me. If anything it sounds more like she's comfortable with you as a classmate, which could be why she gravitated towards you for peer review and the classroom.
What do you mean
I have social anxiety, so I only really become comfortable with a couple people in my class at a time. Then I tend to try and stick around them when I see them because it makes me feel safer. That could be what she's doing with you, although I don't know what she's normally like with others and big crowds etc
She doesn't do that really
Take it from a girl: she's most likely into you. Unless she really doesn't understand social cues. She sounds like she's trying to get you to know her better!
What are you girls doing when you hold longer eye contact and smile
Some girls still believe in the whole "dilated pupil" thing, so it could be that. Usually when I make eye contact and smile I'm just really in awe like "wow this guy is hilarious" and I'm just kind of admiring eye color and everything about the guy!
So she was trying to read eyes
Sounds like. she was looking for attention tbh. Some girls like the attention of a guy but not the rest.
Why does she still she pretty much stalks me
Do you not understand that she found out where my class was and would show up 30 mins early every day so she could see me!
She sounds like a real case. And you have confronted her about this?
No I don't even give her the time of day
Why do you say she wants attention I treat her like shit and keep her at an arms length
Fuck I'm sick of being told that
What do you mean a real case
Some girls will chase the guys that treat them like shit. It's a self esteem thing. A real case is like crazy.
Why would she do it to me
Some times there is no explanation to a persons behaviour.
Best to keep yourself safe and dont give into her.
Has she had a crush on me or something
Its possible she likes you. But with out knowing her I couldn't say.
It sounds like she is interested to me. She might not know if you like her as more than a friend if you asked her for advice about another woman. If you like her I would ask her out.
When girls hold long ish eye contact and smiling what are they doing
It's hard to explain. Usually means they like you and it's kind of a way of connecting and also looking for signs you like them back in the same way they like you. Like if your eyes hold the same spark, or if it makes you shy and you look away embarrassed, etc.
Well I got awkward and shy
Then she might think you like her too.
What was she doing when she was standing close to me and had her back to me and I could smell it she was in my face
She’s been waiting for you to make the move. Man up and ask her out.
Has she missed me over the years
That I don’t know for sure, but when she saw you after all these years, she still stares at you, smiles etc so probably yes. Make the move!
Pfft. If she REALLY wants you she'll make a point of being your friend, supporting you and making small considerations in your behalf, not just bat her eyelashes at you.
Guys should be courted to, and girls need to demonstrate their worthiness, not their intermammary cleft.
Not if she’s quiet or shy. I know it’s annoying but that’s what girls do when they want attention.
Flame
Does she sound shy with me
Well she’s been staring at you, blushing, making different facial expressions without talking too much. Then yes.
What's it supposed to do when she shows up that early and walks by looks in at me then walks by a lot
Maybe she just want you to notice her? I see it as I’m showing you I’m interested it’s time for you to make the move.
I don't see why he's obligated to pursue her when he's only stated he's trying to understand her motives.
How come she seems pissed whenever she sees me or seems upset
@Dextrosis, he’s not, but from what he said it seems that she’s been trying to get his attention and if he wants to be with her he has to make the move. @Bringmebackto2008 that I don’t know.
Has she always wanted to hangout with me?
You're asking very specific questions that are unique to the girl in question.
Women can share with you their perspective, that doesn't mean they have gender-specific telepathy.
You've got to remember women are individuals with individual personalities, needs, wants and motivations.
@flamiE We don't know much about this woman's values or character, except she's acting like a creep.
Like honestly, what would you think of a guy that leers at you all the time and takes every opportunity to display his bulge?
Trying to influence a person to respond to someone just because they're interested and (arguably) attractive is a huge disservice.
What if he takes the advice and it turns out horribly for him?
@Dextrosis well said! If he’s asking if she wanted to hang all this time for me means he’s interested or else he wouldn’t bother asking. It’s better to find out if she feels the same rather than questioning yourself. Everyone shows their attraction in a different way, maybe that’s his way.
No I just want to be friends with her
Okay it didn’t seem that way, my bad. Then just don’t do anything 🤷🏻♀️
Does she want to hangout with me
Sounds like she wants you in a romantic/sexual context, and being friends with a person with different hopes for the relationship is very difficult.
I've found that being direct with a person like that either presents a challenge so they try harder or it offends them and they cut you off.
Quietly learn what she finds unattractive and subtley start to behave that way when she's around while still being nice to her.
If she doesn't notice slowly dial it up until she's forced to make a value judgment about you. Only if she decides she doesn't want you or you're not worth it will she leave you alone with the least negative consequences for you.
Your best bet: show some insecurity.
Not real insecurties, she might try to use those if she's determined.
False ones that make you unattractive but don't expose you.
Has she sexually teased me at all
See my answer in the other opinion.
How has she been sexually teasing me
She sounds a bit obsessive. For a girl to go great lengths especially what you're describing sounds very unhealthy and stalkerish.
Why does she respond like that the one time I was decent to her "oh thank youuuu" In this higher pitched girly voice
No.
Even if her allegedly staring at you made you feel a bit uncomfortable, she didn’t make you do anything so you weren’t taken advantage of.
Then what is she doing I don't feel comfortable around her
She’s staring more than you’re comfortable with
So is she trying to make me comfortable around her
Not necessarily.
In some cultures, staring is encouraged so if she does that again, I don’t see why you can’t just speak up and tell her how you feel.
Uncomfortable
Why's it encouraged
As Femlaes when we like someone we do anything to get the person attention. She clearly doesn't like your attutde towards her.
So why am I told she likes to tease me
Because She wants to engage your interested.
What
Engage your interest.
I really liked her as a friend and viewed her as a big sister but I think she knows she's attractive to guys and Flirts with men and knows she can get them hooked and make them want to date her and hangout
I'm the only guy that really doesn't feel comfortable with her shit and want no part of it