Girls, im in love with my best friend. is she giving me signs she may feel the same or am I overthinking it due to my feelings?

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so i think the title gives away with what im asking but basically there is a girl I've know for about 14 years. we have both had feelings for each other in the past but never came to fruition. the issue was she was always a party girl which i was never interest in. she's not like that anymore and we recently started hanging out again and those feelings on my end have come back but im not sure on her end. we hung out the other night at the bar and some of the things she did and said have got me thinking if she feels the same way. do the following things sound as if she's interested

- when we were at the bar (not busy maybe 10 people there) she was talking to another girl. the girl asked if she was single. she initially said yes but then said she was dating someone. when the girl asked she pointed at me which obviously caught me off guard because we are not. later when she went to the bathroom said girl asked why i was so surprised and i told her because we werent but i said i would like to be.

- when we went back to her place she spent a lot of time venting about she hated being single and talking about past relationships and how they haven't worked out and ended that portion of our conversation by saying like dude i really f'n love you. the only reason i think this could be a sign is the subject matter leading up to that point and it was a pretty serious co toned conversation like not being funny or just casual etc...

- touch barrier was broken when were at her place by her. basically came over to give me hug but didn't let go for a pretty long time

Girls, im in love with my best friend. is she giving me signs she may feel the same or am I overthinking it due to my feelings?
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