Hi,
I have this one guy friend I have known for now a bit less then a year, but we've gotten much closer in the last 3-4 months. We talk almost everyday and now that school is over we've been meeting up to play sports or just hang out. I think he is the best person ever and my best friend at the moment. I think I might have feelings for him because I think about him a lot and just want to share everything with him. We have the same sense of humour and just vibe so well together. I also feel so good whenever he is around, just like it's so easy and comfortable. The thing is my feelings keep changing. One moment im like that's it I love him and the next I second guess myself and just feel like something is missing for it to be more than a friendship. I also feel like he lacks a bit of emotional intelligence (we rarely talk about our feelings in general or have deep intense convos). Plus I'm so freakin scared of ruining a friendship and then changing my mind and breaking his heart. He has never been in a relationship or had anything with a girl before (more of a shy guy). I know he probably likes me as more than a friend and our other friends keep making comments about our chemistry. Anyways, please, I need guidance. When you really love someone (as romantic love), are you supposed to know for sure? Is it all supposed to be so confusing and changing?
I have this one guy friend I have known for now a bit less then a year, but we've gotten much closer in the last 3-4 months. We talk almost everyday and now that school is over we've been meeting up to play sports or just hang out. I think he is the best person ever and my best friend at the moment. I think I might have feelings for him because I think about him a lot and just want to share everything with him. We have the same sense of humour and just vibe so well together. I also feel so good whenever he is around, just like it's so easy and comfortable. The thing is my feelings keep changing. One moment im like that's it I love him and the next I second guess myself and just feel like something is missing for it to be more than a friendship. I also feel like he lacks a bit of emotional intelligence (we rarely talk about our feelings in general or have deep intense convos). Plus I'm so freakin scared of ruining a friendship and then changing my mind and breaking his heart. He has never been in a relationship or had anything with a girl before (more of a shy guy). I know he probably likes me as more than a friend and our other friends keep making comments about our chemistry. Anyways, please, I need guidance. When you really love someone (as romantic love), are you supposed to know for sure? Is it all supposed to be so confusing and changing?
