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Let me begin this by saying that my girlfriend is the only girlfriend I have ever had in my life because I had always had shyness and self esteem issues untill recently. In the relationship I try to be as good to her as I can. I try to her love, I try to give her respect, I try to make sure she knows I appreciate her. I try to make sure that we are equal partners in the relationship. We have not had sex yet if that matters.
Recently we got into an argument because I kept planing things for us to do but she always seemed to be busy doing things with her girl friends. I told her I wanted to spend more time with her. She told me i was being too controling. Then she said something that hurt my feelings. She said "Now I know why you never had a girlfriend before, I bet you couldn't get another girl if I left you." I felt like crap when she said this, and it looked like she regreted saying it. I said we should have a break from each other to cool off. Later she called me and said "I'm sorry for what I said i did not mean that, I am lucky to have you, I love you."
I told her i forgive her for saying it but now I feel like thats what she really thinks of me. Should I forgive her.

I for one am part of that teenage dating thing and I love it, but my huge problem is, I can't talk to girls when I see them in person. Let me tell you, I am complete charmer when it comes to talking to the phone, texting, etc. I just tense up and completely feel like I'm going to make some mistake when ever I talk to a girl in public, even at school I have trouble walking up to my old girlfriend and starting something out of shyness. If I am with them, I'll become relaxed and I'm then freer. I know that being like this is a huge turn off, but I can't stop myself, and what I'll do is tell myself that I should wait until a certain thing happens. But what ends up happening is I screw up or that thing won't happen. Lastly I kinda have trouble asking someone out in person. FYI I do not have a car.

i like her and she's in my class.we never talked in school.i like her but i dont want love or anything but i told her my feelings..then i messages her snd said "i just wanna be friends" she said "sorry i dont want friends" ..i said i want friends only.. after i told her how i felt so i think she's scared now the friendship will lead on to more like love and she not ready and its not allowed in religion.last time i told her my feelings again and she blocked me for a few hours and she unblocked me and sent me messages apologizing.. so i think she cares but doesn't want love but good friends....she doesn't answer all messages..in school she goves me really good signs and i bet she wants me to notice her and talk to her..last time i passed her and her best friends, one of her friends said out her name out loud when i passed..it happened again few days ago too.when she passes me in gym class last time..she couldnt look me in the eye coz i was infront of her so she put her head a bit down and passed me with a smile. she gives me more good signs but i can't say all..last time i got pissed off and said its my last message if ur not answrring and just forget about everything..she read that message 8 times so i bet she got sad and she doesn't want to forget it..if she didn't care she woulda got happy and deleted the convo in the beginning but she kept on reading..she's very shy by the way..so what do u guys think? also me and her and 2 girls that r her bestfriends are all from same country out of the whole school..thats really rare and special..please good answers thank u..u. think she cares about being good friends and not end up away when the year ends.. and not love....this isn't a gorl raised in the usa..we are from iraq and live in Canada...we are only 4 in the school from iraq..thays really slecial....also before a month and a half i told her how much i care..these days im showing her i dont give a fk..she posted "i miss the old u. The one that cared about me" on fb her profile cover