Do you think Im experiencing "pretty girl problems"?

I find that although I try to look nice and I put effort into how I look, most people seem to ignore me more than I have noticed other women experience. Most of my friends get approached my guys and have easy conversations, while only the most outgoing guys say anything to me. I know it may seem shallow but I hear that pretty women get approached more often than unnattractive ones unless guys are intimidated. Im very shy so I keep quiet, and I question that maybe if nobody is talking to me then I'm probably just not pretty. But when people do speak to me they tell me how they always thought I was so pretty, how Im very pretty, or something along those lines. I was best looking in my high school year book, I was always told that most guys thought I was out of there league, even my first love seemed excited to "show me off" to his brothers. He remarked at how they would be jealous and surprised to see him with "a girl like me". When I met his friends and family they would all say "oh man she's pretty" and eventually when we had relationship problems this same guy said he always thought I was "out of his league" and questioned my motives. I had problems in the past because most relationships didn't develop because guys didn't take the time to get to know me and I felt that they treated me like a trophy rather than actually liking me for my personality (aside from my first love). Even though I question my looks constantly, I strive to be more confident and have a more outgoing personality. I want people to like me for more than my looks, but I fear that changing my behavior could end badly. I was bullied in middle school so bad for being poor and looking shabby, and I had a bad reputation as THE nobody. I haven't been insulted in years, not on my looks anyway. And people have only ever told me that I seem mature because I think very carefully about everything that I say. Do you think Im having "pretty girl problems" or is it more of an internal thing? And how do I fix it?
Do you think Im experiencing "pretty girl problems"?
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