Search Results: lack of confidence in sex

Your Feelings Don't Matter

Listen, I'm just a guy. I was born with testosterone, a propensity for growing hair on my back, and a lack of vocabulary to explain my feelings. And what I can't explain I don't discuss. And yet I DO have...

bobair

Influencer Age: 51

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Family & Friends

Would socially awkward people that turns others off lack hope?

Just wondering... For my story; it all began when I was hanging out with a group of 5 people in my high school Junior year. During the beginning of my senior year, my friend Jay started not to get along with Bing anymore...

sup3ryman864

Xper 3 Age: 32

Break Up & Divorce

Recovering From A Bad Relationship

I don’t know how many people on GAG have experienced bad relationships , but I think even one is too many. Relationships bring deeper meaning to our lives. Sadly, that meaning becomes damaged when one is physically...

BCRanger10

Master Age: 38

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Flirting

Ladies, what kind of guy would you choose?

Janson

Guru Age: 35

Say there are three types of guys, lets call them guy A, guy B, and guy C.. which would you most likely date and which would you be friends with in this hypothetical scenario? Assume

Say there are three types of guys, lets call them guy A, guy B, and guy C.. which would you most likely date and which would you be friends with in this hypothetical scenario? Assume all three men want to be with you and that you haven't had sex with any of them.

In general can other aspects of a man overcome the lack of physical attraction for you to be with him romantically?

guy A:

He has an average looking face, not that physically attractive.

He has a fit body.

He is very intelligent and highly educated.

He has an upper middle class job.

His personality connects with yours well and you can easily talk to him for several hours. He seems to be a bit serious, and is very career oriented with his life. He treats you very well when he takes you out. You value him for his intelligence and maturity.

guy B:

He has a very attractive face.

He has a fit body.

He is of average intelligence.

He has a lower middle class job.

You are sexually attracted to him.

He seems to be very day-by-day. He is a very easy going guy and he isn't too concerned with the future. He isn't sure what he want to do in the next 5 years but you can be sure whatever he is doing tonight will be fun. There isn't ever a dull moment with this guy and he likes to have a lot of fun when he is out. You are constantly laughing when you are with him. You think he is one of the most attractive people you've ever seen. You value him for his attractiveness and his spontaneity. You think you may be sexually compatible with him.

guy C:

He has an above average looking face.

He has a chubby body but not that much.

He is extremely confident and very witty.

He has above average intelligence.

He has a middle class job.

You aren't sexually attracted to him, but this guy is an alpha male. He has the best comes backs you've ever heard. No guy in the bar wants to mess with him as he is well versed in MMA training. He is cocky and loves insulting people freely. He makes you feel special because he is nice to you. You feel very safe with this guy. You value for him for his confidence.

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Girl's Behavior

Once and for all how nice guys will win, what do you think?

OK guys and girls .Don't be jealous of others this will then show the bad boy up as his weakness is jealousy. .Do things that make you confident including exercise which you enjoy I like running, do what you like .Get...

lostpleasehelp81

Xper 5 Age: 45

Flirting

I can't bring myself to approach girls

I was in a 2 year long relationship with my first love -also my first sex partner-, and we broke up 5 months ago. I was in love with her, but in the last months of our relationship I started being curious about how it...

loxagos_snake

Xper 6 Age: 33

Relationships

How can I start dating again after a heartbreak?

Sorry for the long read, but I'd appreciate some advice! 4 months ago, I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years. She is 17 and I'm 19. To cut a long story short, we loved each other, we were also each others' first...

loxagos_snake

Xper 6 Age: 33

Flirting

Why is it that women give crappy advice all the time? For instance:

1. Be yourself and you'll get a girlfriend. Oh really, I've been myself for 30 years and it hasn't worked so far. My question is, what if yourself SUCKS? And What if "yourself" is someone whose completely socially...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Do girls never like me?

I don't know if there's something wrong with me. I believe and have been told both by girls and male friends that I'm handsome, and I have a sweet face. I try to work on my body everyday and the results are very good. So,...

loxagos_snake

Xper 6 Age: 33

Dating

How to repair my dating life?

OK, so I've reached a pretty bad point now. I am single the last three months, and while I seemingly had something going with a girl - she is in a relationship but might like me-, now she isn't showing signs anymore. I...

loxagos_snake

Xper 6 Age: 33

Girl's Behavior

How do I help myself?

My dating problem for as long as I can remember has been my own self imagine. It's the reason for my self-esteem problems, the reason for my lack of confidence, and the reason I have avoided asking out girls for fear of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Bring me back to the good old days. Scared that my girlfriend might let herself go.

Ok so hi all. My girlfriend and I are both 20 and have been in a relationship for the past 3 years (on and off for the first year and abit). When we started dating she was in very good shape, confident and fun but in the...

HelloJared

Xper 4 Age: 35

Dating

Don't understand what I am doing wrong?

Okay I know a few people that might meet a girl go out a couple times and then they are getting laid, then couple days later they are going steady. While at the same time I might go out on a date and get dropped like a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Why does my ex boyfriend hate me so much? Please help!

I went out with my ex for a year. We work together. He is in his 30s, very limited experience, shy, private person. He's known for lacking confidence. His friends have never seen him flirt with anyone other than me. He...

billiepatterson

Xper 5 Age: 37

Flirting

At what age do women give serious men a chance?

i\m 23 years old and I've never had a girlfriend and obviously I never had sex. I believe I have never had a girlfriend because I am a serious guy. I am never the center of attention nor can I electrify a party. I am a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

How long until I should assume he's "done" with me?

I've been seeing this guy for a month. We found each other on a dating site - We met (great!), talked, watched movies (best kisser) - I was floating. It stayed good for a while... went jogging together (once, ha),...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Have I lost all my chances of getting a sweet girlfriend after being ill for 7 years?

If I would have known at age 15-18 what was about to happen with me in the future, I would not have waited starting a relationship with one of the girls that I was interested back in high school. There was certainly no...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

I'm a lonely guy, how do I increase my appeal?

Who am I?: I have friends, not very many of them but they're good friends nonetheless and I love them. I accept people for who they are, not what they do or where they come from. I get along with asians, hispanics,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Would you agree that women are much more shallow than men about the opposite sex, looks as well as wealth ?

I can't help but notice that women are amazingly shallow about guys' appearance. They're forever going on in precise detail about how a guy MUST have a certain look before they can be remotely attracted to him. The usual...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

For dating success, do you agree that a man should never ask permission?

The old saying is that it's easier to ask for forgiveness, than to get permission. A man who asks for permission (i.e. for first kiss, to go out with the guys, to have sex) is perceived as lacking confidence. Therefore,...

PsychedelicZebra

Xper 7 Age: 41