Does every girl experience this in clubs or does this mean I'm pretty?

[Anonymous]

Yesterday I was in an alternative club. First I sat because I was shy. I stood up and stopped pretending to be busy on my phone got a glass of water and immediately a guy who's been standing in front of me came to me and wanted to dance and everything so I just did because I was glad someone finally talked to me

Suddenly I was in the middle of the room and everyone stood around and no I can't dance. I felt rlly uncomfortable actually because I felt so looked at. I don't dress like the people there and everyone stared at me which I'm used to not to sound arrogant and I don't know if it was because of my looks (which aren't out if this world in my eyes) this time or because I don't dress all black.

When this one guy left I was still drunk and the club was emptier and I danced with another girl and I swear literally every guy suddenly started talking to me. The bartender gave me stuff for free and people called me a "fairy" and asked if I want to go to concerts with them in the future and all that

Does that mean I'm pretty? Or does every girl experience this

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say whether every girl experiences this or not, as everyone's experiences can be unique. However, it is possible that your appearance and behavior may have been attracting attention in the club.

It's important to remember that attraction is subjective and can vary from person to person. While some people may find you physically attractive, others may be drawn to your personality, energy, or confidence.

It's also important to consider the context of the situation. Clubs are often social environments where people go to have fun and meet new people, so it's not uncommon for people to approach and engage with others.

However, it's important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and to set boundaries that make you feel safe and respected in any social situation. If you're feeling uncomfortable or overwhelmed by attention from others, it's okay to take a break or step away from the situation.

Remember that your worth and value aren't determined by how others perceive you, and that it's important to prioritize your own self-esteem and self-care above seeking validation from others.

[catiecatie]

Not every girl experiences this. Some guys will literally do anything with alcohol in there system. Maybe you look nice and kind and that’s why you were getting all the attention. I wouldn’t really go into a club or bar alone though. Maybe bring a couple close girl friends and then go out and see the reaction people give you and the friend group.

[In_Trance]

Every girl experiences this

[karekaaaa]

No u are pretty 🙈❤️
Hot girl lol