And women are always going on about how the aforementioned tall, broad shouldered etc. look makes them "melt" , and how they would do anything to get a guy with that look, and once they got him, that they would do anything for him. I do find this amazing, as I don't know any man who would "melt" just because a woman had a certain look, nor do I know any guy who would do anything to get a woman with a certain look, or do anything for such a woman, regardless of how she treated him.
And of course women are forever going on about how such and such is hot, or such and such is not hot. I think women must have invented the use of the word "hot" in this sense, as it's a concept that women are absolutely obsessed with, and they seem to think that someone's level of "hotness" is the absolutely most important issue on God's earth. Never mind the Middle East or Third World poverty etc, if you listened to most young women today, you'd think how "hot" somebody is or isn't is the most important issue on the planet.
And it's noticeable that women will only show any interest whatsoever in a guy as a human being, if they think he's "so hot", failing which they wouldn't give one damn if the said guy died tomorrow. And women frequently use a man's lack of said hotness to put him down in a cruel fashion - I don't know why, but women seem to think trying to annihilate a guy's confidence is a fun sport. You don't even need to show the remotest hint of hitting on a woman for her to hit you with " I don't find you attractive", or " I don't think you're hot at all" as a completely unprovoked put down and an attempted confidence wrecker. In cases like this, women speak to you as if the fact that you're not super hot to them is a serious crime, and that they find you to be a completely worthless individual for this reason. They will tell you how you don't give her "butterflies" like the tall, perfect bodied chap does, and that as a consequence she'd rather eat her own vomit than be associated with you in any way.
People generally accept that women are the far shallower gender when it comes to the opposite sex's wealth. Yet for some reason women don't get the reputation for being as shallow about the opposite sex's appearance - which is crazy, as the evidence shows that women are not just shallower than men about the opposite sex' wealth, but are also FAR shallower about the opposite sex's appearance too.
So why is it men who tend to get the bum rap when it comes to shallowness re the opposite gender's looks ?
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Ummm how many male supermodels are there?
But then, who are the supermodels for? The men or the women buying the fashions?
A model tends to be thin so the clothes hang well, showing off the line and cut. Women, I think basically understand this but, also want men to find them attractive . If men like the girl who looks like a supermodel, then girls will think that looking like that will at least reel him in the way men use sports cars and fancy clothes : looking nice draws attention, after that, ' shallow ' is in how little you know or care like hmmmm, lets think : Remembering birthdays, guys?
Yes, professional models are human coat racks because they get paid to be.
Now, the Kardashian butt is 'in' so skinny women are 'killing' themselves and or exercising less to achieve it.
The guys who want a woman and see only their own desire get very angry at not having the 'thing' they want, otherwise known as a human being. Self-centered greedy people put all sorts of negative traits on the object of their affection ( again a human! Not an object ) so they don't have to worry about trying to understand and heal their own short-comings.
I've heard men claim that women are the ones obsessed with women's looks, that most men like natural women but then, lots of rich men have skinny big boobed girlfriends and a lot of the 'pretty' average girls in our peer groups during our formative years match the same description.
It seems that with all the manipulation, objectification and meanness men direct at sexually desirable women, the most a woman can hope for is an honest guy ( who a lot of other jealous guys will label an 'asshole' ) or a guy who will at least pay her money towards having a stable future in exchange for the pain of having to be around him and his objectifying, condescending attitude.
When true love occurs, there's no fighting it but it's rare so most relationships in my very unpopular opinion are just partnerships, even the mainstream idea of the ideal :long lasting honorable marriages.
The only thing I've noticed women are shallow about is hair loss and beer bellies but staying away from an unhealthy past time and getting a nice haircut are easy.
On shallow judgements :
One truth I've found is that most women Do love cars more than men do, even. Women are just socialized to think they can't work on them. In actuality, the sexists should know that the female brain's physiology that makes her good at learning languages,which is a separate sector from emotional interactions like gossip, is the same sector for spatial relations and pattern memorization. Men's brains that make them good at video game controllers have less to do with driving stick shifts and more to do with being able to knit and fold origami.
Right, so women are only shallow about hair loss and beer bellies now ? Here's a tip, next time you're in a nightclub, have a look around for all the slim guys with a quiff or whatever. Next, have a look at how many women are throwing themselves at these slim guys with a full head of hair - I can tell you right away that the answer will be zero! Next have a look at how many women are hanging around any celebs or muscle dudes in the club - the answer will be plenty!
Ya, I see what you're trying to address :$ superficiality versus superficiality about looks.
I just have found, as a woman, that women ARE genuinely more shallow about looks THAN $ but that males are more shallow than women about both and especially about women looking however the male thinks she should look but then, I've also heard and seen a lot of the' men will hump anythign that moves' scenario too so I think I'm just falling victim to 'the battle of the sexes" here.There is no absolute.