My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months, he loves me and often compliments me on how beautiful I am. However this feeling that he's not really into my body/doesn't think I'm sexy has been bugging me for a while now. A few things make me feel like this.. girls he's been with in the past or has been interested in have all been thicker than me with bigger boobs, sometimes bigger bums. Laying naked after sex once he said, whilst studying my relatively small boobs, 'what do you think of big boobs?'.. I found it a weird question but said something like 'well, it depends on someone's body shape, they suit some people but not others' when I got the impression what he was really thinking was 'I'm not sure if I like the size of your chest'. He's also made comments about not liking skinny girls, and when I lost a bit of weight recently, he wouldn't stop commenting on it, not saying anything overtly negative but it definitely wasn't in a complimentary way. I had thought this weight loss only made me look better because I lost the bit of tummy I had. He doesn't really explore or look at my body even when naked or having sex, maybe I'm more visually stimulated than the average girl but I swear I check him out more than he does me! He's not even toned at all or anything but he turns me on because I love him and it makes me think of when we have sex.. I'm quite slim and have (not super perky) C cup boobs, I don't turn myself on but I'd like to think a guy who loved me and was attracted to my face/personality would find my body sexy. Should I try to bring this up with him in some way?
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