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So it's known that some women like to switch over and find a different type a guy attractive later down in life. For example in college/high school she may have been attracted to the hot, popular guy who likes to party and have fun but coming down to her late 20's and beyond want a stable, less fun guy, who has a job, and willing to commit and possibly have children in future.
Now some men who may have a chip on their shoulder for women not wanting to be with them when they were younger, prettier and more fun but are coming to them now that they have a nice career, house, and place have decided to use the beta provider game.

The beta provider game is where men either actively or passively use women's hopes and dreams of finding a reliable guy to settle down to their advantage. These women can range from girls wanting to settle down and marry now but the guy she truly wants to be with isn't ready yet so she goes for you instead to single mothers looking for a meal ticket.

The beta provider game works by going out on dates with these women and giving the illusion that you will be a good provider. Dropping hints in casual conversation that indicate that you are willing to commit, you have nice paying job, and you like kids or willing to have kids. Stuff likes this in subtle doses. The beta provider game also tends to use the nice guy persona more so that the cocky asshole that younger women gravitate towards.

The beta game is a lot slower and usually takes several dates before he can bed these women. However, once he beds these women he quickly loses their number and move onto the next.
So in summary the beta provider game is like danging a carrot of being a good provider over women's faces and using it to get sex from them. Once you get what you want you discard them and move onto the next.