Boyfriend makes insensitive comments about my body?

[Anonymous]

I been with my boyfriend for a while but he can be really insensitive sometimes. Recently he made a remark like "Your body is nice... but it’ll be better if you gained weight.” A while ago and again recently made a joke “I can’t slap it cause it too small.” These comments hurt me since I'm already insecure as it is and I know he loves big butts, he's told me himself. Am I overreacting/being too sensitive or do I have a right to feel this way?

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

It sounds like he's making an attempt being funny, but body jokes generally are not very welcome in most relationships. My wife and I will celebrate 20 years of marriage, this spring, and I might joke about her behind, but rest assured, she knows that I find her attractive and has no reasons to worry.

[Roudyrebel8]

He shouldn't be berating you or making jokes about your body! And fyi there's nothing wrong with a girl that has a small ass

[Levin]

You need to set stronger boundaries.

Your boyfriend is a knobhead.

[Squatting_Slav]

Maybe say something back about his size (jk). But tell him his comments are not welcome and outright rude and it's a boundary you want to set with him. Sometimes these guys need humbling

[SotiCoto]

Stop being a rake.
Eat some cake.

[Anonymous]

But yet he's still your boyfriend