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... Or are you currently bare? Are you a hairy beast (just kidding), living in all your manly glory?
Maybe your preference is based on your gf/wife's liking?

I used to like this guy. I was always nice to him and talked to him. I'm very introverted and to myself, so it's rare for me to do that.
He was very mean to me when I was nice, so I stopped being nice to him. When I talked about important things he would say I was rambling about nothing. His friend would tell people he didn't have anything in his brain and I needee to shut up and stop thinking so much. I found out about his horrible spending habits, drug abuse and large number of friends. I tried to encourage him to invest his money instead, go to rehab and choose his friends more wisely. He called me a gold digger, controlling and a stalker.

I had enough. He'd tell me he liked me. But I realize I was a toy and entertainment for him. Hed go back and tell his friends I was a stalker and I annoyed him, he didn't want to hang out with me. I confronted him about gossiping about me with his ex and lying about liking me. It was automatically assumed I was jealous of her because she's a model, tall, blonde hair and blue eyes. But I think I'm beautiful no matter what.

I cut him off and never looked back. Ill never know or understand why he did those things, probably will never. I've come to terms with it. he's shallow. He told me he trusted young people because he liked their faces and he spent $1000 on a pair of jeans and popped pills. I dont think he's rich enough to travel, spend that kind of money on clothes, buy drugs and live in San Diego.

Anyways, all his friends wanted to be rich and famous. I started noticing them hanging around rappers with large IG followings. Im assuming they bought expensive clothes to impress those rappers. But I was very done wih him because his friend talked about eating coke.

My dad died from drugs, drinking and partying. It never interested me because I know what it does to your body long term. Exercising, resting and eating healthy is essential.

Anyways, Im glad I cut off fake people.

Realistically speaking I have doubts and I just don’t know how to feel tbh. We always flirt around, he’s always staring and winking. When I’m around him various people have noticed how happy he gets. Whenever we hug he becomes the happiest person as seen by my teachers. We’ve been texting nearly everyday. He asks me the stupidest questions to start a conversation that lasts hours. He cornered me about liking him and I had no choice but to admit but all he said with this shy grin is that he doesn’t have feels etc. Then he tried to switch the convo and I brought it up and he was saying I don’t wanna talk about it so I just said okay and I respected that. Even after that day like the day after he was tryna get close to me and texted later that night about something random. Anyways we’ve been talking more and stuff. His hugs have gotten less awkward and are more genuine. He’d always let me playfully touch his hair and stuff and lately he’s been reciprocating the same movement. We were having a convo over text about things couples do and if we’d do that with eachother and he was saying I mean... to which i responded I await your violation or derogatory comment. And he just said I mean I don’t have feels. Anyways he kept texting playfully. But I really don’t know. Everytime I get close to my guybeat friend he’ll just stare at us blankly. He’s always coming to me for help in his work and life advice. His friends would tease him around and the happiness he exhibits as notes by teachers is like the biggest grin. He gets self conscious at times and when I reassure him he’ll be like awwww etc etc with his hearts and kissy faces. When I don’t talk to him for the day he’ll text and ask if I’m mad at him. I don't know tbh, but what do you guys think. I have my doubts. Everyone is saying he’s in doubt.